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Can't we make our postings less aggressive?.....

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GANESH65

GANESH65

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Off late it is noticed that great amount of aggression is applied in postings by honorable members. Friends, we are here to share our views not force our views upon every other member. Members who read it may accept our views or remain neutral or even oppose it in case they don't find it to their liking. All of us enjoy the same amount of freedom of expression and share same amount of responsibility to keep the forum free of aggression. Whatever we are writing on the wall of this forum remains here only and don't think it grows anything beyond that. In case some of your views are opposed or objected by any member please try to treat it with due respect and accept if you feel the other member is right or press your points once again in an acceptable and polite manner. So much usage of choicest vocabularies not going to help any cause except increasing your own blood pressure. Let us all abide by the ceasefire regulations for peaceful existence of any forum and make life our moderator also peaceful.. Thank you all....
 
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Off late it is noticed that great amount of aggression is applied in postings by honorable members. Friends, we are here to share our views not force our views upon every other member. Members who read it may accept our views or remain neutral or even oppose it in case they don't find it to their liking. All of us enjoy the same amount of freedom of expression and share same amount of responsibility to keep the forum free of aggression. Whatever we are writing on the wall of this forum remains here only and don't think it grows anything beyond that. In case some of your views are opposed or objected by any member please try to treat it with due respect and accept if you feel the other member is right or press your points once again in an acceptable and polite manner. So much usage of choicest vocabularies not going to help any cause except increasing your own blood pressure. Let us all abide by the ceasefire regulations for peaceful existence of any forum and make life our moderator also peaceful.. Thank you all....
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Well said.
But sometimes passion expressed is good, it adds to the situation. I do agree with your sentiment.
 
Dear Ganesh Ji,

Every member of this Forum is busy with his own engagements, commitments, schedule of duties, entertainment, pass time, habits, recreation, exercise, etc

One rarely finds time to spare with such Forum activities, except a few who are blessed to spend more time.

I have a passion to learn and a thirst for knowledge and this Forum is a proved source and I keep learning something new on areas of religion, spirituality, etc

As you may be knowing that every coin has two sides and every topic has points of pros and cons.

And as you may be also knowing that two clocks won’t agree.

I am happy to spend my limited time in this Forum by learning and not by active participation more particularly as I believe, I am a learner.

I love healthy and lively debates.

As for your point of being less aggressive, I am for that. But there are few who shoot posting as my friend has pointed out without aim, at times closing their eyes and at times in the dark, etc etc

And there are few who shoot postings with an intention of triggering , instigating or provoking the other.

For example, today in one thread, an erudite member has just used the word ‘fool’s paradise’ which could have been well avoided. Anyway he used it and I have to reciprocate.

Now how will you react?

I don't know with whom in mind, this posting was shot, but I take this in good spirit and try to be more polite and courteous in my language.
 
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Dear Bala Sir,

Thanks for your views, let me assure you that the above thread is not against anyone in particular but it should be seen as a general statement. If you closely watch couple of threads for the past week, many posts by our honorable members were allegations and counter allegations and high tempered exchanges which totally deviated from the subject of original post. I again request all our members not to take my post as personal against any body. I am not here to hurt anybody's sentiments. Just exchange valuable information, share jokes, enjoy the fun...
 
GANESH65 said:
Dear Bala Sir,

Thanks for your views, let me assure you that the above thread is not against anyone in particular but it should be seen as a general statement. If you closely watch couple of threads for the past week, many posts by our honorable members were allegations and counter allegations and high tempered exchanges which totally deviated from the subject of original post. I again request all our members not to take my post as personal against any body. I am not here to hurt anybody's sentiments. Just exchange valuable information, share jokes, enjoy the fun...
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Again I agree with your view.
There should not be veiled charges, If you have personal comment address it to the person. Secondly don't retaliate, it only escalates the problem. If there is personal attacks or objectionable comments, report it.
If a comment is made against your post it just might be opposing views, and not personal attacks. Please don't wear your emotions on your sleeve. Hold it.
 
GANESH65 said:
Off late it is noticed that great amount of aggression is applied in postings by honorable members. Friends, we are here to share our views not force our views upon every other member. Members who read it may accept our views or remain neutral or even oppose it in case they don't find it to their liking. All of us enjoy the same amount of freedom of expression and share same amount of responsibility to keep the forum free of aggression. Whatever we are writing on the wall of this forum remains here only and don't think it grows anything beyond that. In case some of your views are opposed or objected by any member please try to treat it with due respect and accept if you feel the other member is right or press your points once again in an acceptable and polite manner. So much usage of choicest vocabularies not going to help any cause except increasing your own blood pressure. Let us all abide by the ceasefire regulations for peaceful existence of any forum and make life our moderator also peaceful.. Thank you all....
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Quite inspirational, Ganeshji It is in everybody's interest to stay polite with their posts. Nothing is to be achieved with objectionable posts or arguments except little bit of mental tension.
 
Dear Ganesh Sir,
A good suggestion! :clap2: But I guess people don't change so easily! :)

I have different POV from Renu on some issues but we never indulge in name calling! :nono:

There is always a civil way to deny other's views. :cool:
 
Thank you very much Prasad Sir & Raji Ram Mam, for understanding and appreciating my stand.
 
GANESH65 said:
Off late it is noticed that great amount of aggression is applied in postings by honorable members. Friends, we are here to share our views not force our views upon every other member. Members who read it may accept our views or remain neutral or even oppose it in case they don't find it to their liking. All of us enjoy the same amount of freedom of expression and share same amount of responsibility to keep the forum free of aggression. Whatever we are writing on the wall of this forum remains here only and don't think it grows anything beyond that. In case some of your views are opposed or objected by any member please try to treat it with due respect and accept if you feel the other member is right or press your points once again in an acceptable and polite manner. So much usage of choicest vocabularies not going to help any cause except increasing your own blood pressure. Let us all abide by the ceasefire regulations for peaceful existence of any forum and make life our moderator also peaceful.. Thank you all....
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hi ganesh sir,

i agreed with u....here sometimes more individual EGO and more show off their knowledge....this is very simple forum....

just common man like me to understand more useful.....but two/more individual problems are shown in forum....

sometimes they can't show their problems with their family members...they show their anger in public here.....

this is my 2 cents....just for ur OP..my purely understandings here....generally TBs are more EGOISTIC AND

VERY SELF CENTRED WITH HYPOCRATIC....
 
tbs;3nt:55221 said:
...generally TBs are more EGOISTIC AND VERY SELF CENTRED WITH HYPOCRATIC....
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:lol: Don't you think this is B B?? :rant:

There are :angel:s in tambrahm community, T B S Sir and you are one. :D
 
GANESH65 said:
Off late it is noticed that great amount of aggression is applied in postings by honorable members. Friends, we are here to share our views not force our views upon every other member. Members who read it may accept our views or remain neutral or even oppose it in case they don't find it to their liking. All of us enjoy the same amount of freedom of expression and share same amount of responsibility to keep the forum free of aggression. Whatever we are writing on the wall of this forum remains here only and don't think it grows anything beyond that. In case some of your views are opposed or objected by any member please try to treat it with due respect and accept if you feel the other member is right or press your points once again in an acceptable and polite manner. So much usage of choicest vocabularies not going to help any cause except increasing your own blood pressure. Let us all abide by the ceasefire regulations for peaceful existence of any forum and make life our moderator also peaceful.. Thank you all....
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Dear Ganesh ji,

Thank you for your lovely attempt to make members thread the lines of live and let live.

I really appreciate your good intention for everyone here.

Thanks again.
 
Thanks every one for understanding the post in its best spirits. Let's all spread the true spirit of Non (verbal) violence!
 
my cheers to those who are good in SPIRITS!!

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In such cases, I mean members who are good in SPIRITS, one can fight for 'freedom of slurred speech'. Lol
 
I think aggression in debates and discussions is fine. Only that it should not become a barrage of fire against the individual...
 
krish44 said:
God forgive them, they know not what they are doing.
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hi

nice words....just add....OH GOD.......FORGIVE THEM....like shivaji dialogue in GNANA OLI.....INTHA MANDHAIL ORU AADU

PIRINTHU SENTRATHU....MANNIPEER AGA...KARTHARE.....
 
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