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Why would you leave the West for India?

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http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-19992062

Why would you leave the West for India?
Rajiv Khatri is one such example. He moved to the southern city of Bangalore from America. I meet him and his three friends, all OCI card holders from the US, as they tuck into French fries and nachos.

Rajiv Khatri now calls India home

When Rajiv packed his bags for India four years ago, his parents were less than impressed.
"They were very stressed out and frustrated at me moving here. Even now, they're still praying that I go back to the US."

Rajiv's father left India in 1972, his mother followed in1978, building a successful and stable life in the US. That their children,(Rajiv's brother has also moved to India) are chasing opportunity on the other side of the globe, is a fact hard to comprehend.

They're not alone, so many of the generation who left India in the 1960s and 1970s (my parents included) find it hard to understand why their children would give up the so-called American or British dream, in search of the opposite, the Indian dream.

Rajiv says he cannot imagine moving back to America anytime soon. As an entrepreneur, he runs a health and wellness start-up -360living.in - with two other bright and articulate Indian Americans who moved to India, Rahul Thadani and Raj Chinai.

Rajiv says that he, his wife Sarah and their three children have a better lifestyle than they had Stateside, but the real pull was being able to connect to the India he had heard about, but never really knew.
"I was always seen as different in the US, and I always had cultural and ancestral roots to India - so for me coming back to India is a bit like coming 'home' - in so many ways it's where I come from. I wanted to have a greater impact from where my roots are and I think for a lot of people who are of Indian origin that's one of the driving factors."
 
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When I lived in India for 5 years as a student I found it fun cos I could party!LOL

If I was at home in M'sia with my parents they would not have allowed me to attend that many parties.

So India was fun. My young days from age 20-25 was spent in India and it was really rocking and fun!

In fact it took my a while for my Indian accent to wear off.

Till I was 29 years old I still had an Indian accent.
 
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When I lived in India for 5 years as a student I found it fun cos I could party!LOL

If I was at home in M'sia with my parents they would not have allowed me to attend that many parties.

So India was fun. My young days from age 20-25 was spent in India and it was really rocking and fun!

In fact it took my a while for my Indian accent to wear off.

Till I was 29 years old I still had an Indian accent.[/Q
I was talking of youngsters brought up in more advanced open societies.

It is a sacrifice to give up on a lifestyle when most here are trying their best to get way from here for various reasons.

I know of men who have returned while their ladies have preferred to say back.

Recently I met one such couple in chennai both senior working IT professionnel.The lady was very unhappy to be forced

back to india while the husband wanted to stay near the temple at nanganallur.on a piece of land left to him by his

parents. He had built a huge mansion replicating an american home with all the conveniences. the lady was cursing him for spoiling her life

their children in US were simply not interested to return with them.

If he croaks or anything happens to him, I am sure the lady would return to US
 
Namaste JK Sir,

I think the following are some of the reasons why someone would choose to return back to India:

* Enjoy his riches earned: In the West, the cost of living being especially high, besides the exorbitant cost of educating children in good Universities, makes many people think that if they earn for 10 - 15 yrs and somehow manage to return to India and have children educated there, they can live a much more luxurious lifestyle than possible in the West for the money they have earned and saved.

* Flexible work schedules with good pay: Many people that I know of, returned to India from USA, because they maintained their same employment status with their former US based companies and earned the same amount and were also granted 'work-from-home' facilities - so it was all the more attractive to them to take up these opportunities and live a life of luxury being paid US dollars in India.

* Want of living with relatives and well-wishers in India. Necessity or preference to stay with parents in their old age.

* Want of more involved spiritual pursuits - there are much more temples and kshetras to visit, where the spiritually inclined can have a more involving spiritual pursuit in India.

* Dislike of Western culture and a desire to bring up children according to Indian culture.

* Necessity to take a more active role in family owned business, etc.

I have to stress that more than anything else, as far as I have noted, the points 1 & 2 (ability to live luxurious lifestyle and being paid in dollars) play a prominent role in making many NRIs return to India.
 
I have to stress on point 1 (of the ones I stated above) -- we have been living in the USA for the past 21 yrs. Inspite of it, when my son joined University 2 yrs ago, we were questioned by some well-meaning folks here "Why we did not send our son to a good University in India?". From the economic standpoint, many NRIs who have been settled in the West for long, still send their children to India for studies.
 
I have to stress on point 1 (of the ones I stated above) -- we have been living in the USA for the past 21 yrs. Inspite of it, when my son joined University 2 yrs ago, we were questioned by some well-meaning folks here "Why we did not send our son to a good University in India?". From the economic standpoint, many NRIs who have been settled in the West for long, still send their children to India for studies.

hi

everything based individual choices and conveniences.....nobody is forcing anybody FROM INDIA TO WEST/USA...everybody

went to embassy and stand in line and got visa......ITS NOT COMPULSORY TO GO TO WEST BY FORCE....AKKARAIKU

IKKARAI PACCHHAI....அக்கறைக்கு இக்கரை பச்சை.....
 
one couple who were in USA for almost 10 years came back to India; after 2/3 years they have to go back to USA for so many reasons; I dont want to summerise the reasons. one elderly person who is US citizen came back to India; he told me so many troubles like gas connection, electricity bills, dirty roads, misbahving in busses etc etc. He is looking forward to go back to USA. but for me who is also US citizen I come to India atleast three months in a year; I stay in USA because my children dont allow me/us to stay separately in India; they r worried because of our age. even staying in USA I keep myself abreast with India developments, news etc etc. yes I love India, my motherland - srinvasan
 
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