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Dear Mr.Swaminathan,     Really I appreciate the broad minded views of Mr.Kunjuppu   and  however  I  fear how many of us will accept that as a father of a son. There are lot of difficulties in the search of a bride that  I agree .  There are enormous similar cases in search of a bride   and hence search is to be continued reasonably.     But it is difficult to predict What the girls expect from a bridegroom. I want to cite an interesting case of a boy known to me.      The boy is employed in a software company at a very good salary. He went  to see a bride .The bride wanted to question the boy in the pretext of predicting his compatibility to her. The first Q was ‘Do you smoke?’. The boy was very happy that he happened to be a nonsmoker and replied ‘No.’ The next   Q  was  ‘Do you drink?(Alcohol).’The boy felt immensely happy as he has not even tasted drinks and replied ‘No. I don’t have that habit.’ Then she asked ‘Do you go to weekend   parties  ?.’ Now the boy thought that he has at last spotted the correct   bride. Now the third almost similar Q   came. The girl asked ‘Do you go to weekend parties?’. Now the boy has confirmed that he will be the fit person  for that girl  and replied the actual fact that ‘No. I  don’t have that habit.’  Immediately the girl responded that he is not the fit person for her. The girl is a software  professional suitably employed.(Sorry software engineers and software professionals if  I have harmed anybody’s mind, it is an actual fact that has happened.)   The boy was immensely annoyed and we all pacified him. On a detailed enquiry it appears that the girl was staying with three of her friends as room mates at the work place. Now all the room mates have got married and all of them used to get together at weekends  to spend the holidays. I am not universalizing this but this indicates cultural degradation  which has been predicted in ancient spiritual literatures .Why I am narrating this is that the girls predetermine some expectations thinking that they are good expectations  and they expect it from the bridegroom.   Hence Mr.Swaminathan  don’t let lose your heart, there will be a girl definitely  born for you   and hence continue the search in a healthiest way.   Pray the almighty and surrender to God and Spiritual Guru and continue the search of a good life partner and I am sure that you will get the Girl made for you. Cheers.May the Almighty bestow Health & Happiness.  With regards, Natpushpa.


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