What kind of life partner are you?

[P.J.]

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What kind of life partner are you?

What kind of life partner are you?

You are a:

Providing Partner

You are a caring and providing partner. You always put your partner before yourself. You place the happiness and satisfaction of your relationship above everything else. There have been times where you've sacrificed your own desires to help your partner achieve theirs. Deep down, you are very authentic and real. Even when things don't go as planned, you always know how to keep a bright attitude and make sure everything works out for the good of both of you.



Try now!!

 

[renuka]

[h=3]You are a:[/h][h=3]Satisfying Partner[/h][h=4]You are a truly satisfying partner. You always go out of your way to please and satisfy your partner. Your love can only be described as unconditional. Your partner's flaws and quirks make them even more lovable to you. You get pleasure out of pleasing your partner even if it sometimes means giving up on something that you wanted. It's not easy to find lovers like you in this day and age.[/h]

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,

My results say Your love can only be described as unconditional

Wow..thats almost like being God!LOL

So PJ sir..do you still feel I have a Devil's mind?

 

[tbs]

hi

here my result herewith....


[h=3]You are a:[/h][h=3]Providing Partner[/h][h=4]You are a caring and providing partner. You always put your partner before yourself. You place the happiness and satisfaction of your relationship above everything else. There have been times where you've sacrificed your own desires to help your partner achieve theirs. Deep down, you are very authentic and real. Even when things don't go as planned, you always know how to keep a bright attitude and make sure everything works out for the good of both of you.[/h]

 

[JR]

[h=3]You are a:[/h][h=3]Passionate Partner[/h][h=4]You are a deeply passionate partner. You have a very adventurous and spicy personality. Most of the time, you are lost in this beautiful world that belongs to only the two of you. It's a place where there's so much to do and explore. And you have the spices to take it to the next level. You are extremely intimate, and your relationship never runs out of pleasure and happiness.[/h]
PS: I believe that as I age, my traits keep changing and while the above could be said true of my younger age, I am no more a person who can be described by the above description!

 

[P.J.]

Good JR Ji

Deeply Passionate!! Show this to your life partner!!

 

[P.J.]

Dear PJ sir,

My results say Your love can only be described as unconditional

Wow..thats almost like being God!LOL





So PJ sir..do you still feel I have a Devil's mind?

renukaji

I am hearing some distant voice saying" save me please'' coming from Malaysia !!!

 

[renuka]

renukaji

I am hearing some distant voice saying" save me please'' coming from Malaysia !!!

Whoa Come with me Now!LOL

 

[renuka]

PS: I believe that as I age, my traits keep changing and while the above could be said true of my younger age, I am no more a person who can be described by the above description!

Dear JR,

Keep the passion going..never let it decline..in fact as we age the juicier relationships get.

 

[krish44]

We need not be passionate. At least not hate each other more.lol

 

[renuka]

We need not be passionate. At least not hate each other more.lol

Dear Krish ji,

Passion is like a fruit..the more you bite it..the more juice flows.

Hatred is like poison..the moment you spew it ..it consumes you too.

Now when it comes to managing both....even if you want to serve poison make sure you serve it with juicy passion...the hatred flows but it does not consume you!LOL

 

[krish44]

Say I love you and strangle? lol

 

[renuka]

Say I love you and strangle? lol

Dear Krish ji,

Once someone close made me real angry..so I gave the person a stern warning that "I can torture you slowly and know how much to inflict so that you wont die and I will treat you and be compassionate enough to not charge you for it and let you heal before I inflict the next round of torture"

So you see one can be lovingly evil!LOL

 

[krish44]

dear renukaji

nothing serious to be concerned about.

only renukaji blowing hot and cold simultaneously

knowing you closely they might not have taken you seriously.lol

 

[renuka]

only renukaji blowing hot and cold simultaneously

knowing you closely they might not have taken you seriously.lol

No No..I am not having menopausal hot and cold flashes.

The trick is to make people underestimate the seriousness of the statement!LOL

But may be you have a point too.. after all I am such a 'sweet" person..am I not?LOL

 

[P.J.]

Whoa Come with me Now!LOL

not yours renukaji

It is some distant male Voice....pleading like!

you can guess!!

 

[renuka]

not yours renukaji

It is some distant male Voice....pleading like!

you can guess!!

dear PJ sir,

Oh! I did not know your voice travels from wherever you are and echoes back to you! ha ha ha

So sad PJ sir..better surrender!LOL

 

[krish44]

One interesting question
How would you choose a life partner?
What will be the basic things you would look for in a life partner and how will you make sure he has the traits he claims to have ?
Do you believe destiny plays a part ?

 

[renuka]

One interesting question
How would you choose a life partner?
What will be the basic things you would look for in a life partner and how will you make sure he has the traits he claims to have ?
Do you believe destiny plays a part ?

dear Krish ji,

How to answer your question? Cos I have already chosen a life partner and been married for donkey years.. and the law of my country does not permit polyandry.

So cant answer your question!LOL

 

[krish44]

dear Krish ji,

How to answer your question? Cos I have already chosen a life partner and been married for donkey years.. and the law of my country does not permit polyandry.

So cant answer your question!LOL

It is an academic exercise. Even 80 year old much married with any number of kids can respond.

It is to gauge how would you respond in case you face the same issue after many years of marriage and seeing more of life.

It is to find out what parameters would guide choice of life partner for example for your own children if they ask you for your suggestion/guidance

 

[renuka]

It is an academic exercise. Even 80 year old much married with any number of kids can respond.

It is to gauge how would you respond in case you face the same issue after many years of marriage and seeing more of life.

It is to find out what parameters would guide choice of life partner for example for your own children if they ask you for your suggestion/guidance

Ok lets see..if I could go back in time and repeat the marriage scene..I would choose the same person I married.

Cos I feel we marry someone for a reason..the way marriage turns out whether its good or bad or mixed or boring..I feel that is the best for each one of us.

Perfection does not exists..we make mistakes thinking we should strive for the best in life..we should just go along with the flow...listen to our inner heart.

Now if my son asks me advise..I will be sincere to him ..I will tell him that "In life there is no certainty in anything..anything can take a different twist the very next day....so its up to you to be brave enough to face situations in life..so the final choice is yours..if turns out well dont get too excited becos getting too excited might take us away from reality and if anything turns out bad dont get depressed ...take it as life lessons and move on..its always better to choose someone who is from the similar background,education,thinking and looks..that is only the foundation and its up to you to paint a picture imperfect..dont paint a picture perfect becos there is more fun with imperfection...perfection is being dead..imperfection is pulsating with life"

 

[krish44]

Normally , there are three persons in a family who are directly involved and have stakes in choice of a new addition to family father ,mother and the person marrying.

In most families , all three have different perceptions on who makes the best match.

one parent is traditional ,the other with traditional tempered with liberal values and child often maximum liberal. when these get together to choose , they are unable

to decide jointly what they want. there is a long list of parameters caste/subcaste,horoscope, status, upbringing, education , job salary/ place of work, age, interest.

hobbies, other siblings in family, height ,looks and finally something undefined called character. Every prospective match goes through many of these match criteria

and the family when it finalises one or two , the matching party does not find the alliance attractive and back to square zero. So finding a suitable and good life partner

is not easy or simple.In arranged matches, it is very difficult to decide what to hold on to as basic and what one can compromise on as all parameters cannot be met in

full

like what renukaji says, only if we leave it to child, let the child himself/herself choose a person from similar background,education ,thinking and looks and perhaps job

and location as primary consideration it might not be very difficult to find a match.but how many children would have freedom of such choice.

even with all this ,as she says there is no certainty how the marriage will turn out. we could be happy even with some imperfections in the mate as we are not perfect

ourselves. we can also console ourself perfect mates are anyway boring to live with -no excitement or fun as she puts it. lol

 

[renuka]

like what renukaji says, only if we leave it to child, let the child himself/herself choose a person from similar background,education ,thinking and looks and perhaps job

and location as primary consideration it might not be very difficult to find a match.but how many children would have freedom of such choice.

even with all this ,as she says there is no certainty how the marriage will turn out. we could be happy even with some imperfections in the mate as we are not perfect

ourselves. we can also console ourself perfect mates are anyway boring to live with -no excitement or fun as she puts it. lol

dear Krish ji,

Change is inevitable..only yesterday I was giving advise to a friend of mine who is a divorcee and in a relationship with a fellow divorcee and he was complaining about her to me.

I told him "hey you should be knowing by now that perfection does not exists..may be you are comparing her to your 1st wife..there must be something in your ex -wife that you must be still missing cos you can never really hate anyone 100%..so go slow with anyone... marriage means loss of romance..you have to decide..if you want romance or you want a commitment as in marriage?
If you want only romance..dont marry..if you want a commitment..then marry..but marriage actually tastes the same finally..its just that some like it hot and some like it cold..choice is yours"

My friend was actually dumb enough to believe me and asked for my blessings to get married!

 

[krish44]

Actually most want romance with commitment. Otherwise who would want to be romantic alone if it were to result in failed or likely to fail long term relationship.

No one goes into a relationship telling it is boring and let us try romance for a change or kicks , If this is spelt out , most men and all women would not opt for romance.

romance in most cases is a result of physical desire and make believe love in order to look for a long term relationship .If the basic end result is not likely to be met

,not many will continue to have romantic thoughts about the person. They will drop the person like a hot potato.lol

 

[renuka]

Actually most want romance with commitment. Otherwise who would want to be romantic alone if it were to result in failed or likely to fail long term relationship.

No one goes into a relationship telling it is boring and let us try romance for a change or kicks , If this is spelt out , most men and all women would not opt for romance.

romance in most cases is a result of physical desire and make believe love in order to look for a long term relationship .If the basic end result is not likely to be met

,not many will continue to have romantic thoughts about the person. They will drop the person like a hot potato.lol

Actually who drops a hot potato?

If we want to eat the potato we hold on to it no matter how hot it and quickly run to the table to place it and eat it when it has cooled down.

Now lets see how this hot potato syndrome..

when there is romance its HOT! but no one leaves it..they bear the heat like how Agni ran holding the unborn Kartikeya in his hands to place it in Ganga too cool down

So you see likewise..when romance is there..its HOT then humans run to place where it can cool down..and that is MARRIAGE!