Every one is entitled to his opinion and free to voice his/her thoughts
Here I would like to share my childhood days experience
In our village, there was an aged poor lady who was hired by few to fetch water from the roadside tap. Whenever, she comes to fetch water with a pot, the road side gang of undesirable youths used to call her சின்னபொண்ணு. She, who got insulted, annoyed, will immediately start throwing brick bats (at times using vulgar words) against this gang and this will go on for some time. Again, after sometime, this undesirable incident will be repeated, till the water supply stops.
Now, we practice complex rituals called 16 samskarams viz Pregnancy, childbirth, education, marriage, death, etc. Right from Garbhadana, Pumsavana, .. and finally Anthima samskarams.
Tomorrow, there will be a query by some Tom, Dick or Harry as to a Brahmin girl getting pregnant after marrying a white boy. What will be his gothram and how to perform these rituals or vice-versa.
Most of us are armed with more knowledge and are capable of giving more tips and advice. Why don’t we wait before contributing our valuable inputs.
Of course, some of us may think that we are Holier-than-thou.
Let us prove that we are wise, elite and erudite in our conversations and try to maintain order.
Avoid falling prey to such queries (who knows it is genuine?)
If it is really genuine, there is archive where one can easily find out ample solutions. What for than archive is maintained...?
Else, you are free to keep the fire burning....and it is your choice anyway.
Thanks for the response and would like to ignore this derailed thread
SHIVOHAM....SHIVOHAM ..SHIVOHAM....SHIVOHAM 
PS: For heaven's don't drag ............Harries and ..........Gopalan please.
