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The boy's comment that your parent's approval is desirable deserves commendation. If you both are deeply in love and it is not mere infatuation, go ahead by all means. It is only when I had my own children to bring up, I realised the trials, tribulations and sacrifices parents make. Unfortunately, in our lives, we take parents for granted. Though I, my younger brother and my three elder sisters did everything we could to make them live happy and comfortable lives, I still feel that I could have done more for them, particularly in terms of spending time with them. Now, of course, it is too late.

While you need to take a final decision, please do note that I personally feel that parents consent and blessings is essential for a successful marriage. Marriage against their wishes is a strict no-no for me.

[QUOTE="Balacs, post: 442417, member: 54758"] The boy's comment that your parent's approval is desirable deserves commendation. If you both are deeply in love and it is not mere infatuation, go ahead by all means. It is only when I had my own children to bring up, I realised the trials, tribulations and sacrifices parents make. Unfortunately, in our lives, we take parents for granted. Though I, my younger brother and my three elder sisters did everything we could to make them live happy and comfortable lives, I still feel that I could have done more for them, particularly in terms of spending time with them. Now, of course, it is too late. While you need to take a final decision, please do note that I personally feel that parents consent and blessings is essential for a successful marriage. Marriage against their wishes is a strict no-no for me. [/QUOTE]

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