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I personally know cases but I cant mention it cos these are people known to me and I cant mention their names...what I wrote is not a lie...you seem new to forum..so I am excusing the accusation of fraud and forgery you wrote about me.

What I was trying to say is in India people are still very culturally dominant whatever their caste if I may add.
Even a Msian Indian Non Brahmin I know divorced her Tamilian Non Brahmin same caste husband from Tamil Nadu becos she could not adjust to his concept of marriage which seemed just too traditional and dominating.

As I said no one can change..so its not fair to force anyone to become what they are not.
A Non Brahmin cant become a Brahmin and a Brahmin cant become a Non Brahmin in behavior..so you are right when you further added that a Gounder cant become Thevar and vice versa.

What i was trying to say is I have seen caucasians married to non caucasians here and their marriage lasts till old age cos both adopted each others culture and they celebrate both diwali and christmas and life goes on.

So for Hindu and Hindu in India from a different caste why is it so hard?
The reason is there is no common ground cos both want to dominate each other and as usual its a female that ends up dominating the house in India.

<blockquote data-quote="renuka" data-source="post: 442381" data-attributes="member: 7604">I personally know cases but I cant mention it cos these are people known to me and I cant mention their names...what I wrote is not a lie...you seem new to forum..so I am excusing the accusation of fraud and forgery you wrote about me.What I was trying to say is in India people are still very culturally dominant whatever their caste if I may add.Even a Msian Indian Non Brahmin I know divorced her Tamilian Non Brahmin same caste husband from Tamil Nadu becos she could not adjust to his concept of marriage which seemed just too traditional and dominating.As I said no one can change..so its not fair to force anyone to become what they are not.A Non Brahmin cant become a Brahmin and a Brahmin cant become a Non Brahmin in behavior..so you are right when you further added that a Gounder cant become Thevar and vice versa.What i was trying to say is I have seen caucasians married to non caucasians here and their marriage lasts till old age cos both adopted each others culture and they celebrate both diwali and christmas and life goes on.So for Hindu and Hindu in India from a different caste why is it so hard?The reason is there is no common ground cos both want to dominate each other and as usual its a female that ends up dominating the house in India.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="renuka, post: 442381, member: 7604"] I personally know cases but I cant mention it cos these are people known to me and I cant mention their names...what I wrote is not a lie...you seem new to forum..so I am excusing the accusation of fraud and forgery you wrote about me. What I was trying to say is in India people are still very culturally dominant whatever their caste if I may add. Even a Msian Indian Non Brahmin I know divorced her Tamilian Non Brahmin same caste husband from Tamil Nadu becos she could not adjust to his concept of marriage which seemed just too traditional and dominating. As I said no one can change..so its not fair to force anyone to become what they are not. A Non Brahmin cant become a Brahmin and a Brahmin cant become a Non Brahmin in behavior..so you are right when you further added that a Gounder cant become Thevar and vice versa. What i was trying to say is I have seen caucasians married to non caucasians here and their marriage lasts till old age cos both adopted each others culture and they celebrate both diwali and christmas and life goes on. So for Hindu and Hindu in India from a different caste why is it so hard? The reason is there is no common ground cos both want to dominate each other and as usual its a female that ends up dominating the house in India. [/QUOTE]

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