Things Men Love About Women

[krish44]

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Interesting Topic for both men and women....

I was just reading a post on the above subject.

Most women think they need to be very beautiful or dressed in expensive attire to make men fall in love with them.

It might surprise most these do not matter too much to men.


The most important thing for a man is to get a woman who will listen to him and care for him.Men like women who patiently listen to them without comments,

without interrupting to say what they would have done in their place or being judgemental.Just simply sitting and patiently listening makes men believe women

care for them the most. Women tend to be talkative which men do not appreciate. Caring again does not mean calling 10 times a day to say 'I Love You' but

being available when needed and listen to his sob stories when he is unwell or not doing well in job

next most men like women who compromise by reasoning ,negotiating and finding a solution acceptable to both. this rarely happens.

men love women who happen to have a good sense of humour. Nice to have someone they can share their jokes.

Men also like independant women who can be resourceful, drive cars /two wheelers and self sufficient

how many women would qualify in part or full

courtesy -a matrimonial website shaadi.com

 

[renuka]

I agree with what you wrote.

What you wrote is true...these are the qualities men desire in women.

But it always just remains a desire!LOL

No female is going to bother to conform to it or fulfill it!LOL


That is why Sanyas is advocated for males...they know their desire list in the mundane world can never be fulfilled ..therefore their last resort is God...they hope at least God wont let then down.

Keep dreaming guys!

 

[renuka]

When I was in college I remember many girls saying "men do not like talkative women" blah blah blah..and everyone will try to act quiet in front of guys and be a total fake.

This is what I do not get...not everyone can be quiet and not everyone can be talkative..and why is talkativeness looked down upon?

I get along well with talkative people cos at least they are interesting.

Topics of discussion need to be good and I feel many males too are actually talkative.

I have a good friend who can talk non stop until I have to tell him to shut up.

But even then I like talking to him cos he always has some latest story to share.

 

[krish44]

renukaji
it is like this

men like to talk.

ladies do not like to listen to them as they would also like to talk. talk more than men. that sets up a race for talking. who will out talk the other.

before marriage and just after marriage men talk. then ladies take over . men need to listen to them or get lost

as both grow old , both stop talking and there is peace all around.

it is found , [I was reading this morning] , oldies are happiest in marriage.

immediately after marriage ,both are happy , then it starts dipping and lowest at 40 plus and after fifty mates become happier due to stabler relationship . over sixty-

seventy they are the happiest. it is also subject to external factors not disturbing the equilibrium much.

 

[renuka]

dear Krish ji,

As couples age..emaling or texting is also a preferred method.

Usually when I have something serious to discuss..I prefer email..so that the other person reads it in point form and then discussions can take place.

 

[krish44]

well my approach is different .

I discuss only issues where outcome does not matter too much to me. I concede 100 percent .

those which are vital, I quietly implement taking the risks involved.

If the result is a disaster , I quietly hide it and write it off to experience.

If it is a success I brag about it

because of quick decision making and implementation weighing the pros and cons, I am better off.

consultation leads to safe decision making and average results often not brilliant results

my appetite for risks is very high and also the failure rate.

but my correctives are equally fast to minimise damage.

I am fast to move off to another thing if I fail badly