My Kid is afraiding during night time

[shivagami]

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Namasthe guruji....from the past 1 year...my kid is afraiding at night 2.30 to 4 am....and I CAN SEE A BLACK OR DARK BROWN SMOKE AROUND MY HOUSE...(somewhere it is wandering)....during amavasais....pournamis whenever I read vishnusahasranamam....it increases....it is happening from 1 yr....whenever my kid is afraiding....as a mother....I am unable to tolerate....I hate everything....I want to save my kid...In a devotional book I read that maa varahi will throw away all evil forces...but I am hesitating because it should be done with the help of guru....kindly tell me is there any locket or something save my kid.... or which temple I ve to go and what to do?

 

[renuka]

Dear Sivagami,

Can I ask you a few questions?

What has your husband got to say about this?

Does he stay with you and your kid or you and your kid stay alone?

How old is your child?

Your child could be having night terrors which is at times a sign of anxiety...mostly children grow out of this.

I hope there is no underlying problem at home that is causing anxiety in your child...usually when parents do not get along well the kids pick up the tension and became anxious and experience sleep terrors at night.

Coming to what you see...the dark smoke..is it only you who has seen it?

What about neighbours? Have they also seen it?

Have you checked about the history of the house?

Is it your own house or rented house?

If you are 100% sure it is a Paranormal entity..just move out ..find a new house....if you are not 100% sure if it is a Paranormal entity...get your child checked with a doctor to look for underlying cause of anxiety.

 

[sangom]

Namasthe guruji....from the past 1 year...my kid is afraiding at night 2.30 to 4 am....and I CAN SEE A BLACK OR DARK BROWN SMOKE AROUND MY HOUSE...(somewhere it is wandering)....during amavasais....pournamis whenever I read vishnusahasranamam....it increases....it is happening from 1 yr....whenever my kid is afraiding....as a mother....I am unable to tolerate....I hate everything....I want to save my kid...In a devotional book I read that maa varahi will throw away all evil forces...but I am hesitating because it should be done with the help of guru....kindly tell me is there any locket or something save my kid.... or which temple I ve to go and what to do?

Smt. Renuka is a very experienced doctor and has written the best possible advice to you.

Please do not get into vArAhi and such stuff. Those things may even complicate your existing problem and then coming out will become almost impossible.

 

[kunjuppu]

hi shivagami,

move out of that house. do not indulge in mandhrikam and stuff like that. who knows what happened in that house before you came. or even in that plot of land.

i had a friend, who bought a house cheap in a prime locality in madras in 1970s. very soon they lost 2 sons due to accidents - both grown up in their 20s, and one of them with two little children.

the neighbour told me, that the prev owner too had tragedy of son dying, and sold the house for a song, to get rid of it.

my uncle, later told me, that that area was a cremation ground, before development came. my uncle's only solution, was to sell it to muslims, who had a particular chakra, which would keep away the djinns. i dont have any verification for this though.

 

[renuka]

Dear Shivagami,

I have had personal experiences with Paranormal entities occupying houses.

There are a few reasons for this:

1)It is the zone of the Paranormal entity...in other words its his house and and he sees anyone living there as an intruder.

2)Previous owner could have dabble with some stuff and opened up a portal knowingly or unknowingly and this makes entry for Paranormal entities to occupy the house.


3)Past history of the house...as Kunjuppu ji gave an example.
Sometimes we have no idea of the past history of the area we are actually staying in.God knows what was it before.


Now coming to Paranormal entities...frankly speaking some are not so so scared of prayers and recitation of mantras.

They usually lie dormant after some Pooja or recitation and hit back stronger after that..that is why you are noticing that after you recite Vishnu sahashranamam it increases...dont take it wrongly that Paranormal entities are more powerful then God but it is just that some entities themselves have well developed ability to withstand anything just like how some criminal do not give in to any type of reformation tactics and become worse with time.

So dont think that Paranormal entities will react like how we see in Dracula movies where they run at the sight of holy water or a cross.

So right now I feel there is no use trying to do any specific Pooja in cases of suspected Paranormal hauntings...cos we cant take chances if a child is being the the target here.

So move out and also do not forget to take your child to a doctor for assessment of anxiety related conditions.


Would like to add this often forgotten cause of apparent haunting.....Presence of High Tension Cables!

Check out the surrounding area where you stay?

Is there High Tension Cables around the neighbourhood?

High Tension Cables emit High Electromagnetic Fields(EMF) that can mimic a Haunting scenario.

This is called Moving EMF and constant exposure to EMF can even cause neurological symptoms and also visual and auditory hallucinations and also nervousness and irritability even in kids and adults.


I have given you 3 types of advise:

1)Medical

2)Paranormal

3)Relating to Electromagnetic Fields.

Think carefully and try to evaluate.

 

[Srimadhan]

Shivagami

From my perspetive, whatever Renuka has said is 100% valid. Preferably move out of the house as early as possible.

If after moving out as well and medicine does not do any good, do let me know. As a meditator, have seen this a lot.

With God's grace, I will try and help you out spiritually.

Regards
Srimadhan

 

[shivagami]

Thanks for you all guruji....before 1 year I went to my moms house(she went there before 6 months) with my husband and kid in a 2 wheeler....and just before 10 days in the next house a lady fell from the upstairs and unfortunately...she died...that night evening itself my father afraid and got chills and fever...and I was in menstrual cycle ....in that house my mother saw a shadow...I became so afraid and that evening I started to my house...it was alone....then 4 months I was there...my kid started to afraid...he is now 3 1/2 yrs....this problem started when he was 2 1/2...but he don't know that why he is afraid and shouting...then i went many temples...(whenever i keep Lakshmi narashimmar lemon in house it controls....)then i and changed house....now i ve migrated a newly built house...now 6 months passed out...but during amavasais and pournamis and especially during my mc he is afraiding....(in previous house now another kid came but that kid is not afraiding..)i don't know what to do....i am unable to realize that what is it...i want to come out from it and i want to live happily with my family....but now after changing the house it is controlled...but not removed...i am litting lemon lamps with ghee for mother durga on Fridays....i am playing shanmuga bhujangam....Vishnu sahasrnamam..shiva puranam...narashimma kavacham...sometimes lalitha sahasranamam....i am having sudarshana yanthra too...(but after getting sudarshana yantra also it controlled...before that i am unable to live in that previous house....most people telling that it is eval....i don't know what to do..

 

[shivagami]

Namasthe guruji....from the past 1 year...my kid is afraiding at night 2.30 to 4 am....and I CAN SEE A BLACK OR DARK BROWN SMOKE AROUND MY HOUSE...(somewhere it is wandering)....during amavasais....pournamis whenever I read vishnusahasranamam....it increases....it is happening from 1 yr....whenever my kid is afraiding....as a mother....I am unable to tolerate....I hate everything....I want to save my kid...In a devotional book I read that maa varahi will throw away all evil forces...but I am hesitating because it should be done with the help of guru....kindly tell me is there any locket or something save my kid.... or which temple I ve to go and what to do?

Thanks for your valuble responses......
This problem started before 1 year...just after doing 1st ceremony to my father in law....one day i went to my mothers house (she migrated there before 6 months) with my kid and husband and stayed there for 1 day....but just next house to my moms house a lady felt from mottai madi(upstairs) and died...that day i was in MC...on that night 3 am my father was afraid and started shouting...then i became so afraid....my mother saw a dark shadow in wall...i was so afraid and took my child and came to my house that evening...then that day night my kid started to afraid at same 3 am...then daily this was happened....my kid was 2 1/2 years....now he is 3 1/2years...i went to many temples but not removed...in that house i can see both white smoke upto 5 1/2 feet...my mother also seen it...and a black smoke always with me...we ve resided there for 4 months(aani,aadi...etc.,)and changed to newly built house now here we are living for 6 months....that white smoke is not there...but i can see that black smoke....but not regularly....Tuesdays...Thursdays...amavasais...pornamis... etc.,some times it will not be there...i am litting lemon ghee lamp on Fridays to durga maa....shanmuga bhujangam....Vishnu sahasranamam...narashimma kavacham....shiva puranam...shiva thandava stotram....some times namagam chamagam...etc.,,in cd player...now it controlled but not removed....but whenever he is afraid...he does not remember that why he afraids....but as a mother i hate this life....even i asked god many times that why she gave this life to me to cry...no mother can tolerate this...god is also a mother she knows it...Shivagami

 

[auh]

Namasthe guruji....from the past 1 year...my kid is afraiding at night 2.30 to 4 am....and I CAN SEE A BLACK OR DARK BROWN SMOKE AROUND MY HOUSE...(somewhere it is wandering)....during amavasais....pournamis whenever I read vishnusahasranamam....it increases....it is happening from 1 yr....whenever my kid is afraiding....as a mother....I am unable to tolerate....I hate everything....I want to save my kid...In a devotional book I read that maa varahi will throw away all evil forces...but I am hesitating because it should be done with the help of guru....kindly tell me is there any locket or something save my kid.... or which temple I ve to go and what to do?

It is actually quite amazing that you could spot black or dark brown smoke around your house, at night, somewhere as you say, (including amavasais), and that too a wandering smoke !

If at best it is only a wandering smoke, a powerful exhaust fan would help.

1) Why do you read VS at 2:30 to 4 am?
2) Doesn't your kid sleep at night?
3) How old is he?
4) Where do you live?
5) Guruji will respond after answers to the above questions.

 

[wrongan]

Generally I am a fan of Renuka! Her suggestions are always positive and practical.If you have concern for your child moving out of the present residence is the best option.

 

[shivagami]

It is actually quite amazing that you could spot black or dark brown smoke around your house, at night, somewhere as you say, (including amavasais), and that too a wandering smoke !

If at best it is only a wandering smoke, a powerful exhaust fan would help.

1) Why do you read VS at 2:30 to 4 am?
2) Doesn't your kid sleep at night?
3) How old is he?
4) Where do you live?
5) Guruji will respond after answers to the above questions.

1.my kid is afraiding only between 2.30 am to 4 am but he don't remember that why he was afraid...2.he sleeps well at night...but before afrading his breathe increases then shouting and sometimes crying 3.he is now 3 1/2 years...problem started from 2 1/2 years...3. I am living in Coimbatore..

 

[shivagami]

Dear Shivagami,

I have had personal experiences with Paranormal entities occupying houses.

There are a few reasons for this:

1)It is the zone of the Paranormal entity...in other words its his house and and he sees anyone living there as an intruder.

2)Previous owner could have dabble with some stuff and opened up a portal knowingly or unknowingly and this makes entry for Paranormal entities to occupy the house.


3)Past history of the house...as Kunjuppu ji gave an example.
Sometimes we have no idea of the past history of the area we are actually staying in.God knows what was it before.


Now coming to Paranormal entities...frankly speaking some are not so so scared of prayers and recitation of mantras.

They usually lie dormant after some Pooja or recitation and hit back stronger after that..that is why you are noticing that after you recite Vishnu sahashranamam it increases...dont take it wrongly that Paranormal entities are more powerful then God but it is just that some entities themselves have well developed ability to withstand anything just like how some criminal do not give in to any type of reformation tactics and become worse with time.

So dont think that Paranormal entities will react like how we see in Dracula movies where they run at the sight of holy water or a cross.

So right now I feel there is no use trying to do any specific Pooja in cases of suspected Paranormal hauntings...cos we cant take chances if a child is being the the target here.

So move out and also do not forget to take your child to a doctor for assessment of anxiety related conditions.


Would like to add this often forgotten cause of apparent haunting.....Presence of High Tension Cables!

Check out the surrounding area where you stay?

Is there High Tension Cables around the neighbourhood?

High Tension Cables emit High Electromagnetic Fields(EMF) that can mimic a Haunting scenario.

This is called Moving EMF and constant exposure to EMF can even cause neurological symptoms and also visual and auditory hallucinations and also nervousness and irritability even in kids and adults.


I have given you 3 types of advise:

1)Medical

2)Paranormal

3)Relating to Electromagnetic Fields.

Think carefully and try to evaluate.

Thanks a lot madam...in my previous house....I was severly facing this problem....we called a person ...he spoke to god(sami adubavar)....my kula deity told that three persons went to a aakrosha deity(like masani amman) and at a time....they prayed against me...due to some misunderstandings on me....hence this problem araised....(he told this)....is it paranormal entity....how to get rid from this....we became unhappy...from past 1 year...and so afraid...

 

[shivagami]

It is actually quite amazing that you could spot black or dark brown smoke around your house, at night, somewhere as you say, (including amavasais), and that too a wandering smoke !

If at best it is only a wandering smoke, a powerful exhaust fan would help.

1) Why do you read VS at 2:30 to 4 am?
2) Doesn't your kid sleep at night?
3) How old is he?
4) Where do you live?
5) Guruji will respond after answers to the above questions.

me too unable to believe this...but its happening....I went to vallanadu...in thirunelveli(samathi is there)and they asked me to pray...and I was telling arutperum jothi continuously....on looking jothi....then got controlled...but they told that this is eval to my family....I stayed there for a week....my kid became unwell because of that food and atmosphere....so I returned to Coimbatore

 

[renuka]

Thanks a lot madam...in my previous house....I was severly facing this problem....we called a person ...he spoke to god(sami adubavar)....my kula deity told that three persons went to a aakrosha deity(like masani amman) and at a time....they prayed against me...due to some misunderstandings on me....hence this problem araised....(he told this)....is it paranormal entity....how to get rid from this....we became unhappy...from past 1 year...and so afraid...

Dear Sivagami,

So this means that the problem is following you..but believe me..no deity harms anyone.

BTW there is something called Poltergeist Phenomenon where a persons own energy can cause objects to move, creating sound and also make images to appear.

It all boils down to the psychological state of mind of the person who is able to create this.

So here there are 2 possibilities of people causing this phenomenon to appear:

1)Your child..may be he has severe anxiety issues

2)You yourself! ...you could be facing some issues and from your mindset you seem to believe in others harming you and the fact that your Kula Deivam is giving info etc.
Usually when we dwell in these believes we open up ourselves to a host of entities out there and all this incidences can occur besides the Poltergeist phenomenon.

Now my advise to you is both you and your child need to be assessed for anxiety issues.

So please do that first..and then think of rites and rituals.

 

[Govinda]

Hello Sivagami,

Chanting Sudarshana Ashtakam will help during that time.

It could be kind of a Seizure/epilepsy. I advise you to consult a doctor(neurologist) and get a blood test for vitamins , salts (magnesium), iron, thyroid etc..Also, find out if she has any epilepsy, and hence an MRI.

Until you figure out the problems,

Start giving her clean tulasi leaves 5-10 twice a day, after offering to Vishnu/Sudarshana.
IF possible give a tulasi tea with half teaspoon cardamom. Make lentil sambar/sundal with spoon of coriander powder. Give her okra/spinach curry. Dont give junk food/candies/chips etc.

 

[sangom]

Dear Sivagami,

Now my advise to you is both you and your child need to be assessed for anxiety issues.

Please also tell her (Shivagami) whom to approach for this assessment.

 

[shivagami]

Dear Sivagami,

So this means that the problem is following you..but believe me..no deity harms anyone.

BTW there is something called Poltergeist Phenomenon where a persons own energy can cause objects to move, creating sound and also make images to appear.

It all boils down to the psychological state of mind of the person who is able to create this.

So here there are 2 possibilities of people causing this phenomenon to appear:

1)Your child..may be he has severe anxiety issues

2)You yourself! ...you could be facing some issues and from your mindset you seem to believe in others harming you and the fact that your Kula Deivam is giving info etc.
Usually when we dwell in these believes we open up ourselves to a host of entities out there and all this incidences can occur besides the Poltergeist phenomenon.

Now my advise to you is both you and your child need to be assessed for anxiety issues.

So please do that first..and then think of rites and rituals.

thank you madam....my kid and myself will go to check the anxiety issues...thanks a lot

 

[shivagami]

Hello Sivagami,Chanting Sudarshana Ashtakam will help during that time.It could be kind of a Seizure/epilepsy. I advise you to Consult a doctor(neurologist) and get a blood test for vitamins , salts (magnesium), iron, thyroid etc..Also, find out if she has any epilepsy, and hence an MRI.

...thank you for your valuable advice....my only target is my kid want to live happy in front of me....then only I can even eat happily....I am ready to do anything for him...your words and renuka mams words are very useful....I will check for anxiety issues and play sudarshanastakam ....I am having sudarshana chakra in my pooja room....thanks again.

 

[renuka]

Please also tell her (Shivagami) whom to approach for this assessment.

Dear Sangom ji,

She cant be PM yet.

I guess I will have to write it anyway.

 

[renuka]

Dear Sivagami,

Please read my advise with an open mind...I would like you and your child to see a Neurologist and a Psychiatrist.

Please do not get me wrong...seeing a psychiatrist does not mean that we are of unsound mind as commonly misunderstood.

A Psychiatrist is a doctor who can help us with anxiety issues.


All of us go through anxiety problems from time to time including doctor themselves..so no one is spared of this problem.

Make an appointment for yourself and your child.

For the images which you see...it can be a Paranormal entity too (I am not denying the possibility) but before we decide that..it is better to get a MRI brain done to look for causes of Visual Hallucinations..you might even need an EEG.

Your child needs to be assessed by a peadiatrician and might need a child psychologist to check for anxiety issues.

When anxiety issues are solved..sometimes all other problems are solved too cos I note that you are frantic in reciting as much as possible mantras etc...it shows your troubles state of mind..you are not getting calmer but getting more agitated.

So please listen to me and do as what as I advised.

I am a medical doctor with a spiritual side too and I also believe in the existence of the Paranormal..so my advise is get a doctor and also get a priest after that for handling the spiritual side.

I am going to give a rather unusual example ...have you seen the movie Chandramukhi??

In that movie...was there really a ghost?? yes or no...we dont really know...

The person had some psychological problems that made it look as if there was a haunting..so when that psychological issues were addressed...Chandramukhi vanished!

So same way...get you and your child checked by doctors first.

 

[shivagami]

Dear Sivagami,

Please read my advise with an open mind...I would like you and your child to see a Neurologist and a Psychiatrist.

Please do not get me wrong...seeing a psychiatrist does not mean that we are of unsound mind as commonly misunderstood.

A Psychiatrist is a doctor who can help us with anxiety issues.


All of us go through anxiety problems from time to time including doctor themselves..so no one is spared of this problem.

Make an appointment for yourself and your child.

For the images which you see...it can be a Paranormal entity too (I am not denying the possibility) but before we decide that..it is better to get a MRI brain done to look for causes of Visual Hallucinations..you might even need an EEG.

Your child needs to be assessed by a peadiatrician and might need a child psychologist to check for anxiety issues.

When anxiety issues are solved..sometimes all other problems are solved too cos I note that you are frantic in reciting as much as possible mantras etc...it shows your troubles state of mind..you are not getting calmer but getting more agitated.

So please listen to me and do as what as I advised.

I am a medical doctor with a spiritual side too and I also believe in the existence of the Paranormal..so my advise is get a doctor and also get a priest after that for handling the spiritual side.

I am going to give a rather unusual example ...have you seen the movie Chandramukhi??

In that movie...was there really a ghost?? yes or no...we dont really know...

The person had some psychological problems that made it look as if there was a haunting..so when that psychological issues were addressed...Chandramukhi vanished!

So same way...get you and your child checked by doctors first.

......ok mam I will go to both the doctors....and tell you the feedback....I will talk to my husband about this....thank you madam....thanks a lot

 

[shivagami]

Dear Sivagami,

Please read my advise with an open mind...I would like you and your child to see a Neurologist and a Psychiatrist.

Please do not get me wrong...seeing a psychiatrist does not mean that we are of unsound mind as commonly misunderstood.

A Psychiatrist is a doctor who can help us with anxiety issues.


All of us go through anxiety problems from time to time including doctor themselves..so no one is spared of this problem.

Make an appointment for yourself and your child.

For the images which you see...it can be a Paranormal entity too (I am not denying the possibility) but before we decide that..it is better to get a MRI brain done to look for causes of Visual Hallucinations..you might even need an EEG.

Your child needs to be assessed by a peadiatrician and might need a child psychologist to check for anxiety issues.

When anxiety issues are solved..sometimes all other problems are solved too cos I note that you are frantic in reciting as much as possible mantras etc...it shows your troubles state of mind..you are not getting calmer but getting more agitated.

So please listen to me and do as what as I advised.

I am a medical doctor with a spiritual side too and I also believe in the existence of the Paranormal..so my advise is get a doctor and also get a priest after that for handling the spiritual side.

I am going to give a rather unusual example ...have you seen the movie Chandramukhi??

In that movie...was there really a ghost?? yes or no...we dont really know...

The person had some psychological problems that made it look as if there was a haunting..so when that psychological issues were addressed...Chandramukhi vanished!

So same way...get you and your child checked by doctors first.

..............Yesterday i told everything to my husband...he decided to take to doctor and my kid to paediatrician....Thanks for your valuable reply...