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Grief has a few phases.
Let them grief a while.
Dont be worried of right and wrong now.

There is no actual right and wrong for a depressed mind.
They are keeping her memory alive.
This phase would pass.

Meanwhile try to be sympathetic towards them but
DO NOT try to be a daughter to them now..they are not looking for a replacement now...make them focus on the grandchild..make sure they dont start to view the baby in a negative manner..try to take them out for some outings but usually at this stage they might not really feel like leaving home.

If symptoms of major depression and delusion set in..you would need to get medical intervention.

But ideally your kids shouldnt be made to go along in this grief process.
That you have to discuss with your husband.

[QUOTE="renuka, post: 409160, member: 7604"] Grief has a few phases. Let them grief a while. Dont be worried of right and wrong now. There is no actual right and wrong for a depressed mind. They are keeping her memory alive. This phase would pass. Meanwhile try to be sympathetic towards them but DO NOT try to be a daughter to them now..they are not looking for a replacement now...make them focus on the grandchild..make sure they dont start to view the baby in a negative manner..try to take them out for some outings but usually at this stage they might not really feel like leaving home. If symptoms of major depression and delusion set in..you would need to get medical intervention. But ideally your kids shouldnt be made to go along in this grief process. That you have to discuss with your husband. [/QUOTE]

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