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Indian-Origin Brides in UK use Spies Before Arranged Marriage

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Indian-Origin Brides in UK use Spies Before Arranged Marriage

17th August 2015

LONDON: A growing number of Indian-origin families are using the services of private detectives to check on prospective grooms for their daughters before finalising an arranged marriage.

Companies based in the UK claim that demand for this new kind of pre-wedding service by Asian families with roots in the Indian sub-continent mostly comes from brides-to-be.

While costs for such background checks start at 100 pounds, Raj Singh, a director of Lion Investigations, recently charged as much as 4,500 pounds for several weeks of surveillance.

"It's a range of different things, sometimes from as simple as what car he [the groom] drives or how much he drinks, to international surveillance," he told 'The Times'. Sukhdev Malotarah, 54, used Singh's services to find out more about his potential son-in-law from India.

"I contacted the investigators because I needed to be sure that everything was above board. The first time we met the family [of the prospective groom] it just didn't feel right — they were very interested in our way of life in England and my daughter's earnings," he said.

A three-week investigation involving the use of local agents in India yielded information of a kind he "could not see coming".

The groom-to-be, Malotarah told the newspaper, had openly boasted of his plan to marry his daughter only to get into Britain and then leave her once he was settled.

He was also heard insulting her weight and was found to drink heavily.

"It cost me over 2,500 pounds but it was worth it in the end. I would have paid out a lot more if the wedding had happened, and my daughter would have been heartbroken," he said.

Leon Hart, another private investigator, said he gets between 10 and 20 inquiries a month from Asians who are about to marry and about 70 per cent of his clients are female.

Many of his clients hire investigators to simply trail a prospective groom to explore if he is hiding any unpleasant
secrets, while others pay out further to dig into details of his sexual history and health.


http://www.newindianexpress.com/wor...ranged-Marriage/2015/08/17/article2979155.ece
 
when those in india want to check on prospective grooms in US, they can get shocks . my relative found there was a criminal charge -not a serious one though , a traffic

violation , resisting arrest and trying to run away . in india normally for such offences[skipping a traffic light -one gets away with a fine or bribe] is not taken seriously.

The parent developed cold feet called off the alliance.

In another case , after engagement in india with foreign based groom ,the parent tried checking the credentials of the prospective groom. the boys parents got enraged

and called off the alliance after engagement.

Any arranged marriage has its pitfalls. Any checking if not with absolute confidentiality could be hazardous. in every such marriage, many truths come out later.

lot of marriages are on the divorce path due to hidden info.of either boy or girl
 
Some small, small things could be ignored. Almost all boys "come within line" after marriage.
This is what was told in earlier days as " Kaal kattu pOttaa ellaam sariyaakum "
 
Some small, small things could be ignored. Almost all boys "come within line" after marriage.
This is what was told in earlier days as " Kaal kattu pOttaa ellaam sariyaakum "
hi

not for everyone.....JANMA SWABHAVA very difficult to change.......
 
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