Hi All, my name is Sangeeta, I'm from district kangra Himachal Pradesh. I was born on 22nd Feb 1998 5:40 AM Sunday, Rajput caste, Shandilya gotra and according to my kundali birth day is considered as Saturday. So let me explain my journey till now, I have completed my matriculation from govt school hindi medium. During this journey many changes happened, my parents were living happily in Amritsar when I born but just after few months of my birth they had to return to hometown HP for taking care of my grandfather because something happened with his legs. After coming to home we suffer poverty, disrespect, we were 3 sisters already two more came. One was given to some relative because the death of their young son they were begging. So after coming to sixth class my dad started a stable job ie fruit shopkeeper. After 10 I clear state PAT and took admission in polytechnic and after completing polytechnic our buffalo died due to forest fire then I clear SET for BTech and took admission in BTech during my studies, my family suffered many financial problems. After b. Tech I joined and MNC and payback my education loan. And after one year of working Covid came and in 2021 I joined m.tech parallel to working from home, during this time my father got sick analysed with TB. After M.tech I joined a company and started my home construction and after 8 months I lost my job, home construction stopped. So after few months I cleared net and during that time my mom was operated for gall bladder stone. Now I'm in IIT doing my PhD just 2 months happened. Still my father is doing his scrapping business hardly meets daily needs. My sisters are not living good life after marriage. My younger sister accidentally married and suffering. I want to know when I can complete my construction, when I'll get fortune, harmony and happiness to my family including my sisters . And will I be able to get a got govt job after my PhD. What about my marriage, I have one boyfriend now since 2015 but in 2020 breakup happened nd I was close to another boy who became my boyfriend till 2022 but due to many conflicts I came back to my past boyfriend. Please tell me about my married life, my family, my happiness, job, money, relationships and also remedies if there is something bad in my kundali. Please be honest after having so many self doubts I'm posting here, hoping some life guiding and helpful responses. Many thanks in advance
Dear Sangeeta -
Based on your life story already you have demonstrated tremendous maturity and are pursuing highest education regardless of all the hardships you have endured. I am more than a couple of decades older and hence taking the liberty to share with you some thoughts. It is up to you in the end
You may have come here looking for experts in astrology in the hope they can offer you some ideas of your future. I dont know Astrology. With that said, I want to steer you clear of pursuing that path with following reasons.
Future is unknown and unknowable for anyone. One can make predictions even in science using statistics etc but they are all chance based only. From truth of life point of view, without getting into details of Upanishad etc., I am just asserting that there is no such animal called future. Of late, there are very famous physicists that have written books saying time is unreal and an illusion. You can look for such books online. This conclusion is in agreement with teachings of our sages
For someone like you with such grit and determination only I would say this - you just live in the present. Planning for 'future' is fine but know that it is all happening in the present moment only. If the thought of future and insecurities of what may happen to you arises in the mind , then you become slave to the mind. Know that you dont need to be slave to circumstances no matter what the external conditions are.
I am sure you will find a good job given your determination, maturity and higher education. You help your father the best you can Be kind at counseling your sisters. They too should study if at all possible to be more independent.
Regarding marriage, it is said that 'marriage is made in heaven'. The meaning is that it is not in the purview of our will. Look at your body - heart pumps, lungs breath, blood circulates just to name a few functions. You look around and you see a higher power at play. This is not to say, higher power is waiting to be prayed to and then give you goodies. Instead , a more mature approach is to surrender to that power. Meaning, whatever happens let it happen should be your attitude. Marriage is a great institution but being single is fine as a life style too. So accept God. Here God is NOT said as infallible but rather infallibility wherever you witness is God. Hope you appreciate the difference
So if your old bf is someone you can relate to , then it is fine. Just be watchful for dependability and trustworthiness.
Everything will work out fine because whatever works out is fine by default in this understanding for it is all the will of God only is another way to put it. Such a God is not a dualist god because this is a provisional starting point only.
Steer ahead, you are doing well. Be confident and dont yield to any hope of reading the future. It is bright future for you because you are wise, have grit and have right character. Blessings