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kunjuppu

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it is already mother's day in india. here mrs K has already received the dues from her children, as she is getting ready to go to india for a few days.

and the hindu is full of successful +2 toppers who in the face of adversity, and so much of those, have beaten it, and come out on top. there are too many stories for me to narrate or refer here. all you need is to go to hindu online to view some heartwarming cases. all of them girls, and that too from poor backgrounds.what happened to the boys?

but there was this one mother, who said, 'My father would not let me go out alone, but I want my daughters to go fight the world. My oldest daughter is the only girl in a class of 68 boys, but it doesn’t make any difference to her because she really wanted to study mechanical engineering. Similarly, Kamatchi too will be successful someday'.. what a vote of confidence from this flower seller mother, blessed with three over achieving daughters.

.. and look at what the daughter says, 'We got a TV only last year. Our father is perpetually in debt. We want to repay all that and make sure our parents have a comfortable life ahead'. i can only dream of my children, well materially endowed they are, even to whisper one fraction of such sentiments.

not that i expect it, but i am overwhelmed by such expressions of gratitude, and many a times wonder, if we did something wrong in bringing up our children - they had all the stuff they wanted, and poverty for them is only a noun, and never experienced. or here in canada, never seen, either.

poor-parents-feel-proud-for-a-third-time-as-daughter-tops-school

with daughters like these, why would anyone want sons? these days anyway?
 
ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை - do you know where this shop is?

this below, has nothing to do with the thread. but thought it would lighten up your day anyway..

:)

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
அதுக்கு மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
அதுக்கு மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்
துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்

இத்தப்பாடமே எத்தை எத்தையோ கூவிக்கினுக்கிறயே எங்க பாடு
பாடட்டுமா எப்படி பாடறனு சும்ம கேளு சும்ம ஜகா வாங்ஜறேன் பாரு ஹ

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
அதுக்கு மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
அதுக்கு மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதம்மே வாசம்
துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதம்மே வாசம்

நைசா பூந்துட்ட தம்மத்துண்டு மனசுல
நாஸ்டா புடிக்கல நாளு நாளா உடம்புல

நைசா பூந்துட்ட தம்மத்துண்டு மனசுல
நாஸ்டா புடிக்கல நாளு நாளா உடம்புல

புரிஞ்சிக்கிட்டேன் கயிதே நான் போக்குவேனா பொய்தே??
புரிஞ்சிக்கிட்டேன் கயிதே நான் போக்குவேனா பொய்தே??

படிக்கட்டுமா நான் பாட்டு நான் பாய விரிச்சு போட்டு
பாய விரிச்சு போட்டு

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
தோசை மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்
துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்

டாப்ன்னா டாப்பு டக்கர்நன்னா டாப்பு
டூப்ப்ன்னா டூப் டுபாக்கூர் டூப்பு

டாப்ன்னா டாப்பு டக்கர்நன்னா டாப்பு
டூப்ப்ன்னா டூப் டுபாக்கூர் டூப்பு

டாவு அடிக்கனும் டைவ் அடிச்சேன் ஆத்தாடி
மாஞ்சா கவுத்துல மாட்டிக்கிட்ட காத்தாடி

டாவு அடிக்கனும் டைவ் அடிச்சேன் ஆத்தாடி
மாஞ்சா கவுத்துல மாட்டிக்கிட்ட காத்தாடி

மாமா என்னைப பாரு நான் மைலாப்பூரு தேரு
மாமா என்னைப பாரு நான் மைலாப்பூரு தேரு

வயது வந்த பொட்டை உன் சைசுகேத்த கட்டை
உன் சைசுகேத்த கட்டை

ராயப்பேட்டை அய்யர் கடை ரவா தோசை நீ தான்
தோசை மேலே தொட்டுக்க வைக்கிற தேங்காய் சட்னி நான் தான்

துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்
துண்ண என்னை தோசை மூக்கை தொலக்குதண்ணே வாசம்

பார்த்தியா ஜகா வாங்கிட்டேன் அம்ம்மாஆஆ
 
A son is a son ONLY till he gets a WIFE.
A daughter is a daughter for LIFE.
I have seen several ladies who have ONLY son
wish that they had had one daughter
at least as they grow into a ripe old age.
A daughter will never forsake her parents.
My mother who has four daughter reigns like a Queen.
I can hardly say this of my grandfather who had four sons!
 
very true visa.

the son has to depend and get an okay from the spouse. even in an arranged marriage, where the son's mother has a final say in who the son weds, very soon the tables are turned, and the son soon recognizes that it is the bedroom that calls the shots.

the paradigm shift has been steady and in the girl's favour since they started getting education and even more so since they started getting a paycheck.

which is why, i cannot understand all this fuss, about a son, and finding a spouse for him. it is better the son stays single, and provides insurance for their old age. a married son, is like a love - found and then lost.
 
Dear Mr. Kunjuppu,
If all the boys stay SINGLE who will the girls marry???
It is best that the mother of the boy is realistic and practical
and knows her limits, limitation and liberties.
Usually a liberal and genial relationship with the D.I.L and
not nagging the son trying to turn him against
his hard-found-wife make life easier and pleasanter for all.
As for providing for the old age it is best to be self dependent
and learn to lead a simple and contented life without wishing for the stars.
 
visa,

i think, these days, the smart mil, will go out of her way, to befriend the dil. for she knows, she can count on the son, only if the dil agrees :) no?

you are right about old age. as long as we are able to take care of ourselves, it is best we do. and keep sufficient moola, so that we can get good care, that money can buy. that way, we have our independence, and our dignity, both hopefully, intact.
 
Yes, if the daughter in law becomes a friend
then she will talk to the son and make him
do things his parents want to get done.

This is rare but not impossible! :)

I have my younger daughter in law
who is more than a daughter to me.
(Touch wood to protect from evil eyes!)

But for her, my writings would have been
only in my a/c and never seen daylight.

She is one who designs and creates all my blogs.
She has taught me a lot about blogging.
I have become a student again after many decades!
 
நீ என்னில் இல்லாத நாள் நான் இல்லை அம்மா .
எல்லா நாட்களும் எனக்கு உன் தினங்கள் தான் தாயே.


ப்ரஹ்மண்யன்
பெங்களூரு


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Yes, if the daughter in law becomes a friend
then she will talk to the son and make him
do things his parents want to get done.

This is rare but not impossible! :)

I have my younger daughter in law
who is more than a daughter to me.
(Touch wood to protect from evil eyes!)

But for her, my writings would have been
only in my a/c and never seen daylight.

She is one who designs and creates all my blogs.
She has taught me a lot about blogging.
I have become a student again after many decades!

Dear Mrs Visalakshi Ramani,

Well said. You are not alone in this Gift. I have a wonderful daughter in law, more than a daughter to me. Highly cultured girl from an agriculturist family in Cauvery delta, well trained in traditional matters and equally modern in her outlook. Educated working woman, busy like a bee.She takes care of every need of the family lovingly. By her broad smile and soothing words she had captured the love and respect of the members of our family.

Warm regards,
Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.
 
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dear Sir,
Namste! This girl is also very hard working, kind, caring and always smiling.

And her voice is very sweet whether she just talks or reads out for her son or sings for him. AND she is also from Bangalore. :)

She is quite a chatter box compared to my very quiet son who speaks very little but almost all of them are punchlines people will remember and laugh every time they remember. :)

Paaraayanam of Devi Maahaatmyam did not go in waste since I had transferred the task of finding a SUITABLE bride for my son to the all-knowing-DEVI! :pray:
 
Our Guru's guru used to say,
"NO one would wish that his/her mother should look like Hemamalini."
TRUE! People wish to have mothers who are kind, who love, care and share.
That is why all types of girls manage to get married.
If only the ultra Troys in beauty are to get married
98% of the girls have to remains virgins/ celibates /unmarried for life.
 

அன்னையர் வாழ்க!

மனித குலம் வாழையடி வாழையாய்த் தழைத்து,
இனிது வாழ வழி வகுப்பவர்கள் அன்னையர்தான்!

பால் ஊட்டி, சீராட்டி, கண்மணி போல் பாதுகாத்து,
பார் புகழ வைப்பவர்தான் நல்ல அன்னையராவர்!

ஜனனியாக இருந்து, மனித குலத்தைக் காப்பவரை,
ஜகத்ஜனனியான அன்னை பராசக்தி காத்திடுவாள்!

அன்னையர் தினத்தில் மட்டும் அல்லாது, நாம் நம்
அன்னையைப் போற்றுவோம், என்றுமே மறவாது!


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very true visa.

the son has to depend and get an okay from the spouse. even in an arranged marriage, where the son's mother has a final say in who the son weds, very soon the tables are turned, and the son soon recognizes that it is the bedroom that calls the shots.

Dear Sir,

The highlighted portion is not in good taste, IMHO.

It is picturing guys in a very cheap manner. As a Male/Husband other than the urge to have sex (which females as wife do have), a Man as a husband has to look forward for a peaceful, healthy, happy and successful marriage and in this bargain has to given in to his wife in many many ways, without resorting to Neeya-Naana challenge always.

Only the sisters and or brothers make such cheap remarks on a guy who could not convince or over rule his wife and go about extending help to his siblings and or parents. Sometime, some parents too go to the extent of making such remarks out of frustration of some kind.

The over all betterment of one's own family holds priority where either wife or husband tend to forgo his/her own parents/siblings. Generally shifting the whole real reasons to that of "Bedroom necessities" is not right, IMHO.


 

I have one honest doubt! Why many women who love their parents in spite of their short comings are NOT able

to love the husband's parents? Does it mean that they hate the relationship, if it comes by LAW? :noidea:

 

Dear Sis,

I hope your first D I L will not read this thread! :D

She can very well read this and every other thread. I have not say anything against her.
She is busy professor with two small children and one big bunny. :roll:

She does not have the time to spend on me and my blogs.
But she taught me how to save the images for my proverb site in an easy method. :thumb:

Otherwise locating, saving and storing the cartoons for the 1630 proverbs -
out of which onlt 400 were illutrated before I started doing it -
would have become a Himalayan task for me in terms of time, space and energy. :faint:

She would always admire my dedication, devotion and hard work and keep on saying
"I wish we too can work so hard for our promotion" :smow:
 

I have one honest doubt! Why many women who love their parents in spite of their short comings are NOT able

to love the husband's parents? Does it mean that they hate the relationship, if it comes by LAW? :noidea:


I think people inherently resist
anything given to them
in the name of the LAW. :rolleyes:

"Blood is ticker than water!" :hug:

The negative points are magnified in the in-laws :suspicious:

and the negative points of one's own is disregarded! :whistle:
 

A mother can stay with her daughter like a queen only if the son-in-law is obedient

or at least considerate and does not interfere with his betterhalf's business!

A mother can never be a queen, if the son-in-law happens to be a musudu! :rant:
 

A mother can stay with her daughter like a queen only if the son-in-law is obedient

or at least considerate and does not interfere with his betterhalf's business!

A mother can never be a queen, if the son-in-law happens to be a musudu! :rant:

If her son in law is a musudu,
even his wife (her own daughter)
can't live like queen.:drama:
Then how can her mother???
 
I went to visit my friend whose husband is a Hitler minus mustache!
Large red ants but slightly dull in color were crawling all over the gate.
Mr friend told me,"Be careful with those ants. Their bite stings.
They are called musudus."
I thought to myself," Adi asade! ulleyum musudu! veliyileyum musudu!!
itahai eesiyaa avoid paNNalaam!i athe eppdi avoid paNNuve??" :tsk:
 
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