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4 Great Reasons To Get Married That Have Nothing To Do With Love

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The trend in marriage after 50 is to avoid it. One in three Baby Boomers is unmarried, and of that number 58% are divorced and 32% were never married, according to analysis of 2009 data by the Department of Sociology at Bowling Green State University. But with the economy the way it is—not great—and with many of us having to continue working instead of enjoying that once dreamed about early retirement, marriage might not be such a bad idea—for economic reasons.
Reason #1: Marry for the hospital visit

“A Durable Power of Attorney can help, but a marriage partner is usually recognized with no fuss,” she says, before hospital management or hospital boards have to intervene.
Reason #2: Say yes to the insurance
The spouse gets health insurance

Reason #3: It makes dollars and sense
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a Los Angeles psychologist who works largely with couples in relationship turmoil, says marrying for economic reasons is not a bad idea. Marriage, she says, is a utilitarian institution that our culture has over-romanticized. Issues like insurance, retirement income, household expenses, and even shared social security benefits, are all important, valid concerns.
Reason #4: Sometimes, meeting the status quo makes things easier


Committed older partners, says Durvasula, may decide it makes sense to work within a system they don't agree with, because “our institutional structures are set up to incentivize marriage.”

These reasons may apply to people in USA only.

4 Reasons Women Get Married After 50
 
After 50? Who marries a 50 year old woman??


Most old males especially males over 50 want young sexy trophy wives and so I am wondering who these 50 over women are marrying? Someone in the morgue?
 
After 50? Who marries a 50 year old woman??


Most old males especially males over 50 want young sexy trophy wives and so I am wondering who these 50 over women are marrying? Someone in the morgue?
renukaji
men can aspire for young ladies.but they can marry only those they can get. there are many middle aged ladies looking for a match and getting them also. besides most ladies who are married continue in loveless marriages as it an economic issue. A known evil is preferable to no company or being a widow.times are hard . ladies require health care and husbands pension as children are ungrateful. in india only a foolish woman will try to separate from husband
 
After 50? Who marries a 50 year old woman??


Most old males especially males over 50 want young sexy trophy wives and so I am wondering who these 50 over women are marrying? Someone in the morgue?
Renukaji,
I suppose you did not read my post in its entirety.
These reasons may apply to people in USA only.

I do not think Indian women is at this position yet.
But I am seeing Indian professionals living in large metro cities face similar situation.
 
Renukaji,
I suppose you did not read my post in its entirety.


I do not think Indian women is at this position yet.
But I am seeing Indian professionals living in large metro cities face similar situation.


Dear Prasad ji,

I read that part but from what I know hardly any men want to marry a 50 over female.

Even out here males divorcees aged 45 itself are not willing to marry fellow divorcees in their 30's..they want young unmarried girls in their late 20's.


You would be surprised to know the conditions divorcee males place these days..the most shocking is they would only marry a fellow divorcee with a child if the woman did not have a normal child birth but delivered via C section(operation) so that the reproductive canal would still be in virginal proportions.


Too many terms and conditions some Indian males place for a fellow Indian female divorcee but when it comes to marrying other races all these terms and conditions do not apply.
 
Dear Prasad ji,

I read that part but from what I know hardly any men want to marry a 50 over female.

Even out here males divorcees aged 45 itself are not willing to marry fellow divorcees in their 30's..they want young unmarried girls in their late 20's.

You would be surprised to know the conditions divorcee males place these days..the most shocking is they would only marry a fellow divorcee with a child if the woman did not have a normal child birth but delivered via C section(operation) so that the reproductive canal would still be in virginal proportions....

[FONT=&quot]In Malaysia, Islam is the state religion since it has muslim majority which expects to be entertained by 12 (or is it 21) virgins in the here-after. No surprise in holding similar expectations in the here-and-now.[/FONT]
 
In Malaysia, Islam is the state religion since it has muslim majority which expects to be entertained by 12 (or is it 21) virgins in the here-after. No surprise in holding similar expectations in the here-and-now.

Well not much different from our own Puranas which mention a host of Apsaras to entertain males and have fun with rishis doing tapasya and also celestial damsels to entertain men who make it to heaven and have a romp with these celestials in the famous Ariel cars of heavens!LOL

What I cant understand is ..one has to behave so well in this world to get into heaven according to our Puranas but when one dies and goes to heaven they are allowed to misbehave in heaven and why are female Apsaras employed as sex workers? as in Urvasi Urvasi Take It Policy but on earth sex workers are looked down upon?? Weird right??


Anyway come to think of it men from all religions do get virgins where ever they go and we females should demand for equal rights to have 6 packed male celestials or may be females can go to hell and meet the Azhagiya Asuras!LOL
 
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I thought it was 72.Looks like behest may have a virgin factory!

[FONT=&quot]In Malaysia, Islam is the state religion since it has muslim majority which expects to be entertained by 12 (or is it 21) virgins in the here-after. No surprise in holding similar expectations in the here-and-now.[/FONT]
 
What if a fellow is gay :-)

They don't get a chance to go to heavens. They have been beheaded, hung and stoned in Saudi Arabia and Iran. Five other Muslim countries also have the death penalty on their books for homosexual behavior. In the past, gays were burned as well. The only point of theological debate is over how the offender should be killed.
The reason why the one to whom a homosexual act is done is to be executed - islamqa.info

PS: [FONT=&quot]After clicking on the above link, try to click also on NewFatwas link on the left column of the page and scroll down to Qn 99. [/FONT]
 
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Well not much different from our own Puranas which mention a host of Apsaras to entertain males and have fun with rishis doing tapasya and also celestial damsels to entertain men who make it to heaven and have a romp with these celestials in the famous Ariel cars of heavens!LOL

What I cant understand is ..one has to behave so well in this world to get into heaven according to our Puranas but when one dies and goes to heaven they are allowed to misbehave in heaven and why are female Apsaras employed as sex workers? as in Urvasi Urvasi Take It Policy but on earth sex workers are looked down upon?? Weird right??


Anyway come to think of it men from all religions do get virgins where ever they go and we females should demand for equal rights to have 6 packed male celestials or may be females can go to hell and meet the Azhagiya Asuras!LOL

Dear Doctor,

Wow. What a great thought provoking philosophy. I really moved by your writing. Where did you get all these quotations and sarcastic comments. You are emboldened to do so. It keeps you in high esteem in our forum. Best wishes.
 
Dear Doctor,

Wow. What a great thought provoking philosophy. I really moved by your writing. Where did you get all these quotations and sarcastic comments. You are emboldened to do so. It keeps you in high esteem in our forum. Best wishes.

Dear Dikshita Ji,

I am sure you must be knowing that such stories are found in our Puranas ..so you see most religions have an obsession with virgins.

In Puranas all these virgins are called Apsaras...thats all.

Well its a male's world right?

I am glad that my post provoked your thoughts..will do so more in the future.

P.S. I have noticed that we Hindus shoot out about the virgin theory of other religions without realizing that our own Puranas have Apsaras for similar social service..so what is the big difference?
 
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Are you sure the apsara's were virgins? Or, They are more like sex workers from some other parts of world.
 
Are you sure the apsara's were virgins? Or, They are more like sex workers from some other parts of world.

Ok here is the story..I know about the other religion virgin theory..that is after each encounter they are automatically revirginized!

So I guess our Apasaras are also having the auto revirginization.

Our Puranas are full of revirginization episodes.

1)Sathyavathi after giving birth to Veda Vyasa was revirginized.

2)Kunti was revirginized after she gave birth to Karna.


Another possibility...May be its like "Men in Black" movie where they have the auto memory erase to make people forget they saw aliens....so may be its auto memory erase for all occupants of heaven that they forget they had an encounter and they have no idea they are not having virgins!LOL
 
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Let us not forget Draupadi.

Ok here is the story..I know about the other religion virgin theory..that is after each encounter they are automatically revirginized!

So I guess our Apasaras are also having the auto revirginization.

Our Puranas are full of revirginization episodes.

1)Sathyavathi after giving birth to Veda Vyasa was revirginized.

2)Kunti was revirginized after she gave birth to Karna.


Another possibility...May be its like "Men in Black" movie where they have the auto memory erase to make people forget they saw aliens....so may be its auto memory erase for all occupants of heaven that they forget they had an encounter and they have no idea they are not having virgins!LOL
 
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