Value of parents

[P.J.]

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VALUE OF PARENTS
SPECIALLY MOTHER.

A Poor Couple lived in a Small Village in India.

They had only 1 Son.

They gave him the Best Education.
Son Graduated as an Engineer in the nearby City
Eventually He got Married to a Rich Girl.
Initially, They Lived with His Parents in the Village.

Soon the Wife got Tired of Village Life & Persuaded Her Husband to Move to the City Leaving His Old Parents in the Village.

As Time went,the Husband saw an Ad in the Newspaper about a
Job Vacancy in U.S

He was Successful & Lived in U.S for 20 Years with His Wife.
Regularly, He used to Send Money to His Parents
Eventually with Time, He Stopped & Forgot about His Parents whether
They ever Existed.

Every Day He Pray & Immediately after each Prayer He used to see Someone telling Him
in a Dream that his Prayer is not Accepted.
One Day, He Related this Story to a 'Pious Aalim' who Advised Him to go Back
to India to Visit His Parents.

The Man Flew to India & Reached the Boundary of His Village.
Everything was Changed over there.

He could not Find His House.
So He asked to the Head of the Village about the Whereabouts of His Parents.

The Head of the Village directed Him to a House & said: "In this House, Lives an Old Blind Lady who Lost Her Husband a Few Months Ago. She has a Son who Migrated to
US 20 Years back & Never came Back again. What an Unfortunate Man."

Son enters that Home &
Finds His Mother on the Bed.
He Tip-Toed as He did not want to Wake Her up.

He hears His Mother Whispering or Mumbling Something.
He gets Closer to Hear His Mothers Voice.

This is what His Mother was Saying: "God !
I am now Very Old & Blind. My Husband just Died.

There is no One to Lower Me in My Grave when I Die. So please Send My Son to Fullfill
My Last Wish".

This is the Ending of a Story where the Prayer of a Mother is Accepted.

A Human Body can Bear only 45 Del (units) of Pain.
But at the Time of Giving Birth, A Mother feels upto 57 Del (units) of Pain.
This is similar to 20 Bones
getting Fractured, all at the Same Time.



This is just to tell U the extent, to which a Mother Loves Her Child.
So, Love Ur Mom till the End of Ur Life.


UNDERSTAND YOUR DUTY TOWARDS YOUR PARENTS.




Source:My blog- K Hariharan

 

[krish44]

lot of sentimental stuff. this is emotional pitch exaggerated to make children feel guilty regarding parents,

why parents want to act helpless and want to hang on to their kids.?

they should learn to be self sufficient,live their lives and let children live their life in peace

 

[V.Balasubramani]

P.J. Sir,

Good one. Keep posting such good messages.

Some needs to be reminded often about the true value of parents. Everyone has social responsibility and one cannot skip the same under the guise of independence, own space, modern liberal thinking, etc. Those who fail to realize the importance and value of parents their love, affection, bondage, relationship, sentiments, etc are good for nothing and are nothing but typical morons.

Thanks for posting.

 

[Vaagmi]

ஆசப்பட்ட எல்லாத்தையும் காசிருந்தா வாங்கலாம்
அம்மாவ வாங்க முடியுமா...................................

 

[Raji Ram]

ஆசப்பட்ட எல்லாத்தையும் காசிருந்தா வாங்கலாம்
அம்மாவ வாங்க முடியுமா...................................

அடக் கடவுளே!

அப்போ, அப்பாவை வாங்க முடியுமோ? :dizzy:

 

[Vaagmi]

அடக் கடவுளே!

அப்போ, அப்பாவை வாங்க முடியுமோ? :dizzy:

ஆசப்பட்ட எல்லாத்தையும் காசிருந்தா வாங்கலாம்
அம்மாவ வாங்க முடியுமா.................
நீ........... அப்பாவ வாங்க முடியுமா...............

 

[Raji Ram]

ஆசப்பட்ட எல்லாத்தையும் காசிருந்தா வாங்கலாம்
அம்மாவ வாங்க முடியுமா.................
நீ........... அப்பாவ வாங்க முடியுமா...............

:clap2:

 

[krish44]

what About thatha,patti ?

 

[Vaagmi]

what About thatha,patti ?

Yes. And what about the others left out like kollu thaaaththa, kollu paatti, aththai, aththimber, maama, maami, aththaan, ammanji, aththanga, ammanga, chiththi, periyamma,chiththappa, periyappa, chiththappa's pillai, ponnu periyappa's pillai, ponnu, Annaa, manni, machchaan, thambi, thangai, machchini, and chinna veedu if any etc., LOL.

 

[Raji Ram]

what About thatha,patti ?

​That is a worry for our parents! :becky:

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,

Where do you get all this sentimental stuff directly out from a badly flopped movie?

I think some of it are from other forums...thank God TB forum is happening unlike other forums which can be downright boring.

Once I discontinued from a google group cos everyone was behaving too innocently boring!LOL

 

[renuka]

Yes. And what about the others left out like kollu thaaaththa, kollu paatti, aththai, aththimber, maama, maami, aththaan, ammanji, aththanga, ammanga, chiththi, periyamma,chiththappa, periyappa, chiththappa's pillai, ponnu periyappa's pillai, ponnu, Annaa, manni, machchaan, thambi, thangai, machchini, and chinna veedu if any etc., LOL.

LOL! I cant stop laughing..I loved the fact you did not leave out the Chinna veedus!

 

[renuka]

Every sentimental story makes it sound as if a son never cares for his parents and only listens to his wife.

So I guess parents should pray that their sons are gays so that there is no woman in his life!

 

[Vaagmi]

Every sentimental story makes it sound as if a son never cares for his parents and only listens to his wife.
So I guess parents should pray that their sons are gays so that there is no woman in his life!

They should also include in the prayer a request to make the partner of the son a good cook who cooks the requirements of the entire house without a murmur and also has time to blush whenever the oldies in the family crack stupid jokes. LOL.

 

[krish44]

Dear PJ sir,

Where do you get all this sentimental stuff directly out from a badly flopped movie?

I think some of it are from other forums...thank God TB forum is happening unlike other forums which can be downright boring.

Once I discontinued from a google group cos everyone was behaving too innocently boring!LOL

SHHH renukaji one member has written in blue appreciating pj sirs post. he might get offended again.

 

[V.Balasubramani]

SHHH renukaji one member has written in blue appreciating pj sirs post. he might get offended again.

Doctor Mam knows pretty well that 'Tastes differ'.

I believe PJ Sir exercise his wisdom and discretion of selecting threads only after a thorough scrutiny.

I stand by my opinion.

While some see the rose few see the thorns.

 

[Raji Ram]

......... I believe PJ Sir exercise his wisdom and discretion of selecting threads only after a thorough scrutiny........

The way threads are cropping up everyday, is there time for scrutiny?

P.S: I still remember that 'February' thread!

 

[JR]

Dear PJ ji and others,

A friend of mine always complains about her parents.

This friend is one of 6 children to her parents - 3 male and 3 female.

She always complains that her parents exhibited favoritism as the children grew up and that they treated the boy children more fairly and with more love in all matters than girl children.

Now she says, when all children are grown adults having their own families, the parents still are showing favoritism to the male children such that they wrote off a huge portion of their properties for the boys and a tiny, small portion each for the female children.

So she has no value for her parents. She always has some worthless and derogatory terms when talking about them.

I know not what to tell her. She sounds genuine and her concerns genuine too, but isn't there something called being indebted to one's parents no matter what?

So I tell her to go visit her really old parents from time to time, but she refuses.

Maybe its a problem with having too many kids, some parents are not equal in their love to all kids in such a situation?!. It is futile to expect love from grown children in their adulthood in such situations.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Jayashree,

The parents spend a lot of money during the daughter's wedding and do not spend much for the son. When unexpected

expenses arise, the son is supposed to help the parents. Hence some parents care more for their sons. My mom's friend

mAmi has four daughters. When all the daughters were married off, this mAmi made four sets of jewellery using all the

gold that she possessed. The reason she gave was that she did NOT want her daughters to fight after her demise!

 

[JR]

Dear Raji Mam,

What you are saying rings true! Actually, this friend also has lots of gold jewelry made for her marriage by parents (still has them).

She was given good education and everything like rest of the siblings, but she resents that her marriage went down (as she is a divorcee) because she thinks her parents did not spend enough time 'looking for a good groom'.

Somehow when divorces happen, people have a tendency to blame parents (especially in arranged marriages).

 

[V.Balasubramani]

The way threads are cropping up everyday, is there time for scrutiny?

P.S: I still remember that 'February' thread!

RR Mam,

I think he works round-the-clock and hence the variety of threads covering various subjects/topics.

I know more envy him for the awards he won.

 

[cmano1981]

I see this discussions coming many time. Problem gets complicated when son need to take care of their children in US. Bad thing is forgetting parents, but if they cannot be alone and need dependant, he need to bring his parents to US along with him at old age. If they disagree, then he need to identify old age homes or place some people for monthly salary to take care of them. This kid of posts keep coming, but I think they are not experienced and not understand practical scenarios happen in life over time.

 

[Raji Ram]

........ I know more envy him for the awards he won.

No comments!

 

[renuka]

SHHH renukaji one member has written in blue appreciating pj sirs post. he might get offended again.

Dear Krish ji,

PJ sir's best threads are the fun filled quiz types....that felt very energetic.

But off late PJ sir has been posting mostly sentimental threads...well may be age has finally caught up with him!LOL

 

[Raji Ram]

......... But off late PJ sir has been posting mostly sentimental threads...well may be age has finally caught up with him!LOL

​Sentiments are more because he will be landing in Sing. Chennai soon! lane: