Food for thoughts...
Air, water and glass form different mediums.
When light travels from one to another, strange things seem to happen!
The things below the water surface appear to be closer than they really are!
The straw and spoon placed in a glass of water appear to be bent or broken at the water surface.
In the same medium there are neither bends nor breaks... there are neither distortions nor optical illusions!
So the cause lies in changing the medium!
Learn to respect every medium!
Learn to respect everyone's medium!
Everybody's medium is called the home.
Then you will be unable to find fault with people, their actions, words, deeds - real or imaginary!
Who are we to judge other people?
Who has authorized us to do the job?
The judging will be done by the divine eyes...
the god's eyes in the sky and by the divine power.
Just think about how many may be judging you,
as unkindly as, you are judging another person!