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Waiting to die​

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The River Ganges is sacred in Hinduism, and the city of Varanasi, which lies on its banks, is one of the oldest and holiest sites for Hindu pilgrims from all over the world.

Devotees believe that you can wash away your sins by taking a dip in the Ganges at Varanasi. What’s more, dying and having your ashes scattered here is a sacred thing for Hindus who believe that it brings “moksha,” or freedom for the soul from the constant cycle of death and rebirth. To attain this salvation, many travel to Varanasi to die.




“Mukti Bhavan,” or “Salvation House,” is a charity-run hostel for people who wish to pass away in the city. It has 12 rooms, a temple and small quarters for its priests. Lodging there comes with certain conditions: guests have two weeks to die or they are gently asked to move on.
Sometimes, Bhairav Nath Shukla, the hostel manager, extends his guests’ stays by a few days if he thinks the person is about to die. Eerily enough, Shukla can often predict roughly when it will happen.

The 61-year-old has been taking in the dying and performing prayers for their salvation for the last 44 years and when I started covering this story, hostel records showed that 14,577 people had checked in to date. Most of them have attained moksha. Many of those who couldn’t die left disheartened with their relatives.
Just after my first visit to Mukti Bhavan, guest number 14,578 arrived. Munna Kuvar, a 105-year-old widow, had travelled from her village with her relatives to get here, lying for five hours in the back seat of a jeep.


Read more at: Waiting to die | Photographers' Blog
 
What do our Puranas say about dying in Kashi...Had the chance to read this

In the Matsya Purana, Siva says: “Varanasi is always my most secret place, the cause of liberation for all creatures. All sins which one may have accumulated in thousands of previous lives disappears as soon as one enters Avimukta” (1). One finds similar remarks in the Kashi Khanda (section) 0f the Skanda Purana regarding the importance of Kashi (aka Varanasi) (2). The Garuda Purana lists the seven holy cities, said to be Kshetras or fields of active power, where death is supposed to guarantee liberation. (“Ayodhya Mathura Maya Kasi Kanchi Avantika Puri Dvaravati chaiva saptaita moksadayikah” – Ayodhya, Mathura, Maya, Kashi(Varanasi), Kanchi, Avantika(Ujjain), and Puri are the seven holy cities – Garuna Purana, I XVI.14) (3).

Does dying in holy cities like Varanasi bring salvation? | Integral Yoga of Sri Aurobindo & The Mother
 
Talking of kidney failure...........

One of my dear family members wanted to donate her kidney to her dear younger brother, whose kidneys failed to function.

She was around 50 years of age then. The doctors in Sing. Chennai refused to do the transplant because her kidneys had only

50% efficiency. Then she proceeded to Vellore hospital with her brother, where the docs told that the brother may live for three

to four more years but they can't say how long the donor will live! The transplant was done and the brother survived for three

years in which period he could settle all his financial dealings successfully. All the doctors are surprised to find that the donor

is still living, though unable to move around, with only one (half efficient) kidney, in a fairly stable condition, at the age of 90!

Life span is bestowed by the Almighty; and the sufferings will continue because of Karma! :sad:
 
to live long one requires the will to live.
Generally happy people live longer.
world has so much to offer for pleasure and happiness of human beings
zohra sehgal, theatre and film personality passed away recently at the age of 102 yrs
she lived a full life acting even at the age of 97 yrs
she offered to date a family friend when both were ninety yrs and offered to go with him on a dinner and dancing date
when people talk of moksha and go to varanasi and such places to await death , it sounds a bit bizarre
it reminds me of the saying in hindi ' sau choohe khakar billi haj ko chali'translating 'cat wanted to go on haj pilgrimage after eating 100 rats.
most live doing their quota of good and some bad acts. If anyone can at the end of his life leaves behind some positive and good feelings in friends and relatives , I believe he would attain moksha.
 
I beg to differ Krish Sir! I know a few persons who wanted to live long and enjoy life were fated to die early! :sad:

You would have known that the Tamil writer Thamizhvanan (தமிழ்வாணன்) who wrote a book titled 'nooru AndugaL

vAzhvadhu eppadi?' died at the age of 56! So, the expiry date is determined by only by the Almighty!

The only person who could die when he wanted was the great Bhishma! :thumb:
 
RRji
there may be some freak cases like tamizhvanan.
whether one lives long and enjoys good life or not, having the desire for these is a requirement.
most simply hang up on living well due to various reasons.
life is short. one should learn to achieve more in short time available to us . we should be able to leave a legacy which close ones can cherish.
 
A question is asked here http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/general-discussions/18143-waiting-die.html#post255096 about what our purnas say about dying in Kashi. There is an ethnography book on this subject. Here are the details

Dying the Good Death: The Pilgrimage to Die in India's Holy City


Christopher Justice
SUNY Press, Feb 27, 1997 - Family & Relationships - 268 pages
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Exploring the Hindu concepts of good and bad deaths, this rich ethnography follows pilgrims who choose to travel to the holy city of Kashi to die.


 
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