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Why I am back (or Is the Forum turned dull?)

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kunjuppu

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My return did not happen by accident or by an intense desire.

Offhand, there were folks here, who have asked me to come, and there was one request I could not refuse. But that is my 'thing' and not the fault of the requester.

I have always viewed this forum as a replacement for the thinnai of our gramams - ready reference for any question of ecclesiastical nature. But more a facilitator to spend an evening after dinner, accompanied by vethla paakku and tobacco (or something of a stronger nature to straighten out the constitution).

I have come to realize that the reading public is just those who contribute. For want of proof, that there are 'millions ou there' who keep awake, read what we write, and squirm and tear their hair, and commit acts of a nature, instigated by the posts here. If something like that ever happens, hopefully, they would be good enough, to record it here ;)

I have had fun, and I have also developed a love of writing. which i did not know i had. Also, some friends, though consistent with my philosophy, that cyber friends remains such, I studiously avoid visiting or meeting them, even when I am in their city. Something different from the experience of that good lady Raji :) (I do envy that !!)

Maybe it is the desire to have peace and non interference, that regular invites to come back - have eluded the likes of Nara, Happy Hindu and such like - giants of the past, now no more but a ghost of whisper, who have moved on to better nurturers of life.

Also missing was the gentle chide of certain females, CoolPerson comes to my mind, who could poke at some of our inconsistencies, and also some of our intolerances.

Many a times, I have found, there is the presence of a strong anchor of 'what I call' status quo re social attitudes - Suraju thrusts his name to the forefront. I have found him so erudite, and so smart, that nothing of what I could say, he cannot pke a hole. My buckets of 'knowledge' can hold no water, thanks to Raju's sharp and accurately aimed bullets :) So be it, but atleast it makes this forum exciting, for nothing can kill it like dullness.

Maybe some are happy that Nara or Happy Hindu are not here anymore. The other extreme, there was Jamadagneya, who even cast aspiration of the lives of some folks here. I am happy that he is absent. So I guess, the equation, may be even, though Nara/HH, I think, are of a gentler, harmless yet knowledge possessors of a kind, that Jama was never was.

KRS, i find him missing. Maybe he is keeping his watchful paternal eyes here. Though I would have imagined him to poke in with his erudite comments. Hope he too has not gone awol.

On the whole, I think, the regulars, can do 'something' to make this a wee bit more exciting. If you ask me 'what?', my answer is 'I dont know'. For that is the Billion Dolla Challenge.

Belated Greetings and Best Wishes...
 

Dear Kunjuppu Sir,

Once again welcome back! (I remember to avoid the all the smileys except this one :) when I write to you!)

You sure have missed some real fun here, since you were away, about a month back. There came a new avtAr of someone

and soon it was 'cat out of the bag'!! You can't trace who it is, because the thread and the very existence of that avtAr is

wiped out of this forum! You still have persons who have the fighting spirit and I am sure you will enjoy your stay here! :)

P.S: You might say that the cyber friendship is one dimensional but I like to meet people with whom I interact! FYI, me and

my Sis enjoyed the company of a lively lady, who turned from 'forum friend' to a 'real friend', yesterday!
 

Dear Kunjuppu Sir,

Once again welcome back! (I remember to avoid the all the smileys except this one :) when I write to you!)

You sure have missed some real fun here, since you were away, about a month back. There came a new avtAr of someone

and soon it was 'cat out of the bag'!! You can't trace who it is, because the thread and the very existence of that avtAr is

wiped out of this forum! You still have persons who have the fighting spirit and I am sure you will enjoy your stay here! :)

P.S: You might say that the cyber friendship is one dimensional but I like to meet people with whom I interact! FYI, me and

my Sis enjoyed the company of a lively lady, who turned from 'forum friend' to a 'real friend', yesterday!
HI
may be dr narayani?...my guessing?
 
My return did not happen by accident or by an intense desire.

I have come to realize that the reading public is just those who contribute. For want of proof, that there are 'millions ou there' who keep awake, read what we write, and squirm and tear their hair, and commit acts of a nature, instigated by the posts here. If something like that ever happens, hopefully, they would be good enough, to record it here ;)
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It was and it is always the case that the reading public here is also the contributing force. Strangely the people who wanted proof that Sri Rama existed, God Exists (the thread that ran for more than a year, I guess) somehow believed that there were ghost readers and some of their writing was for "future generation", "youngsters logging on to know more about our (TB) history, to keep the traffic flow in the forum moving etc.
 
Many a times, I have found, there is the presence of a strong anchor of 'what I call' status quo re social attitudes - Suraju thrusts his name to the forefront. I have found him so erudite, and so smart, that nothing of what I could say, he cannot pke a hole. My buckets of 'knowledge' can hold no water, thanks to Raju's sharp and accurately aimed bullets :) So be it, but atleast it makes this forum exciting, for nothing can kill it like dullness.

Let us be a bit moderate and not be over ebullient in award of "erudition" and "wisdom" certificates. This also has reference to the post on ATR calling him "wisdom personified" and various other posts inviting attention to the erudition of "x" or "y" or "z". If only a select 4 or 5 erudite, what are the other members? Mediocre or nincompoops perhaps?

A point more often missed is that when the "erudite" left the forum in a huff, it was the mediocre which sustained the forum (of course not to forget Sri Praveen the owner who has had to weather all the storm single handedly) so that the prodigals could return and resume their usual business.

After the warriors and gladiators have vanquished each other, it will always be the meek that shall inherit the earth. Surely Mr. Percy would have explained, while doing the poem of John Milton, "On his blindness", the famous sentence of "They also serve who only stand and wait". Let us have some thoughts about the ordinary TBs too who peruse the posts once in a while.
 
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I wont surprised to hear that the retreat was for the self good and the return is for the general good.
And the absence has made the place dull and gloomy and it will take a while and effort to straighten them out and bring it back to its 'glory'
 
Dear Kunjuppu Sir,

I for one am really glad that you're back. The forum was not the same without your anecdotes.
As i always say a raconteur par excellence!. I hope for whatever reason, you won't be hounded out again. FYI there is an ignore option and you don't see the posts, so in case some get unbearably snarky you can always ignore.
 

Somehow, I find that some posts are answered very promptly by the person who is supposed to ignore that post!! :confused:
 
Welcome back.
[h=2]Subah Ka Bhoola Song Lyrics[/h]
Duniya walo jis dukhiya se
Ho jaye koi bhul
Usko tum khata mat samjho
Vo bhi hai ek phool
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Kaise panderah din me
Koi razo ko suljaye
Kaise panderah din me
Koi razo ko suljaye
Usi tarah koi meet bichad ke
Tumse fir mil jaye
Usi tarah koi meet bichad ke
Tumse fir mil jaye
Usko akela chod na dena
Chod na dena
Uske sapne todh na dena
Todh na dena
Sachi hai ye baat ki apni
Bhul pe jo pachtaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Beeti gadiya jinke liye thi
Mil gaye vo matti me
Kal ki bate hui purani, hui purani
Chedo koi nayi kahani, nayi kahani
Bhul ke jo dard aage kadam badaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye.



 

Somehow, I find that some posts are answered very promptly by the person who is supposed to ignore that post!! :confused:

Dear Raji mami, im not sure if that indirect post or the person you are referring to is moi. But i assure you that i havent ignored any post thus far. I merely suggested that if K sir if he so wishes to, there is such an option. Thats it.
 
A point of view:

This is an open forum and notwithstanding its name anyone with a computer and internet access can become a member.

Anyone is welcome to start a thread or post their opinion. Or they can stop keeping track of what is going on for a while at this forum.

It is a news item of some interest if someone is banned since it is a hard thing to accomplish. Even then they can reappear in another avatar.

If someone stops visiting the site is it really news? Who cares or why care if they reappear with another avatara or with the same nick name?

I guess some people like to re-invite others to a forum which is open to all . Some love to get angry and leave and love to be re-invited ...

When I was in my primary school if you get annoyed with a friend you can perform 'டூ இடுகிறது' gestures ( I assume such usage is still intact for de-friending) and later do the gestures of 'சேத்தி பண்ணுகிறது'

It seems some members (and I am not referring any particular person) like to do this with the 'forum' as an entity.

It is as if they feel they perform a service with their posts (which is done to pass their time in the first place and exhibit their views for an audience).



What makes a open forum come alive is really in the eyes of the reader in my view. I guess members 'leaving' and coming back may make the forum come alive I suppose.

My point is that let us be thankful that someone created forum to express our creative self and allow us to interact with people across continents.

A person may think they like posts of another person.

But if a person who 'leaves' a open forum thinks they are important to the open forum that means they have not really understood the actual test by which one determines if they are important.

For the benefit of all let me describe the test.

Get a pot of water, and dip one of your fingers in the water and then remove it.. If there is a hole in the water after you remove your finger you are important. Your leaving and coming back is very significant then and it is our Punya that you are back :-)

Please note: Above is written to have fun and not intended to flame anyone ...
 
dear prasad,

if you are heaping praises on me (:)) i am oblivious to it, as i do not understand hindi (i guess it is hindi).

on a serious note, i tried to learn hindi twice in my teens, but hindi would not enter my head. gave it up. so, if you wish to share it with me, if you dont mind, pls provide a translation. thank you.




Welcome back.
[h=2]Subah Ka Bhoola Song Lyrics[/h]
Duniya walo jis dukhiya se
Ho jaye koi bhul
Usko tum khata mat samjho
Vo bhi hai ek phool
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Kaise panderah din me
Koi razo ko suljaye
Kaise panderah din me
Koi razo ko suljaye
Usi tarah koi meet bichad ke
Tumse fir mil jaye
Usi tarah koi meet bichad ke
Tumse fir mil jaye
Usko akela chod na dena
Chod na dena
Uske sapne todh na dena
Todh na dena
Sachi hai ye baat ki apni
Bhul pe jo pachtaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Beeti gadiya jinke liye thi
Mil gaye vo matti me
Kal ki bate hui purani, hui purani
Chedo koi nayi kahani, nayi kahani
Bhul ke jo dard aage kadam badaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye
Suno ji vo bhula na kahlaye.



 
Dear Raji mami, im not sure if that indirect post or the person you are referring to is moi. But i assure you that i havent ignored any post thus far. I merely suggested that if K sir if he so wishes to, there is such an option. Thats it.
Dear Amala,

I know very well that you do not ignore anyone! That comment was for some others,
who follow the persons whom they want to ignore!! :bump2:
 

Dear T K S Sir,

Hope your post will be taken in a lighter vein!

In village schools
டூ விடறது is still in practice! The kid keeps the tips of index finger and middle finger together to make an oval

shape, shows to another kid and separate them saying '
உன்னோட டூ'. Then some friends make the kid forget the fight and the

kid shows the same gesture and asks,
'காயா? பழமா?'. If the other kid joins the fingers, it means 'pazham' but if the fingers are

separated, it means 'kAy' and they are still enemies! :)
 

Dear T K S Sir,

Hope your post will be taken in a lighter vein!

In village schools
டூ விடறது is still in practice! The kid keeps the tips of index finger and middle finger together to make an oval

shape, shows to another kid and separate them saying '
உன்னோட டூ'. Then some friends make the kid forget the fight and the

kid shows the same gesture and asks,
'காயா? பழமா?'. If the other kid joins the fingers, it means 'pazham' but if the fingers are

separated, it means 'kAy' and they are still enemies! :)

Dear Raji Madam


Thanks for reviving my memories of childhood during primary school days ( I was 4 then ) :-)

It seems some members who used to be active have said to the forum as entity - 'உன்னோட டூ' :-)

If any of them ever post tentatively it means ''காயா? பழமா?"

Then some of us will say "பழம்" ..

Then they will be back and everyone can re-form a 'mutual admiration society' or as Sri KRS used to say form a Jalra team :-)

Hope this is also taken in a lighter vein .. though I know I am pushing the limits :biggrin1:
 

Dear T K S Sir,

'pazham' is any day better than 'kAy'; Right?

So, let us learn to say 'pazham'. :grouphug:

P.S: You must have heard of this...

Q: Which becomes 'kAy' from 'pazham' stage??

Answer: 'elumichcham pazham'! Because it becomes 'elumichchai ooRukAy'!! :)
 
Subah ka bhula jab shaam ko
Ghar aa jaye to,ghar aa jaye
Vo bhula na kahlaye

Person lost in the morning comes back home in the evening, .
they are not called lost.
 
Like Mr. TKS said,
We are all guest in Mr. Praveens house (tb site), he has given us a forum to exchange our POI. Unfortunatly our EGO's are so big that we throw temper tantrums, and act as if this site is our personal domain. Who are we, as mere members on this site think our selves. We invite Our friends, and drive away our enemies.
We come and go as we please, but in the big picture does anyone really care?
 
Dear Prasad,

Usko akela chod na dena
Chod na dena
Uske sapne todh na dena
Todh na dena

and

Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Beeti gadiya jinke liye thi
Mil gaye vo matti me
Kal ki bate hui purani, hui purani
Chedo koi nayi kahani, nayi kahani
Bhul ke jo dard aage kadam badaye

were the lines I liked most. By the way who is the author?
 
Dear Prasad,

Usko akela chod na dena
Chod na dena
Uske sapne todh na dena
Todh na dena

and

Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Aaj ki jyot jaga lo
Apne jivan ki bati me
Beeti gadiya jinke liye thi
Mil gaye vo matti me
Kal ki bate hui purani, hui purani
Chedo koi nayi kahani, nayi kahani
Bhul ke jo dard aage kadam badaye

were the lines I liked most. By the way who is the author?
Shakeel Badayuni Gehra Daag (1963)
<a href="http://www.hindigeetmala.com/movie/gehra_daag.htm">[video=youtube;7Z6JdH5h-Ec]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=7Z6JdH5h-Ec[/video]
 
Dear Amala,

I know very well that you do not ignore anyone! That comment was for some others,
who follow the persons whom they want to ignore!! :bump2:

Sorry mami for suspecting. Its just that as soon as you had posted there was a response from the er...i forgot the acronym now non jalra something :) and the response was soo fast, and usually its when i'm being told off, so thats why i thought it was me!
 
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