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What is to be an indian..abroad to-day.."francois gautier"....[tvk]

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Today I got a mail forward in my mail box. The writer is a French Journalist. It is interesting. If you have time go through read it....

TVK



WHAT IS IT TO BE AN INDIAN ABROAD TODAY ?

Obama has won again and most Indians in the US rejoice. What is it to be an Indian today in the United States? What is meant by Indian-ness ? What is it to be an Indian abroad ? How much of yourself do you give to your American identity – and how much space do you preserve for your Indian-ness ? These are the questions that Indian expatriates should ask themselves tod
ay.

For we see many of the children of Indians who settled in the US twenty or thirty years ago, merge themselves totally in the American way of life, speak with an American accent, eat Mac Donald, think American… and in the process forget all about their wonderful Indian culture…

What is it in the American way of life, which fascinates so much Indians ? The fast life ? Right: fast is exciting; but Americans live so fast, eating their breakfast in their cars on the way to work, gulping down these huge amounts of meat and French fries at lunch or dinner, always on the move, that not only they often grow immensely fat, but also catch ulcers and get heart attacks by the time they reach sixty five. What else dazzles Indians in the American way of life ? The lights? True, New York is a fascinating city, with its illuminated skyscrapers, its million of pulsating lights, its giant electronic billboards, its fancy bars, that one feels a kind of throbbing vitality entering oneself as one walks the streets by night. But what a waste of energy, when the world is fast losing its sources of energies; and is isn't this a kind of artificial vitality, that fades away when one wakes-up in the morning, with a hangover and one has to face the reality of life ? What else ? America’s Nature ? No doubt, the United States boasts some wonderful pieces of nature and Americans have shown us what it means to plant trees and live in a green environment: even Washington is densely wooded. But Nature can also be an illusion here: a highway is never very far from the forest, with its thousands of cars pouring out millions of cubic feet of carbon dioxide, which annihilates natures’ bounty, as the Los Angeles smog amply demonstrates. Besides, America is an unending suburban concrete jungle, with its boring repetition of mega stores, parking lots, and KFC’s. And when you have seen a city, you have seen them all. What else ? The “quality” of American life: barbecue parties, beaches, tattoos, fun and frolic? Yes, except that one out of three American couples divorce within three years, one out of four Americans consults a psychiatrist for depression, bulimia, schizophrenia or plain boredom, and American children regularly indulge in shooting other children, just because they are exposed to so much violence…

Is this the legacy you want to bequeath to your children, O Indian brothers and sisters, who are longing so much for the American way of life ? For this great brain drain, this bleeding of India’s heart and lungs, which has been going for so long, does not affect only the ordinary middle and upper class “secular” Indian, but also many good Hindus, who put their children in the best US universities and accept the fact that these children will settle in the American way of life and will probably never go back to India. True, their kids get heftier pay checks in the US , better facilities, they escape the Indian bureaucracy, red tape, corruption, slowness… But what are they going to bequeath to their own children in the long run: insecurity, violence, divorce, depression and above all their offspring, unknowingly, will be afflicted by a loss of identity : they will not know, nor feel any more in themselves, as their grandparents did, this natural space of Indian-ness, which automatically confers certain qualities. What is that Indian-ness ?

Firstly and foremost: “I accept you; I accept that you may be White or Black, Red or Yellow, Christian, Buddhist, or Muslim”. Not only that, “but I am even ready to go and worship in a church or a mosque, besides my temple.” “I accept that my Gods are avatars, incarnations of the Divine, but so is Jesus Christ, and also Buddha and even Mohamed”. This an extraordinary statement and a marvellous instrument towards world peace, at a time when the two great monotheist religions of the world, Islam and Christianity still say: “there is only one true God in the world – mine- and if you worship any other god, you are an Infidel and a Pagan and it is my right to convert you by any means, or even to kill you”. The 11th September 2001 attacks are nothing but a result of that dangerous theorem. As a result, Indians adapt easily wherever they go, particularly in the West, as they are very open to western culture. Of course, Indians also go to the other extreme: “not only I accept you, but I am going to become exactly like you – no even Whiter than the White: I am going to denigrate my own culture, spit on my religion, belittle my countrymen”. This is why you come across so often in the US in negative articles on India written by Indians – nay by Hindus. The Gujarat massacres were actually a great opportunity for these Hindu haters, such as Pankaj Mishra, to come out full blast and prove to the world that India is a land of Hindu fundamentalists where nobody is safe, particularly the Muslims “who are regularly victims of pogroms”. P.Mishra conveniently forgot to mention that India is an extraordinary country of freedom, where all persecuted religious minorities in the world have found refuge over the centuries, whether the Jews, the Parsis, the Syrian Christians, or today the Tibetans.

What else ? “I have inherited from my ancestors the tools to become a better man, whatever my religion, ethnicity and profession: a better Christian, a better Hindu, a better Muslim, carpenter, or CEO, IT engineer, or sailor”. What are these tools ? Hata-yoga, India’s gift to the world, which has been copied and imitated everywhere (although Time magazine did a story on yoga without mentioning the name “India” once). What else? Meditation, this extraordinary technique of coming back to one’s Self, of settling the mind and the body, which is today practiced by millions around the world – another bequest of India to humanity. Pranayama, the science of respiration, perfected by Indians for three millenniums. “Does the breath have any religion”, asks Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, the founder of the Art of Living movement, which has spread today in 150 countries ?

What first generations Indians in the States should ask themselves today is “How can I repay my debt to India” ? After all not only they got a nearly free education in India which was good enough for them to obtain well paid jobs in the US, but did they not also inherit that certain Indian-ness, which has been a great help to adapt to the American way of life? As for second, or third, or even fourth generations Indian Americans, what they should tell themselves is “”what can I do for my country” ? “In what way can I contribute to this great nation which is India, which is so maligned and sidelined in the United States” ? And the first thing they can do is to counteract the highly unfair and biased press coverage which India gets in America by writing to editors, or challenging the shameful coverage of CNN (which depicts Mr Vajpayee as an old feeble man, but gives hours of live retransmission of the recent Pope’s visit to Canada, when the man, whatever his extraordinary will power, is a walking mummy compared to Mr Vajpayee), or canvassing their elected representatives.

Finally, Because of the probable continuing confrontation between Islam and the United States (Iraq, Palestine, Pakistan etc), even though Mr Obama thinks that the problem is nearly over after he killed the elusive Bin Laden, and once he withdraws American troops from Afghanistan, Hindus in the US should evolve a friendly and separate identity. It will not matter that they speak with a perfect Yankee accent and think of themselves as one hundred percent Americans – they will be seen in the streets as “coloured” Asians and could be mistaken as Afghanis or Saudis and targeted like the unfortunate Sikhs recently in New Jersey. For too long, Indian Muslims, Christians and a small minority of ‘secular’ Hindus, have used the bogus South Asian label to isolate genuine Hindus in the US. The only solution for them would be that they start regrouping themselves under an “Hindu American” banner. Not only it will rekindle in them an ancient beautiful and powerful identity, but also grant them a protection, as it will quickly become known that Hindus in the US are upwardly mobile, western friendly and themselves a target of Muslim fundamentalism. How will it be done? By the force of circumstances, probably, because left to themselves Hindus are too passive and selfish to do anything.


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François Gautier




 
I understand that Shri Gautier is a pro-hindutva person. It is not necessary to heed his appeal/advice unless our Indians abroad want to group themselves under a "hindutva" banner, imo. Better let our people who are intelligent enough to make good earning in the foreign countries, continue to think for themselves and adapt themselves to the new country in any which way they feel best. If I had to settle down abroad, I think I would have followed, "while you are at Rome, do as the Romans do" to the extent possible/feasible.
 
François Gautier, and his Hindutva brothers do not speak for majority of PIO's.

“How can I repay my debt to India” I think this question should be on everybody's mind, and not just in expats mind. Most of the expat are Volunteering as ambassador of India, and Hinduism in every day life. They also repatriate foreign currency and invest in India.

But why must an expat prove his Indian-ness any more than other Indian. Just because they carry a different passport their thinking does not change. I would not defend Nikki Haley or Bobby Jindal, but they are following a political life and have to do what they think is important to win the election.

If all the expats landed back in India, the local population is not ready to accept these many millions more. We are seeing it already in Assam and other places.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/François_Gautier
François Gautier, born 1959 in Paris, is a writer and journalist based in India. He came to India at the age of 19 and spent his first eight years in the "international city" of Auroville India at the Sri Aurobindo Ashram in Pondicherry. He has been living in India since the 1970s and is married to an Indian. Gautier is one of the few westerners actively defending the hindutva movement.

It is like the joke i read some place.
" A recently converted Jew went to meet the pope in Rome, he was given audience, and he promptly tried to convert the pope to Christianity".
 
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What is to be an indian..abroad to-day

I don't get it why we Hindus need to fear getting extinct in terms of lifestyle and culture.
I do not think life as humans is very much different from race to race and religion to religion.

The normal routine of any human these days are :

1)Wake up in the morning
2)Exercise
3)Get ready for work
4)Have breakfast
5)Say some prayers if time permits
6)Go to work
7)Return home
8)Have dinner
9)Watch TV
10)Sleep

Same cycle repeats..at any one point did I think "I am Hindu" in any of this 10 steps I wrote?

The answer is No cos we know who we are in terms of race/religion so we do not have to keep reminding ourselves that we are Indian/Hindu etc day in day out.

I have no idea what are we really trying to protect?

Just be a good human and everything else will fall into place.
 

Dear Renu,

Good summing up of daily routine! :)

The difference will be in we eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner and how we pray God everyday!

I have seen two families living in the U S of A, where the children have bath early in the morning, chant a few slOkAs,

eat together and then leave to school. They go to the temple on Sundays. South Indian dishes are made everyday but

they also like to eat burgers, pizzas and bagels! For any family get together, they wear only Indian dress.

I think that only makes the difference.

P.S: We can not expect the persons living abroad to wear Indian dresses to school, college or office. :D
 
I think many more people would love to practise and imbibe their culture in daily routine but due to hectic work/studies and family life they either don't care or are not able to. Of course having said some people have more interest in preserving these than others.

Take the art of drawing kolams. Its a fast disappearing art/practise in Indian metros perhaps? Or even abroad. Some people know it, others don't and some others even if they do know they are not interested. My mother wasn't interested in learning from her mum, but she did expose me to it through my grandmother. Thats good enough. Then on a trip to visit my mother's distant cousin in Nagpur, my cousin taught me how to draw coloured "muggus" (telugu for kolam). I was interested and so before we came home, we had bought different colours of "muggu pindi" and i used to draw on festive occassions.

Now I am not able to at the moment, but even though its a bit shaky, once i get my hands on it, I can do. These things may be totally insignificant to people, but IMHO they make up our culture, well at least my culture. So we should take some time and interest to expose our children, if we can because you never know know, they may be interested if not now, in the future. Agreed you cannot force your kids, but at least if you've exposed them significantly, you've done your small bit to pass on the culture, i feel.

I am still impressed with that super singer junior girl from Fremont Pragathi, who despite living in America still had an interest to learn and sing classical music so well.
 
I think many more people would love to practise and imbibe their culture in daily routine but due to hectic work/studies and family life they either don't care or are not able to. Of course having said some people have more interest in preserving these than others.

Take the art of drawing kolams. Its a fast disappearing art/practise in Indian metros perhaps? Or even abroad. Some people know it, others don't and some others even if they do know they are not interested. My mother wasn't interested in learning from her mum, but she did expose me to it through my grandmother. Thats good enough. Then on a trip to visit my mother's distant cousin in Nagpur, my cousin taught me how to draw coloured "muggus" (telugu for kolam). I was interested and so before we came home, we had bought different colours of "muggu pindi" and i used to draw on festive occassions.

Now I am not able to at the moment, but even though its a bit shaky, once i get my hands on it, I can do. These things may be totally insignificant to people, but IMHO they make up our culture, well at least my culture. So we should take some time and interest to expose our children, if we can because you never know know, they may be interested if not now, in the future. Agreed you cannot force your kids, but at least if you've exposed them significantly, you've done your small bit to pass on the culture, i feel.

I am still impressed with that super singer junior girl from Fremont Pragathi, who despite living in America still had an interest to learn and sing classical music so well.

Dear Amala,

Nice to note you know how to draw Kolam..I know nothing about it but Rangoli I can cos that you can make any shape or design.

I remember making Ultraman Cartoon Character Rangoli last year for Diwali ..cos my son wanted to make one.
So we made AUM and also Ultraman Rangoli.

For me since the main purpose of a Kolam is to feed birds/insects etc..how much can a person actually feed a bird or insect with a Kolam..so I usually put some sugar at the corners outside house for ants and throw some seeds and cereals for birds so at least I know that they had a proper edible meal.

But when I look back to wonder how much of culture I maintain and retain..I can say I retain nothing much besides knowing how to sing some bhajans/recite mantras/dressing up in saree etc.

But even then I feel life still goes on but for me one tradition I have maintained in my family is fulfilling both my paternal and maternal grandfathers wishes that at least one grandchild should know Sanskrit.

That is the only tradition I have maintained I feel..otherwise I can safely say tradition wise I am a total ZERO.(but with no regrets)
 
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I think that we tabras are constantly changing and evolving; we adapt ourselves as also each and every aspect of family/cultural etc., lives so as to get along with the changes that TIME brings in, in the entire world.

So, if you have lived longer, you will be able to list out many more skills, knowledge sets, practices and wisdom which we, as a people, have forgotten. I give below a small list of a few such items which have completely disappeared from our ability.

1. Using ammi & āṭṭukkal, tirukai etc., in the kitchen or household

2. The skill to pound paddy or other whole grains in an "oral", particularly, the skill needed for two or three women to pound in the same 'oral', simultaneously, without any hitch.

3. Knowledge about medicinal herbs which are abundant in our surroundings and for which type of disease/illness they are useful and how it is to be used (whether as kaṣāyam, simple extract, ariṣṭam, etc.,) and how to prepare these.

4. Drawing mākkolam using rice flour made into a running paste and drawing 3 or even 4 lines at the same time using all the four fingers.

5. Preparing muṟukku by hand, especially the ones using boiled rice.

6. Using the muṟam (winnowing fan) both in the kitchen as also to separate chaff from grain in the harvested rice crop.

7. Using the pātāḷakkaraṇṭi or getting down into a well and retrieving items which have been dropped by kids, accidentally.

8. Swimming in country ponds and calm streams and rivers (not deep) with saree or 9 yards puḍavai oṉ the body.

9. When no other help is available, ladies climbing a not-so-tall coconut tree and plucking coconuts for home use.

The above are some of the skills/abilities which some, if not all, tabra women possessed some 60 or so years ago, in Travancore, when I was a boy. Of course, today's woman has acquired a fresh set of skills to cope with today's life, which those older women did not have. So, my view is, let us try to preserve any or all of the now-forgotten, age-old skills if there are people with money to undertake such tasks and there are people coming forward to re-learn and preserve those skillsets, but let us not lament over those either, if we are unable to preserve those.
 
So, my view is, let us try to preserve any or all of the now-forgotten, age-old skills if there are people with money to undertake such tasks and there are people coming forward to re-learn and preserve those skillsets, but let us not lament over those either, if we are unable to preserve those.

I agree with that sentiment very much.
I used to play competition soccer for 90 minutes, now if I walk 45 minutes it is a good day.
जितनी लम्बी चादर हो उतने ही पैर फ़ैलाना चाहिए
Transliteration: jitni lambi chaddar ho utane hi pair failana chahiye
Literal: Stretch your legs only as far as the size of your blanket.
 
Sangom Sirs post brought lot of 'malarum ninaivugaL'! :)

1.
Even now, ammi and Attukkal are used for grinding, due to power cut in Ram's village house!

2. 'ural' is not in use but to make 'vEppalAkkatti', the mixture is pound in an Attukkal, using a
15" long iron 'ulakkai'.

3. 'Chukku kashAyam' and 'jeera' water are often prepared at home.

4. 'mAkkOlam' is a regular feature during all festivals in Sing. Chennai houses too. I have not seen drawing 4 lines in one go!!

5. Now a days, hand made murukkus are mostly bought from shops but few of us know to make at home.

6. 'muRam' is used in most of the houses in Sing. Chennai too.

7. 'pAthALak karaNdi' is used in villages but children don't seem to throw stuff in the wells, as we did as kids! :becky:

8. I have not seen ladies swimming in our village but some have bath in the river even
now a days.

9. One genuine doubt! What were the guys doing when ladies climbed the coconut trees??

As Sangom Sir has pointed out, ladies of this generation have many new skills like operating the Computers, driving

two wheelers and cars.

P.S: Making garlands with malli, mullai and javandhi flowers was a lovable hobby for us!
 
Isn't it the case that the expat Indians are often more Indian than the Indians themselves?

Of course this phenomenon is not restricted only to Indianness ..
 
Isn't it the case that the expat Indians are often more Indian than the Indians themselves?

Of course this phenomenon is not restricted only to Indianness ..

Shri Biswa sir,

I don't know much about expats of other nationalities, but AFAI have observed, among our Indian expats, especially the youth and middle-aged persons, though some kind of nostalgic longing for a life in India, back home, comes to them (especially when the smooth course of their happy and plentiful life abroad suddenly faces some problems or stress-situations), by and large, these sections of our expat community are happy to adjust to their new life. But majority of the seniors who go abroad on temporary or permanent settlement seem to make it a mission to create their very native ambience about them in the foreign country also. These seniors probably feel that their so doing will change their children (and then, the grandchildren and so on) to lead a truly "native" kind of life style there also. Ultimately we will thus establish a Tanjore, Palakkad or Mumbai somewhere in the USA also!

A cross-section of tabra youth abroad also thinks the same way as the senior people do.
 
Isn't it the case that the expat Indians are often more Indian than the Indians themselves?

Of course this phenomenon is not restricted only to Indianness ..

I agree with you.
Then this French guy Francois comes across and acts more Indian than the Indians, is telling Hindus to be militant. He is trying to divides Indians verses PIO. He also wants to create division among Indians by religion. He wants to fan the flame of communalism.

The some Indians are telling the NRI how to behave on basis of this interloper's opinion.
 
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I don't get it why we Hindus need to fear getting extinct in terms of lifestyle and culture.
I do not think life as humans is very much different from race to race and religion to religion.

The normal routine of any human these days are :

1)Wake up in the morning
2)Exercise
3)Get ready for work
4)Have breakfast
5)Say some prayers if time permits
6)Go to work
7)Return home
8)Have dinner
9)Watch TV
10)Sleep

Same cycle repeats..at any one point did I think "I am Hindu" in any of this 10 steps I wrote?

The answer is No cos we know who we are in terms of race/religion so we do not have to keep reminding ourselves that we are Indian/Hindu etc day in day out.

I have no idea what are we really trying to protect?

Just be a good human and everything else will fall into place.
hi renu
i can sum it up easily.....IN USA....PAANCH DIN NAUKARI....EK DIN GROCERY....EK DIN LAUNDARY....if time permits ....

bith day party/ baby shower party/ social gatherings...rarely possibly temple/bala vihar.......ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT

INS AND IRS..... just usa immigrants know well abt INS/IRS ....no time for hindutva/hindu dharma...especially for

second/third generations....some oldies may talk abt these things....the first generation immigraants from india...

even sometimes any relatives/friends came from india....to show them abt temples/ temple activities like some

visiting places.....
 
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So after 5 days working, 1 day grocery shopping and 1 day doing the laundry, how do they have time for the childrens tuition, piano lessons, dancing, swimming, baseball etc and more importantly do the couple even have a few seconds for each other?!

I can imagine how their routine must be getting upset especially when relatives (other than parents who come to be nannies for the children anyway!) visit from India and having to take them around...poor things :(
 
Isn't it the case that the expat Indians are often more Indian than the Indians themselves?

Of course this phenomenon is not restricted only to Indianness ..

I think we tend to value and appreciate somethings more when we are not immersed in it all the time so to speak.
 
Here is a semi-technical paper on Kolam
https://www.americanscientist.org/issues/feature/the-kolam-tradition

Since most of the traditions in ancient cultures are passed by oral means (from person to person), it will be nice to document this knowledge - with blogs, youtube etc, many of these traditions can easily be passed on to the interested people.
(In a similar vein if one is interested in genealogical history we can only gain when elders are alive)

kai murukku Kai Murukku, suthu murukku - YouTube
Ammavin Samayal - Paccharisi Kai Murukku.m4v - YouTube

par boiled murukku
Kai Murukku - YouTube

Murukku Machine!
http://youtu.be/XHXYwuGEg7M

Since I do not possess any of this technical knowledge I am off the hook. But I volunteer my services if any one needs any help.

(This problem is not unique to cooking or Indian tradition - in Software engineering, bridge design in civil engineering, linear accelerator calibration all need knowledge empowerment - to pass on the hard earned experience to the next generation )
 
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Mr. MSK,
You have started a tradition. It would be nice to have a separate thread for collecting all these artforms.
If it os buried in the present thread we will not be able to readily get to it.
Thanks
 
So after 5 days working, 1 day grocery shopping and 1 day doing the laundry, how do they have time for the childrens tuition, piano lessons, dancing, swimming, baseball etc and more importantly do the couple even have a few seconds for each other?!

I can imagine how their routine must be getting upset especially when relatives (other than parents who come to be nannies for the children anyway!) visit from India and having to take them around...poor things :(
hi amala,
its really a poor thing...very stressful in reality...........so they keep their children in day care from 3 months old....later

the same children keep their mom/dad in old age home/assisted living facilities.....EACH AND EVERY ACTION HAS A EQUAL

AND OPPOSITE REACTION...newston's third law in physics...
 
I am not sure, I would be so negative about the NRI situation. I myself have actually visited more temples in the US than in India. We try to go once a week. Which also means my children visit temples more regularly than their cousins in India. In my experience very few people below 60 visit temples regularly in India.

US may expect 40 hours work per week, but in India the busy young professionals work 60 hours per week or more. If life were so rosy in India, there wouldn't be this mad rush to go abroad.


hi renu
i can sum it up easily.....IN USA....PAANCH DIN NAUKARI....EK DIN GROCERY....EK DIN LAUNDARY....if time permits ....

bith day party/ baby shower party/ social gatherings...rarely possibly temple/bala vihar.......ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT

INS AND IRS..... just usa immigrants know well abt INS/IRS ....no time for hindutva/hindu dharma...especially for

second/third generations....some oldies may talk abt these things....the first generation immigraants from india...

even sometimes any relatives/friends came from india....to show them abt temples/ temple activities like some

visiting places.....
 
I understand that Shri Gautier is a pro-hindutva person. It is not necessary to heed his appeal/advice unless our Indians abroad want to group themselves under a "hindutva" banner, imo. Better let our people who are intelligent enough to make good earning in the foreign countries, continue to think for themselves and adapt themselves to the new country in any which way they feel best. If I had to settle down abroad, I think I would have followed, "while you are at Rome, do as the Romans do" to the extent possible/feasible.

Dear Sri. Sangom, Greetings.

Sri. Gautier is a Hindu sympathiser. He seem to have truly moved by the Hindu philosophy of treating everyone as equal when it comes to religion. ( I am not keen to start a debate about caste divisions, please). He writes on that basis.

As an Indian who settled in Aussie land more than two decades ago, my opinions are as follows -

1. Our diet had not changed as of today. Slowly our children are moving away from rice though. But plenty vegetables, our same old kuzhambu, kootu recipes... ( On Sunday it was ripe mango kuzhambu.. mango in seson).

2. We seem to have become more broad minded than we were in India. While we were in India and during the initial years we had an arrogance and ego thinking we come from a better culture; thought we had much more cultural values... But now we realise most westerners don't like confrontations, soft in attitudes and more loving than we are. Also we find them non-judgemental. ( Our tribe is the most judgemental, in my opinion. My wife went to india early this year after more than a decade and a half.. She had no blouse or long in-skirt to be able to wear a saree... thought skirt would be more conservative than a pair of trousers.. wore skirt on the day two in India... she was purchasing sarees and was planning to get blouses stitched.. already she was judged.. no one asked her if she could get sarees and blouse in our large country town...
comment was " will you be wearing a saree at least during your son's wedding?" ... I am very glad our children don't have such hiccups in the name of culture!).

3. Most of the locals here expect us to maintain our culture. During every major festivals like Deepavali, Pongal, Onam, new year etc, there would be a mention about that in the national news in the morning and in the evening. Once I was so busy, I overlooked Deepavali... Local white guys greeted me when I went to work.. I rang my wife after that and she prepared sweets for our children..

But i guess, all these experiences may be different to different persons.

Cheers!
 

Dear Amala,

PAANCH DIN NAUKARI....EK DIN GROCERY....EK DIN LAUNDARY.
is mentioned by TBS Sir. The 'naukari' includes taking children to classes to learn piano, baseball,

swimming and as the like. The grocery and laundry are only a part of the week end work! It includes

taking children to classical music, dance and slOkA classes too!! :thumb:
 
........ In my experience very few people below 60 visit temples regularly in India......
Dear Sir,

You might be visiting India during vacation!

Please visit once during the exam time.... You will find the difference! :hail: . . . :pray: . . . :hail:
 

Dear Prof. M S K Sir,

Thanks for the youtube links about 'kai murukku'. For the first time I saw the anti clockwise twist in 'murukku'!

The machine is very fast but the hand made ones have their own beauty! :)
 
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