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rakesh,

it is good to treat your marriage as a project - something unique, start and end, and unique results. you should set yourself for success.

set your objectives - want to get married to a girl (& more rqmts here which are achievable).

have a log of wants and would llike - but time box your search.

ie you want a smartha, vadama, pretty, fair, tall, i.t. job, bangalore domiciled, orphan girl - give it 3 months. reduce your rqmts every 2 months till you strike pay dirt.

overall, i think no search should last for more than a year. to that extent, loosen your rules.

ultimately, you may be prepared to marry a girl, non brahmin but sharp, willing to convert to brahmin, no dowry, 50% share of marriage expense, and also willing to support her parents in old age. that to me, would be ideal.

God Bless and good luck.

<blockquote data-quote="kunjuppu" data-source="post: 56803" data-attributes="member: 1966">rakesh,it is good to treat your marriage as a project - something unique, start and end, and unique results. you should set yourself for success.set your objectives - want to get married to a girl (&amp; more rqmts here which are achievable).have a log of wants and would llike - but time box your search.ie you want a smartha, vadama, pretty, fair, tall, i.t. job, bangalore domiciled, orphan girl - give it 3 months. reduce your rqmts every 2 months till you strike pay dirt.overall, i think no search should last for more than a year. to that extent, loosen your rules.ultimately, you may be prepared to marry a girl, non brahmin but sharp, willing to convert to brahmin, no dowry, 50% share of marriage expense, and also willing to support her parents in old age. that to me, would be ideal.God Bless and good luck.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="kunjuppu, post: 56803, member: 1966"] rakesh, it is good to treat your marriage as a project - something unique, start and end, and unique results. you should set yourself for success. set your objectives - want to get married to a girl (& more rqmts here which are achievable). have a log of wants and would llike - but time box your search. ie you want a smartha, vadama, pretty, fair, tall, i.t. job, bangalore domiciled, orphan girl - give it 3 months. reduce your rqmts every 2 months till you strike pay dirt. overall, i think no search should last for more than a year. to that extent, loosen your rules. ultimately, you may be prepared to marry a girl, non brahmin but sharp, willing to convert to brahmin, no dowry, 50% share of marriage expense, and also willing to support her parents in old age. that to me, would be ideal. God Bless and good luck. [/QUOTE]

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