What straight men can learn from gay men.

[renuka]

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I have noted that gay men tend to have a loving and sensitive side..not afraid to show their emotions but at the same time still masculine in their own way.

They can still have a temper and fight for anyone they love and like.Gay men are not whimps like the media tends to portray.

Since they are genetically male of the XY kind that shows that all these emotions are present in anyone with an XY genetic make up..then why we see less of these in straight men?

Is there something that straight men need to learn from their gay counterparts?

What is holding the straight male from exploring his emotions?

When even God is called Karuna Sagara(Ocean of Compassion) why do males still try to hide their emotions?

Would like members especially PJ sir to respond..lets hear out the guys in Forum.

 

[biswa]

I work with some gay men. It bothers me that they bat their eyelashes and give coy smiles.

Renukaji, are you afraid of macho men? As you know this forum has only macho men. And nobody has outed themselves (yet).

 

[renuka]

I work with some gay men. It bothers me that they bat their eyelashes and give coy smiles.

Renukaji, are you afraid of macho men? As you know this forum has only macho men. And nobody has outed themselves (yet).

Nope..I am not afraid of macho men but I seem to prefer my male gay patients.

They talk nicely..smile more and are polite.

I tend to charge my gay patients less cos they are so sweet that I give them some discounts.

The macho ones tend to try to act smart sometimes.

Well you are right about the Macho Maamas in this forum but I am sure some of them have a caring and sensitive emotional side too..cos even though they claim they do no see Mega Serials they seem to know all about the stories!LOL

So we need to hear what Maamas have to say.

 

[biswa]

What is wrong with straight but sensitive men? I have a feeling only half of gay men are sensitive. I think you know which half!

 

[renuka]

What is wrong with straight but sensitive men? I have a feeling only half of gay men are sensitive. I think you know which half!

No No..even the active one are sensitive...its not true that only the passive ones are sensitive.

There is nothing wrong with straight sensitive men..in fact I did say in some thread a couple of days ago that the perfect male would be a hard core masculine outer appearance but with a heart of gay male.

I actually know someone who is like that..a good friend of mine.

Everyone loves him cos he is caring..loving..sensitive and at the same time if you mess with him you are dead meat!

 

[renuka]

Also another nagging doubt....are men who are very intelligent usually more emotional that less intelligent males?

I hope male members can shed some light on this.

 

[biswa]

Probably not true. People like Einstein and Hawking were known to be quite emotionally insensitive. Work was their wife (and mistress).

As you have yourself said, EQ is different from IQ.

Also another nagging doubt....are men who are very intelligent usually more emotional that less intelligent males?

I hope male members can shed some light on this.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

You seem to 'spoil' the guys - note guys - living in Malaysia!

Reason: Your discount given to 'special' guys!! :lol:

 

[renuka]

Dear RR ji,

I cant wait for PJ sir to respond to this thread.

Wonder what he will write?

These days PJ sir seems to be the "celebrity" of the Forum!

 

[krish44]

men are considered stronger than female . even if they are not they are forced not to exhibit emotions inconsistent with the strong image . expression of sadness -shedding tears, outward expression oflove is no-no for atleast for the mamas. i do not qualify to talk on behalf of all mamas,.some in my circle do not.of course they shout and scream at some ladies who outsmart them challenging their strength

 

[renuka]

men are considered stronger than female . even if they are not they are forced not to exhibit emotions inconsistent with the strong image . expression of sadness -shedding tears, outward expression oflove is no-no for atleast for the mamas. i do not qualify to talk on behalf of all mamas,.some in my circle do not.of course they shout and scream at some ladies who outsmart them challenging their strength

Let see what some Parama Maamas(Supreme Maamas) have to say..Krish ji you are a "young" man..remember?? So surely you do not qualify as a Maama yet..your mind is still young!

In Forum mostly members are XY Maamas and some XYY types younger males are also there who love to "attack" for no rhyme or reason!LOL

 

[P.J.]

Dear RR ji,

I cant wait for PJ sir to respond to this thread.

Wonder what he will write?

These days PJ sir seems to be the "celebrity" of the Forum!

renukaji



I do not hate Gays; they are very pleasant and lovable.

They are different from transgender

One need not be a Gay to have some sort of pleasure with another male, sometime it happens involuntarily. Even for a normal guy.


This happens during adolescent age, and in some cases this habit may continues even after having wife and children.

They are neither Gays nor Homos, but they like a different companion indiscreetly.


That is the reason (probably, not sure) many male health massage Clinics attract many clients because, some males prefer males massagers.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear P J Sir,

There is a song which says

'kaNNa kalanga vaikum figuru vENaandaa - nammakku

kaNNeer anjali poster ottum naNban pOdhuNdaa!'

It seems you are getting confused between 'special' men and 'uyir naNbans'!

 

[vgane]

Renukaji,

Interesting topic!

Do you get lesbian clients as well?

 

[renuka]

Renukaji,

Interesting topic!

Do you get lesbian clients as well?

Yes I do.

They also get discount cos they are nice to me!LOL

 

[renuka]

One need not be a Gay to have some sort of pleasure with another male, sometime it happens involuntarily. Even for a normal guy.


This happens during adolescent age, and in some cases this habit may continues even after having wife and children.

They are neither Gays nor Homos, but they like a different companion indiscreetly.

Dear PJ sir,

?????

I still cant figure out what actually you mean.

Anyway dont you agree that straight men should be more open about their emotions and feelings?

There is nothing better than a male who is a man yet a child...these types are a rare find.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

At least in tambram community in Sing. Chennai, the 'special' men / women do no exist or at least do not expose themselves.

It is a ruined culture which is spreading like cancer in India also! You may say that'those' people are nice to you and you give

them discount in fee! But even to think of some intimate relationship between same gender people makes me :dizzy: !

Many mAmAs here might NOT have interacted with 'those' men, to write their opinions here, I think! May be, I am wrong since

some are based in the West.

May be, you are missing the very popular member from the East, now?

 

[SANDHYAV]

also another nagging doubt....are men who are very intelligent usually more emotional that less intelligent males?

oui ! ( yes in french )

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,

At least in tambram community in Sing. Chennai, the 'special' men / women do no exist or at least do not expose themselves.

It is a ruined culture which is spreading like cancer in India also! You may say that'those' people are nice to you and you give

them discount in fee! But even to think of some intimate relationship between same gender people makes me :dizzy: !

Many mAmAs here might NOT have interacted with 'those' men, to write their opinions here, I think! May be, I am wrong since

some are based in the West.

May be, you are missing the very popular member from the East, now?

Dear RR ji,

One of the reasons they seem to be comfortable with me is becos I do not judge them or preach to them.

I accept who they are and they just want to be respected.

Its that simple..not too hard.


But I have noted that gay men tend to be very caring to their parents and over all are polite.

Just like how some of us can not imagine how same gender relationships will be gays/lesbians might also not be able to imagine different gender relationship.

It all depends on our orientation and who knows what each of us has been in a previous birth.

BTW who is the popular member from the East which I am supposed to be missing??Who yaar?? Can you email me??LOL

 

[P.J.]

Dear PJ sir,

?????

I still cant figure out what actually you mean.

Anyway dont you agree that straight men should be more open about their emotions and feelings?

There is nothing better than a male who is a man yet a child...these types are a rare find.

renukaji/ Raji Madam

I do not get your point ? what do you mean by straight men ?

Normal person ?

All are normal.

 

[Raji Ram]

............ BTW who is the popular member from the East which I am supposed to be missing??Who yaar?? Can you email me??LOL

E-mail to you, Renu?

How can you forget him? OK! Here are the clues:

His name has the first letter in your name and rhymes with my first name?
More over, you both were on the 'same wave length'! :decision:

 

[Raji Ram]

.......... I do not get your point ? what do you mean by straight men ? Normal person ?

All are normal.

Dear P J Sir,

Living in the U S of A, how can you be so innocent? All men are NOT normal.

A normal man marries a woman and a 'special' man marries another man!

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

Ever since this thread started this type of ads appear in forum!

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[P.J.]

Dear P J Sir,

Living in the U S of A, how can you be so innocent? All men are NOT normal.

A normal man marries a woman and a 'special' man marries another man!

Raji Madam

It is their wish, why would anyone should be bothered about them?

They can adopt a child if child bearing is a problem!!

When we are young, in our School days, are we not having any special friends with whom we wished to spend the whole life?
Man loving another Man is probably is an extension of that behavior.

In course of time, preferences change as the age advances.


We thought once that life is impossible without parents; then it shifts to wife, then to children and grand children !!

Nowadays i just can not spend even a single day without my grandchildren!!

Attachment changes with the advancement of age..


However wife remains as part of you!!

 

[renuka]

renukaji/ Raji Madam

I do not get your point ? what do you mean by straight men ?

Normal person ?

All are normal.

Aiyoo PJ sir...no wonder you wrote some confusing post about normal men getting pleasure from other men! I was wondering what is PJ sir writing?LOL

Its just like after listening to Ramayan..you are asking how Rama and Sita are related!LOL

PJ sir...Straight men are men who are heterosexual that is they are attracted to the opposite gender.

Gay men are homosexual ..that is they get attracted to the same gender.

Bisexual men are attracted to both males and females.