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I start to wonder ..I have seen people from 2 different parts of the world...who do not even share anything in common right from DNA to religion yet they can stay happily married.
Not one but so many.
Many Chinese and Indian intermarriage take place here and divorce rate is hardly significant.
Children grow up embracing both cultures etc.
I have seen Caucasians and Indians too marry and stay happy..again both embrace each others culture.

I get a feeling in India each person is culturally dominant hence all this failure to live happily.
I have seen cases where TB women marries non TB guy..she invariably want to transform him into a TB and dominate the scene.

Why cant there be a compromise and have a shared culture?
If one wants to follow only TB culture then by all means marry only a TB and not force someone else to be what he is not becos each person has their own Dharma and these can't change even under sword point.

So if one cant compromise..marry the own kind.
Its fair to both.

<blockquote data-quote="renuka" data-source="post: 442352" data-attributes="member: 7604">I start to wonder ..I have seen people from 2 different parts of the world...who do not even share anything in common right from DNA to religion yet they can stay happily married.Not one but so many.Many Chinese and Indian intermarriage take place here and divorce rate is hardly significant.Children grow up embracing both cultures etc.I have seen Caucasians and Indians too marry and stay happy..again both embrace each others culture.I get a feeling in India each person is culturally dominant hence all this failure to live happily.I have seen cases where TB women marries non TB guy..she invariably want to transform him into a TB and dominate the scene.Why cant there be a compromise and have a shared culture?If one wants to follow only TB culture then by all means marry only a TB and not force someone else to be what he is not becos each person has their own Dharma and these can&#039;t change even under sword point.So if one cant compromise..marry the own kind.Its fair to both.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="renuka, post: 442352, member: 7604"] I start to wonder ..I have seen people from 2 different parts of the world...who do not even share anything in common right from DNA to religion yet they can stay happily married. Not one but so many. Many Chinese and Indian intermarriage take place here and divorce rate is hardly significant. Children grow up embracing both cultures etc. I have seen Caucasians and Indians too marry and stay happy..again both embrace each others culture. I get a feeling in India each person is culturally dominant hence all this failure to live happily. I have seen cases where TB women marries non TB guy..she invariably want to transform him into a TB and dominate the scene. Why cant there be a compromise and have a shared culture? If one wants to follow only TB culture then by all means marry only a TB and not force someone else to be what he is not becos each person has their own Dharma and these can't change even under sword point. So if one cant compromise..marry the own kind. Its fair to both. [/QUOTE]

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