When caught in tricky or compelling situations, use YUKTHI

[P.J.]

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When caught in tricky or compelling situations, use YUKTHI

When Swami Vivekananda went to USA, a lady asked him to marry her. When Swami asked the lady about what made her ask him such question. The lady replied that she was fascinated by his intellect. She wanted a child of such an intellect. So she asked Swami, whether he could marry her and give a child like him.

He said to that lady, that since she was attracted only by his intellect, there is no problem. "My dear lady, I understand your desire. Marrying and bringing a child in to this world and understanding whether it is intelligent or not takes very long time. More over it is not guaranteed.

Instead, to fulfill your desire immediately, I can suggest a guaranteed way. Take me as your child. You are my mother. Now on Your desire of having a child of my intellect is fulfilled."

The lady was speechless.


A HUNTER AND A SAGE

A hunter was pursuing a deer which in its frantic attempts to escape entered the cave of a sadhu. Looking at the frightened deer, the sage hid it in the dark cavern. The hunter soon arrived and started questioning the wise man about the deer.

Now the holy man was caught in a dilemma. If he spoke the truth, the deer would be harmed.
But he could not utter a lie either. So he closed his eyes and prayed to the Lord for help.
This is what he was prompted to say.

He calmly and peacefully told the hunter:

The eye that has seen cannot speak.
the tongue that can speak cannot see.
So, dear one, I cannot help you.

The bewildered hunter went away.

When caught in tricky or compelling situations, use YUKTHI or tact. A quick prayer helps.


OR

Say what has to be said, but without rancor, in a peaceful manner.


How a bride just after the marriage used her Yukthi to answer an awkward question.
.
The bride after the marriage was going to her in laws home with their relatives; suddenly MIL posed an awkward question to her ‘who do you like, me or your FIL or your husband?
MIL mother was also there; the bride used her Yukthi and pointed her finger to grand ma of her Husband and saved herself.

Did you face any such situation in your life? If so how did you manage to come out of it?

Please share it with members

 

[renuka]

When caught in tricky or compelling situations, use YUKTHI

When Swami Vivekananda went to USA, a lady asked him to marry her. When Swami asked the lady about what made her ask him such question. The lady replied that she was fascinated by his intellect. She wanted a child of such an intellect. So she asked Swami, whether he could marry her and give a child like him.

He said to that lady, that since she was attracted only by his intellect, there is no problem. "My dear lady, I understand your desire. Marrying and bringing a child in to this world and understanding whether it is intelligent or not takes very long time. More over it is not guaranteed.

Instead, to fulfill your desire immediately, I can suggest a guaranteed way. Take me as your child. You are my mother. Now on Your desire of having a child of my intellect is fulfilled."

The lady was speechless.


A HUNTER AND A SAGE

A hunter was pursuing a deer which in its frantic attempts to escape entered the cave of a sadhu. Looking at the frightened deer, the sage hid it in the dark cavern. The hunter soon arrived and started questioning the wise man about the deer.

Now the holy man was caught in a dilemma. If he spoke the truth, the deer would be harmed.
But he could not utter a lie either. So he closed his eyes and prayed to the Lord for help.
This is what he was prompted to say.

He calmly and peacefully told the hunter:

The eye that has seen cannot speak.
the tongue that can speak cannot see.
So, dear one, I cannot help you.

The bewildered hunter went away.

When caught in tricky or compelling situations, use YUKTHI or tact. A quick prayer helps.


OR

Say what has to be said, but without rancor, in a peaceful manner.


How a bride just after the marriage used her Yukthi to answer an awkward question.
.
The bride after the marriage was going to her in laws home with their relatives; suddenly MIL posed an awkward question to her ‘who do you like, me or your FIL or your husband?
MIL mother was also there; the bride used her Yukthi and pointed her finger to grand ma of her Husband and saved herself.

Did you face any such situation in your life? If so how did you manage to come out of it?

Please share it with members

Dear PJ sir,

I will share with you how I got out of a situation once.

When my husband and his family came to view the bride(me)..That time I was working in a rural set up in a different state where I was the only government doctor running the health centre for the whole rural district.

So my husband asked me this question "So I take it that you like being in charge?"

So I thought if I say Yes..he will think I am dominant(which I am not) and if I say No..he will think I am not capable.

So I answered this.."I was posted to the rurals by the government ..so that was not in my hands..working alone as the only doctor in charge can be difficult as well as rewarding"


He seem satisfied with the answer.

 

[P.J.]

renukaji
You managed nicely.
I post only very mild topics as threads ( occasionally i also post heavy subjects ) only because in General Section, you will always see heated exchanges only. Some members think they are THE AUTHORITY on all subjects and post on every subject even without any basic knowledge on the subject, or even fully reading other posts.
They just criticize other posts; SUCH POSTS DESERVES NO REPLY.

Please concentrate on your studies/Exam now
Best Wishes.

 

[P.J.]

renukaji
once we visited a Friend's home, it was the next day after Sri.Krishna Jayanthi
After the exchange of Pleasantries, friend's wife brought some items for us to eat.
There was one item called Porul Vilanga Urundai.
We never take coffee or Tea in anyone's house as we had a bitter experience once; it was smelling like Caster oil mixed.
My my wife immediately told that she is on Viratham and she takes only one time meal only and nothing more;

Then the Friend's wife told " Sir will take your portion also" pointing at me..

I was in a great dilemma and did not want to try anything.

My wife immediately told her" he has upset stomach since morning, please give the items in a parcel, he will take it when he feels alright'

So we were given a Parcel of Batchanam, which we never touched later on.

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,

I remember once my MIL asked my son who he loves more..her or my mum..in other words..which grandmother he loves more.

My son at that times was age some 5 years.

He cleverly said "I have only one father's mother, and only one mother's mother..so I love you most and love her most"

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,

Once when my son aged some 5..we were taking him for a drive in the car at night.He wanted to go to the 7 eleven 24 hour store to get some chocolate.

My husband that day took a different route and the route looked as if we had missed the road but actually we had not missed the road.

So my son thought that my husband had taken the wrong road and missed the 24 hour store and my son was upset and said loudly "Hey!

Then the next turn we were at the store and my son realized his mistake of screaming Hey too soon and broke out into a song "Hey Ho the Cheery O the Farmer in the Dell"

He covered up his screaming Hey so fast!