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Elders being abused at home-A sad state of affairs

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Daughter in law is main cause of abuse..Across 12 cities, 65% elderly females and 57% elderly males have identified her as chief tormentor while 60% elderly males & 58% elderly females point a finger at their son


We need to take care of elders..Bangalore is worst

Survey points to elder abuse


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The Hindu Against 23 per cent of respondents admitting to experiencing abuse last year, the percentage now stands at 50. Photo: M. Karunakaran



Report released ahead of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day


About 50 per cent of the elderly surveyed across 12 cities in the country admit to having experienced abuse.


The report by HelpAge India, released ahead of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day observed on June 15, has put in perspective the extent of elder abuse in urban India.


In a similar survey last year, only 23 per cent of the respondents had said they faced abuse.


The survey of 1,200 people, over sixty years of age, with equal number of men and women, reveals that 52 per cent of the women say they have been abused, as opposed to 48 per cent of the men. The main reason for abuse has been emotional and economic dependence on the abuser, say the surveyed, 77 per cent of who live with their families. The top perpetrators of abuse are the daughter-in-law (61%), and son (59%).


Bangalore emerges with most complaints among tier-I cities, at 75 per cent, while Nagpur fares the worst among tier-II cities, at 85 per cent. Not far behind, Chennai has 53 per cent of surveyed elders experiencing abuse against a mere 9 per cent in last year’s survey.


Joint director –Tamil Nadu of HelpAge India V. Sivakumar said the increase in numbers could be attributed to better awareness among the elderly in the city.
“Chennai has more elderly coming forward to speak about abuse. There is increased awareness of facilities and protection mechanisms available with the government and otherwise,” he said, adding that the organisation also conducts several elder awareness programmes, such as walkathons and signature campaigns, and engages with schools from its 37 centres across the country to promote age-care values.


The helpline at the organisation receives about 10 to 15 calls in a day, Mr. Sivakumar said. “We have calls coming in from hospitals and police stations and also about elders being spotted abandoned on roads and at railway stations,” he said. In such cases, an FIR is filed and steps are initiated to admit the abandoned at short-stays or old age homes, after which attempts are made to contact the family.


District social welfare officer S. Revathi, at a function to release the report in the city on Friday, said elders could approach the Collectorate, and the government would take steps to intervene and counsel the parties concerned and direct action under the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act, 2007.
The toll-free helpline number with HelpAge for the State is 1800-180-1253.

Survey points to elder abuse - The Hindu
 
suddenly there is a spurt in elder abuse cases. it is because of changed work styles with ladies becoming wage earners and

setting terms to men in marriages.. our laws should be strict , if a few are jailed for elder abuse there will be a radical

change
 
Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act, 2007 is a legislation enacted in 2007, initiated by Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment, Government of India., to provide more effective provision for maintenance and welfare of parents and senior citizens. This Act make it a legal obligation for children and heirs to provide maintenance to senior citizens and parents, by monthly allowance. This Act also provides simple, speedy and inexpensive mechanism for the protection of life and property of the older persons. After being passed by the parliament of India received the assent of President of India on December 29, 2007 and was published in the Gazette of India on December 31, 2007.Some states have already implemented the act and other states are taking steps for implementing this Act.

My brother has been working with an organization called Dignity Non Profit Organization for Elderly People in India ? Dignity Foundation
He tells me of sad stories among elders.

Indian sons, and their wives, aren't treating their aged parents well. A study on abuse of India's elderly, conducted across 20 cities and involving over 5,500 older people, has found that almost 1 in 3 (32%) have faced abuse. The son has been found to be the primary abuser in 56% of cases, followed by the daughter-in-law in 23% cases.


The study, to be presented to President Pranab Mukherjee on October 1, celebrated globally as the International Day of Older Persons, said more than 50% of those abused had faced it for more than five years. More than half (55%) of those who were abused did not report it to anyone. Around 80% of them did not report the matter to uphold family honour.


Delhi actually witnessed an exponential increase in abuse of the elderly. In 2011, Delhi's abuse of the elderly rate stood at 12%. In comparison, 29.82% elderly people in Delhi said they faced abuse in 2012.
Every third senior citizen in India abused, mainly by son: Study - The Times of India
 
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