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That is why when in an argument the best is not agree or disagree.

Just ask the person "How would you like my opinion to be?"

Let them decide for you becos the moment you throw it back to the other person he/she has to be fair and square becos the onus is on him/her.

So dont waste time arguing..just try reverse psychology.

But dont be predictable becos if we play reverse psychology too often the other person might take advantage and try to manipulate you..so sometimes 'argue" but irrelevantly ..argue about another subject.

Then the other person will be thinking "why is she talking apples when I am talking oranges" and then let the other person steer the conversation back to what it should be.By that time his/her temper would have come down...then a proper discussion can take place.

Keep changing strategy to keep the other person guessing what you will be up to next.
 
How men respond to wives ?

Wife saying we are by starting by car and going straight to our destination [ 5 hours away without detours or stopping anywhere and you are not to argue with me on the

way on any subject. Husband nodding and following without saying a word carrying the luggage to be loaded in car behind wife.

this recently done by some lady in my presence and wife going off happily with dutiful husband.

these days many smart ladies behave like this and get full compliance from husbands.

it is a ladies world

men would be better served if they do not enter into any argument , then reverse psychology and other dreaded weapons may get used.

remember the saying ' yours is is to do what lady says and follow her'.

this does not have any reference to post 4 and 3 above .
 
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I think the ladies get perturbed by too many things especially on matters relating to children and family..

They get too emotional on some issue or other, especially about some issue where they are involved directly or indirectly.

It may be relating to what some one has told them impolitely...

You are supposed to listen to that and comfort her..

In case you do not listen or you give a sneering reply or retort snubbing her it will lead to an emotional trauma for the lady & she will use the Brahmastra of crying..

And men get hassled up by seeing the tears..

OK..OK..I agree to whatever you say!!

Is this not a common experience that men face!
 
these days many smart ladies behave like this and get full compliance from husbands.
it is a ladies world.
men would be better served if they do not enter into any argument , then reverse psychology and other dreaded weapons may get used.

remember the saying ' yours is is to do what lady says and follow her'.

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And men get hassled up by seeing the tears..
OK..OK..I agree to whatever you say!!

Is this not a common experience that men face!

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That was then. Today, don't people split up, invoking incompatibility?
 
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normally men do not file divorce suits

ladies do .

men had only conformed and had become nodders and yes men , they could have escaped the trauma of divorce.lol
 
With the holiday festivities coming up and plenty of alcohol to go around, the authors are excited to continue their study observing men and women “in a semi-naturalistic Christmas party setting”. So everyone please have fun, enjoy yourselves, and don’t become a data point :p.

The Male Idiot Theory
 
After you are born you are a vishishtadhwaidi, after upanayanam dwaidhi and after marriage advaidhi - as you have ethered into your spouse's (wife) soul.
 
When I try to find matrimonial matches for grandchildren, I first try to guide boys specially to say yes to every demand of educated career ladies. more the outrageous

demand , firmer nod and louder yes. you see it should be made very difficult for girls to say no. this approach works if the boy likes the girl very much .

he is also told to maintain this stance as long as possible until after marriage also if possible. this is the secret of good married life.lol
 
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