"Family priests do allow this as per our and their convenience."
This one line is sufficient to do as, if it is wrong and if att all any papam it may go to the priests.
My concern is yajamanan should not invite papam.
"how many Brahmins are doing Sandhyavandanam all the three times regularly. Hoatw but Aupasanam and Vysvadevam by the married Brahmins; Offering Bhiksha to Brhamacharies and Sanyasis before they take food. Sorry for my long speech. It is just a pity the way we live in this situation."
"In Kaliyuga, many rules mentioned in Sastram cannot/are not followed. It is just not possible. We are born and have to live till death comes. You have to earn money to live. Are we earning the money the way it has to be done as per Sastram?"
Based on the above arguments, anybody can violate anything and do convenient to him. Like
Ex.: going inside temple with chappals - Young ladies can go to sabarimala or visit temples all the 30 days or youngsters can drink alcohol or steal money to live etc. Are we ready to accept ?
Acceptance depends on individuals mind.
Now a days Lady purohits are emerging. Ladies are chanting SriRudram with Mahanyasam
Whether we engage them in our family functions, in this kaliyugam, is a question ?
I am not against your views but against making it a public as it is similar to giving a sharp knife to a 2 years kid. Others will twist everything and finally the fear of GOD and DHARMAM will vanish.
This my view. Let us agree with our disagreements.
