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The issue stated has nothing to do with white boy, brahmin girl etc. It will be better if any 18 year old does not get emotionally entangled with any guy. Of course such reasoning will not work with the girl because she has tuned out (rightfully so) her parents.

These so called orthodox TB tend to be narrow minded and think they are special because they are being strict. While there are exceptions, most are actually hypocrites. The parents have obviously lost their abilities to communicate with their daughter who is making a statement. Also attraction between young girl and boy is but natural.

Here are the only few thing they can do. Let go of their self definition of being orthodox brahmin etc. Learn to relate to the feelings of their daughter. Acknowledge her feelings and teach her not to get entangled with anyone at this point her life.. If she wants to go on a date, let that be dating with other couples and not one on one.

If all these fail, it is not the end of the world. The girl may still do fine in life in the end, Accept the result as will of God (assuming they are theist).

<blockquote data-quote="a-TB" data-source="post: 452357" data-attributes="member: 43368">The issue stated has nothing to do with white boy, brahmin girl etc. It will be better if any 18 year old does not get emotionally entangled with any guy. Of course such reasoning will not work with the girl because she has tuned out (rightfully so) her parents.&nbsp; These so called orthodox TB tend to be narrow minded and think they are special because they are being strict. While there are exceptions, most are actually hypocrites. The parents have obviously lost their abilities to communicate with their daughter who is making a statement. Also attraction between young girl and boy is but natural.Here are the only few thing they can do. Let go of their self definition of being orthodox brahmin etc.&nbsp; Learn to relate to the feelings of their daughter. Acknowledge her feelings and teach her not to get entangled with anyone at this point her life.. If she wants to go on a date, let that be dating with other couples and not one on one. If all these fail, it is not the end of the world.&nbsp; The girl may still do fine in life in the end,&nbsp; Accept the result as will of God (assuming they are theist).</blockquote>

[QUOTE="a-TB, post: 452357, member: 43368"] The issue stated has nothing to do with white boy, brahmin girl etc. It will be better if any 18 year old does not get emotionally entangled with any guy. Of course such reasoning will not work with the girl because she has tuned out (rightfully so) her parents. These so called orthodox TB tend to be narrow minded and think they are special because they are being strict. While there are exceptions, most are actually hypocrites. The parents have obviously lost their abilities to communicate with their daughter who is making a statement. Also attraction between young girl and boy is but natural. Here are the only few thing they can do. Let go of their self definition of being orthodox brahmin etc. Learn to relate to the feelings of their daughter. Acknowledge her feelings and teach her not to get entangled with anyone at this point her life.. If she wants to go on a date, let that be dating with other couples and not one on one. If all these fail, it is not the end of the world. The girl may still do fine in life in the end, Accept the result as will of God (assuming they are theist). [/QUOTE]

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