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Another practical issue I am telling: I Tamil Brahmin Family near to where we stayed. The daughter was in love with his own uncle's son. But father doesn't like his family. Mother's own brother's son. The father comes to know even saw them meeting and hit the girl with his belt and gone wild of objection. They it seems broken it saying the boy doesn't like the girl get hurt. She was employed and in that place she loved a boy as they both liked each other. He is is Christian. Although father heard it but do not have a concrete proof. One fine day she get Registered Marriage and wrote a telegram to father about it followed by a letter. Those times these land telephone not possible everywhere.

Here who is responsible. Father's Ego of objection and criticism of his brother in law. Actually there was an technical issue in his government job and he was not in the job but fighting the case. After many years how our legal system functions; he succeeded in his legal case and he reported to work and after a week his retirement by age. Hecgot all the promotions, the lost salary and served for a week in his higher post and retired. But his children educated and supported him. These Ego making the family broke.

Another issue I read and saw in YouTube. A poor boy 18 years or little above. Don't have a job trying to get a job. A Sastrigal saw him and asked him ""Abhaya kariyam, varuvaya"" he immediately accepted. Then he went with the Sastrigal and did all his instructions. Later he becomes a person for such matters. He is married and I saw him with his wife in 9 yards saree with his child. He met Mahaperiyava also. Mahaperiyava blessed him and said you are the sear of God and doing last rites arrangements is really a great job and no one expect how his body is going to get the honor of last rites. After that he never regret but very sincerely do it with honor.

So circumstances are different.