My suggestions are :1.We must start our own political party and we must get some representation to voice our concerns in assembly or parlimentThis will help our younger generation to get some reliefMy daughter has scored 97.33% in Plus 2 and she was district first(Vellore) but still we could not get MBBS seatWhy ? due to reservation policiesWe must align with good political party and we must ask our quotaWe have every right to question them and today we are most backward economicallyStill we should not curd rice and should not sit at homePeople must be ready to fight outRegardsS.GANESANMuscat
Shri Ganesan,
Brahmins constitute a very small percentage of population in most states of India - highest is in the erstwhile UP and near about 10% I think. Becasue brahmins had been held in the highest esteem by all other Hindus for thousands of years and since the brahmins alone knew, interpreted and explained all the difficult and intricate points relating to the scriptures, they (brahmins) in most parts of India had gradually assumed a sense of superiority, the other side of which is high individualistic position tending to the egotistical in many of us. You ask the poor brahmin making curry powder, pickles, vadaams etc., door-to-door, carrying two or three heavy bags whether he will sweep the floor of your house for extra-payment of a good amount, and you will see rage in his face. Ask the same thing to the NB paperwalla and he will accept and say he will do it in the evening, send his wife during the day or somehow do the job and get the income. (This is my actual experience.) Reason is that the brahmin still considers doing menial work under someone else as demeaning and an insult to him, though he is virtually told off in every house which is no longer interested in his home-made pickles and all that.
If this is the mindset of a BPL brahmin, you can just think of people like the members here, some of whom will come at the very top of the brahmin rich. There is a saying hundred brahmins and hundred and one rules; in the same way hundred brahmins will soon split to make 101 parties.
Coming to your specific problem, do you sincerely feel that the tabras who wax eloquent here against reservation are really bothered about its effects? IMO, not at all, as I see from many cases of my relatives living in TN. The members here have only this one valid point to score over the kazhagam parties and they want to make full use of it in a Forum like this, in their spare time, and that too without any harm to them or their family; the "double tumbler" system, atrocities against the dalits reportedly being indulged in by NBFCs etc., are added because some of the FC people are able to get Backward caste certificates and thus they overcome the reservation block against them. And tabras are just unable to skirt the reservation blockade as these NBs do.
(For example "viLakki thala naayar" (old barber or "kshurakan" "ampattan" in Malayalam) belongs to OBC now and some nairs may be able to get a caste certificate as viLakki thala naayar. But I know for a fact that people belonging to many castes started taking up barber's job for their livelihood once upon a time and their descendents now will surely benefit because no Tahsildar will be having records to show that they were not viLakki thala naayar.
Such things happened, at least in Kerala, because the historical tendency of Namboothiris was to classify people and castes as low, pertaining to the lowest sudra category so that the power and pelf enjoyed by them, the Namboodiris, is not claimed by any one else. As one foreign sociologist remarked in his book on Travancore, if only the Namboothiris had the foresight and large heartedness to allow Namboothiri status to - at the least - all the male children born of their extra-marital "sambandhams" with the lowest caste women, Kerala today will have been a predominantly Namboodiri country and the proselytisation from those lowest castes would also have been significantly less, since a person born of a lowest caste mother getting the Namboodiri status could never have been induced by the Christian missionaries to switch faith.)
I cannot definitely say the evolution in TN (may be HappyHindu will be able to say authoritatively) but tabras also seem to be paying the price for their practice of exclusivity once upon a time.
As Shri Kunjuppu says, better future may be awaiting your daughter. So, please don't think that a medical admission is the summum bonum of her life. My best wishes for a bright future for her.