Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother

[P.J.]

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Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother

Dear mom,


Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming.



But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.


I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family.
I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day.
I am expected to be presentable every time.
I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
I am expected to be active and around the family.

I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.


And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.


I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you.


And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. Love you.
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Source:A Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother Blog by Myalmightygod

 

[renuka]

And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.

I guess her sex life sucks..hence she wants to go back to mum!

 

[renuka]

I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family.
I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day.
I am expected to be presentable every time.
I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
I am expected to be active and around the family.



Source:A Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother Blog by Myalmightygod

What a horrible girl!

Which proper female would laze around in the house in pyjamas even at her parents home?

Doesnt she know to get up early..have a bath and be fresh and presentable.

This girl does not know how to groom herself.

Even after donkey years of marriage..I still wake up before my husband and be well groomed so that when he wakes up he sees a fresh nice face.

Who wants to look like some ugly dirty female in the morning?

 

[JR]

Really, it takes a lot of adjustment to live in someone else's house! It does not come easy and without compromises.

After settling in USA, once my sis-in-law visited me for 10 days... though it was 'my home', it still demanded me to make a lot of adjustments... main one being making fresh food each day despite work schedule, not being able to go to bed early and having the compulsion to give company till 10:00 PM, etc. I found it a drag... it felt like 10 days was like 1 or 2 months... but then my sis-in-law became quite ultra-friendly and she did help me around with some of the stuff... so it was nice. These days however, none of us plan on a 10-day trip to each others' home! We make it short and quick 1 or 2 days despite she living in a 4-hr drive away.

Yes, I can feel for this girl's complaints...

 

[renuka]

Dear JR,

When I got married I was working in a different state and my husband was working in a different state.

His house was 2 hours away from where I was posted.

So I rented a house and stayed alone most of the while for 1 year..He used to visit me every 2 days.

So I was practically alone and did not have any problems with anyone.

After 1 year when I switched jobs I started staying with my husband in a house we both bought.

So there was no one for me to adjust too cos its just me and husband and by then I already had my son.

When I started staying with my husband I used to visit my inlaws every week and my MIL used to prepare lunch whenever we visited them.

 

[JR]

Renuka,

I'm really worried about having to make those adjustments with the 'sambandhis' of my son and daughter, because everything is a commitment, you have work through new schedules and be hospitable and nice to frequent visits from them all... boy, I'm nervous now!

So in that perspective, I see the difficulty this girl has to go through, right? I have a friend in FB who is married and settled with in-laws and she tells me initially it took quite an adjustment with the MIL. Even now, she replies to me in odd times, like early morning 4:00 AM, 4:30 AM, etc and though she is only 39, all the time she talks about visiting temples... not that I think it is wrong, but I feel she is under restrictions to meet with aged in-laws' wishes...

 

[renuka]

Renuka,

I'm really worried about having to make those adjustments with the 'sambandhis' of my son and daughter, because everything is a commitment, you have work through new schedules and be hospitable and nice to frequent visits from them all... boy, I'm nervous now!

..

I have the same fears too cos I really dont feel comfortable with visits.

I hope my son marries a girl who has a mother like me!LOL

You see I lead a very simple life..no showy stuff etc..so I really hope I get like minded simple sambandhis like me.

There are many people of my own status who lead showy lives..I can never adjust with such crowds.

 

[krish44]

The above posts appear to be outpourings of women who married fifteen to twenty years back who had to adjust to

families of different mindset. these days married employed girls do not put up with or adjust to anyones requirements

and needs. others adjust to their ways.


the husband attends to her needs. mother inlaw pampers her more then her daughter.

father in law has to look after his DIL and her parents .and visit son only if they are not with daughter and son inlaw.

most girls prefer to keep her parentswith her if possible.

this is he indian reality.

pjsir is living in dream world.

 

[V.Balasubramani]

Living with parents is different from living with in-laws family.

How long a girl can be under the care of her parents?

Is not she supposed to lead a life of her own?

In most of the families the DIL brings in money as her salary and this makes the difference.
Bcos of this supplementary, she will be treated like a VIP and taken care off well.

In the case of home maker, it is a pity. Since she don’t bring any money, she has to necessarily toil with the workaholic husband mostly, difficult mother-in-law who expects everything do be done in her way or according to her wish, accusing father-in-law, etc etc The list of don’t will be very lengthy. It is a pity in deed.

Only level headed girls are capable of dealing with such families efficiently.

 

[krish44]

vbji
no one forced ladies to be homemakers and sit t home and complain of ill treatment by husband and inlaws.

many women have this mindset that marriage is the ultimate objective of life and be an useless caged homebird

complaining against all and suffering from self pity.

women should have basic self worth.and everyone should be capable of making a living on their own.if they do not

have these qualities , they are bound to be treated badly.

even men who cannot do well professionally or have uncertain incomes are treated badly.

I have no sympathy for either class of people

 

[tbs]

vbji
no one forced ladies to be homemakers and sit t home and complain of ill treatment by husband and inlaws.

many women have this mindset that marriage is the ultimate objective of life and be an useless caged homebird

complaining against all and suffering from self pity.

women should have basic self worth.and everyone should be capable of making a living on their own.if they do not

have these qualities , they are bound to be treated badly.

even men who cannot do well professionally or have uncertain incomes are treated badly.

I have no sympathy for either class of people

hi sir

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