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Friday, August 7, 2015,

திருமணம் செய்துகொண்டு, சண்டைபோட்டு விவாகரத்து பெறுவதைக் காட்டிலும் லிவிங் டுகெதர் உறவில் வாழ்ந்து பிரிவது மேலானது என்கிறார் நடிகை த்ரிஷா. Living Together is Trisha's choice

ஒரு தொழிலதிபருடன் த்ரிஷாவுக்கு திருமணம் நிச்சயமாகி, கடைசி நேரத்தில் திருமணம் ரத்தானது நினைவிருக்கலாம். இப்போது திருமணமே வேண்டாம் என்ற மனநிலைக்கு வந்துவிட்ட த்ரிஷா, திருமணம் செய்துகொள்ளாமல் சேர்ந்து வாழ்வது நல்லது என்று கூற ஆரம்பித்துள்ளார்.

Living Together is Trisha's choice இது தொடர்பாக அவர் சமீபத்தில் அளித்துள்ள ஒரு பேட்டியில், "லிவிங் டுகெதர் முறை உறவு ஒவ்வொருவரின் தனிப்பட்ட விருப்பம். சம்பந்தப்பட்ட இரண்டு பேருக்கும் அவர்களின் குடும்பத்துக்கும் இந்த உறவு சரி என்று தோன்றினால், பிறகு அதில் வேறு எந்தப் பிரச்னையும் இருக்கக் கூடாது. திருமணம் செய்து, கருத்து வேறுபாடுகளால் விவாகரத்து பெற கோர்ட் படிகளில் ஏறுவதைக் காட்டிலும், லிவிங் டுகெதர் உறவில் இருந்து பிரிவது மேலானது, சிக்கலில்லாதது என நினைக்கிறேன்," என்றார்.



http://tamil.filmibeat.com/heroines/living-together-is-trisha-s-choice-036087.html
 
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அடக் கடவுளே! த்ரிஷா சொல்லுவதற்கெல்லாம் ஒரு இழையா? :shocked:
 
In our conventional marriages of old timers , many lived in married relationships for almost a lifetime without much communication with each other. It never struck either party

that they could separate also and do well. Divorces were unheard of and both carried on with a sense of duty upto the end under the same roof. Some men took

mistresses with whom they could relate better than wives and wives put up with it for reason mostly economic.This generation is openly discussing which is better-

Divorce after marrying or live in.Which is better -an open society where both sexes can freely debate their life preferances or old closed society with conventional half

dead marriages of old folks with pretence of happy long married life.

timers
 
A live-in relationship is an arrangement of living where the couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly to marriage. In 2010, the SC in its landmark judgment had opined that a man and woman living together without marriage cannot be construed as an offence. "When two adult people want to live together what is the offence. Does it amount to an offence? Living together is not an offence. It cannot be an offence," a three judge bench of Chief Justice K G Balakrishnan, Deepak Verma and B S Chuhan said in S Khushboo's case.


Even before that, various high courts have maintained that living together is not a crime but a right to life.

Many lawyers believe that a live-in relationship should not be considered illegal and a woman should get protection from law against any abuse from her partner even when she is in a live-in relationship and not married. It, however, should only be subject to two unmarried people who are in a live-in relationship.

"The courts are moving in the right direction, rather, towards a centre by coming out with a progressive view on the subject. Women rights are also human rights and she should be entitled to the relief. However, a live-in relationship between a woman and a man, who is already married is still illegal and rightly so. Bigamy is against the law," said noted lawyer Meenakshi Lekhi.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...ations-gain-traction/articleshow/20887088.cms



Because Ambis are not getting Married nowadays, and young Girls are also becoming Maamis by postponing their Marriage, this may be an option open to them !!
 
hi

living together always advantage for boys...NOW A DAYS LEASE SYSTEM MAKES LIFE SIMPLE....VEHICLE LEASE ....HOUSE

LEASE..... WIFE IS ALSO FOR LEASE....EVERY 2 YRS/....WE GET NEW CAR/HOME/WIFE TOO...NOTHING PERMANENT
 
P.J. said:
A live-in relationship is an arrangement of living where the couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly to marriage.

Because Ambis are not getting Married nowadays, and young Girls are also becoming Maamis by postponing their Marriage, this may be an option open to them !!
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A live-in relationship is an arrangement of living.........
I am told this arrangement exist in Chennai in OMR belt. The father of one of the boys living in Velacherry, approached me to find out a way for counselling his son.

Ambis may not have guts otherwise they might have love-married somebody else.
But on the other hand Mamis preferences are different not ambis..
 
Fine as long as there are no 'issues'. Once the living in size increases in numbers, i.e. children, problems crop up. The unwed pregnant girl insisting on marriage has been admonished by the court for taking the plunge with full knowledge. Till proper laws are framed, inheritance, separation, right to get custody of children, alimony - judges will have a field day giving conflicting verdicts.

It is not that simple. I know a case in bangaluru - the girl girl one day walked out with all accumulated joint assets - furniture, gadgets, vehicle, 'gifts'. When the neighbours questioned when the removal van was getting loaded, the girl duped them saying they were relocating to another city. It is better if the two sign an agreement on division of assets and debts.
 
I know a girl whose generosity extended to leaving the gas connection to the boy whom she deserted . She sweetly said 'you can keep it or else you will be

inconvenienced'. How generous.
 
In Indonesia live in's are quite common...Arranged for expats (including Indians)...The woman wil, take care of all your needs!
 
It is not that simple. I know a case in bangaluru - the girl girl one day walked out with all accumulated joint assets - furniture, gadgets, vehicle, 'gifts'. When the neighbours questioned when the removal van was getting loaded, the girl duped them saying they were relocating to another city. It is better if the two sign an agreement on division of assets and debts.
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True . There is no free lunch . Every form of relationship ( conventional and unconventional ) has its own positives and negatives . Today live in is seen as getting the best of marriage minus the responsibilities of the same and it may workout in the short term but not in the long term .
 
vgane said:
In Indonesia live in's are quite common...Arranged for expats (including Indians)...The woman wil, take care of all your needs!
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In April 2015 I visited Malaysia for a family function ( all my cousins are there ) and I found that each of my cosuins house had an Indonesian /Philippines Maid for full time and they had trained the maids to do even South Indian cooking . I am not aware of the Live in Concept in Indonesia but feel just like how Biharis are employed now in various parts of India for low cost labor , it seems the Indonesian and Phillipaines women are also used in a simiar way in Malaysia and other places .
 
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To make marriages attractive instead of live, our divorce laws should be made easy so that people can marry and get out of relationships easily.

Our legal procedures are slow and most in bad marriages have to suffer a lot when they want termination.

Marriages ,specially arranged ones have become highly risky propositions.

the chances of incompatibilty and failure are ever increasing in changed economic scenario.

most try to postpone a marriage commitment and try escape or alternative propositions to marriage .

most of brahmin girls abroad take the divorce route easily there. After the divorce, most would think a lot before getting into any relationship'

matrimonial sites are full of brahmin girls divorced abroad. None of them want a match from india nor want to return to india and settle here with anyone.

Divorced girls in india behave like cats which have tasted hot milk and swear off all boys.

Only their parents are keen that these girls should marry again.
 
Living to=gether cannot Be expected to get Fusion in Sexual life ,at best could be JUST 2 pieces to-gether , emotions may come & Go, because Both have No serious responsibility , anytime with short notice can LEAVE the other ?
It is all FUN can this ever be taken as Marriage , in the sense we know--- is AAyiram Kalathu Payir , growse/ Matures / one with Society/ bear responsibility to Neighbours / Friends / ensure cohesion & have Sorrows & Happiness at the same time . That is Speciality of Brahminism I attribute all wrongs we witness & claimed to be the Right thing are the effect of KALIYUGA, which has passed only about 6000 years
Elders beyond 70 can analyse the happenings with all religious pravachanams heard in the last 50/ 60 years

A.Srinivasan
 
hi

this LIVE IN THEORY ....for upper class its okay......for lowest class is also okay....ONLY MIDDLE CLASS HAS PROBLEM...
 
tbs garu
it is better sometimes to opt for a change of class when it comes to marriage.

marry a rich or poor girl ,never a middle class girl.HA HA
 
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