renuka
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Today morning I was paying my phone bill at the service providers counter and I was the first customer of the day cos I walked in as it opened.
The girl at the counter seemed a bit moody and not too responsive to some questions asked.
But I paid my bill anyways.
Then I thought.."its morning..I am myself moody in the mornings..so may be this girl too has some mood swings"
Then I smiled at her and she finally smiled back.
I think she did not expect a person to smile at her when she was not responsive to me earlier.
Now I am quite sure if anyone else in my place would have got slightly annoyed with her cos she did not actually address a few questions asked earlier.
But why didn't I get annoyed?
The reason is cos I know I too can get moody and not want to communicate especially in the early morning at 8.30am. I myself do not like a patient walking in right away when I open my clinic.
I know I need to 'warm up' before I can respond to human beings.
So here this girl could have been like me..feeling moody to see a customer so early..may be she needed to warm up too.
So I smiled and it seemed to help her slowly break into a smile.
Now since I do not have perfect moods I did not find this girl's Public Relation skills to be all that bad but anyone else would have found it not up to the mark.
So its becos of my 'imperfection' that I feel compassion and tolerance for another..thinking that they could be like me and I do not get angry.
What if a person is near perfect in moods..a person who can start the day normally..no need to 'warm' up..no Monday Blues..no mood swings..I am pretty sure these sort of near perfect individuals would expect perfection and be less compassionate and forgiving becos their mental make up does not know 'imperfection'.
Now lets see this from the macrocosmic point of view.
From the Non Advaitic view God is the Karuna Sagar..the compassionate One who runs to His Bhaktas in time of need as we are made to believe.
So is the Non Advaitic God 'imperfect" in order to have that much compassion?
If God is "perfect" how can He have compassion?
On the other hand if we view God as an eternal witness who does not get involved in the Karmic cycle..only then He can be perfect.
So going by this only the Advaitic view can have a Perfect God and the Non-Advaitic view would deal with a Imperfect God.
So which is it?
Sometimes I wish I could be like any other person who just pays the phone bill and comes home and not suddenly spring into God and Advaita but anyway its a Sunday..time for fun.
The girl at the counter seemed a bit moody and not too responsive to some questions asked.
But I paid my bill anyways.
Then I thought.."its morning..I am myself moody in the mornings..so may be this girl too has some mood swings"
Then I smiled at her and she finally smiled back.
I think she did not expect a person to smile at her when she was not responsive to me earlier.
Now I am quite sure if anyone else in my place would have got slightly annoyed with her cos she did not actually address a few questions asked earlier.
But why didn't I get annoyed?
The reason is cos I know I too can get moody and not want to communicate especially in the early morning at 8.30am. I myself do not like a patient walking in right away when I open my clinic.
I know I need to 'warm up' before I can respond to human beings.
So here this girl could have been like me..feeling moody to see a customer so early..may be she needed to warm up too.
So I smiled and it seemed to help her slowly break into a smile.
Now since I do not have perfect moods I did not find this girl's Public Relation skills to be all that bad but anyone else would have found it not up to the mark.
So its becos of my 'imperfection' that I feel compassion and tolerance for another..thinking that they could be like me and I do not get angry.
What if a person is near perfect in moods..a person who can start the day normally..no need to 'warm' up..no Monday Blues..no mood swings..I am pretty sure these sort of near perfect individuals would expect perfection and be less compassionate and forgiving becos their mental make up does not know 'imperfection'.
Now lets see this from the macrocosmic point of view.
From the Non Advaitic view God is the Karuna Sagar..the compassionate One who runs to His Bhaktas in time of need as we are made to believe.
So is the Non Advaitic God 'imperfect" in order to have that much compassion?
If God is "perfect" how can He have compassion?
On the other hand if we view God as an eternal witness who does not get involved in the Karmic cycle..only then He can be perfect.
So going by this only the Advaitic view can have a Perfect God and the Non-Advaitic view would deal with a Imperfect God.
So which is it?
Sometimes I wish I could be like any other person who just pays the phone bill and comes home and not suddenly spring into God and Advaita but anyway its a Sunday..time for fun.
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