Dear Members, This strange Topic has come up & caused many reactions, But almost all have expressed their opinions saying that the lady is a Post- graduate & should not continue this Job, & come out gracefully & do any other Job which will not be despicable.
There are a few aspects which make me to write dispassionatly, which are as follows :-
1) Her father is Gurukkal / Archakar (which we Iyers/ Iyengars do not consider for Marriage )
2) she has married a Non-Brahmin, she says with the consent of her Father, who hails from Gurukkal tradion, having no scope to mingle with Iyer/ Iyengar , let alone marriage alliances. Had it been an Iyen,story would have been different, even in these days of Inter-cast marriages ?
3) Having become Husband & wife & her father is a party to it, He cannot have any role , either to get her come out of the Vettian Velai nor think of getting her a normal Job, to ensure wiping out this un- graceful , codemnable episode.
4)Only un-educated/ sturdy/ by birth Hard-hearted can really do these jobs, without attaching their mind.
5)let alone her make-up of mind , She / her husband & lady friends should explain her that not only her Mental health has been affected, it is likely her physical health can easily a get affected in course of years.
6) We have analysed more than enough, i suggest, we wait for 6 months & revive the Topic, if she continues this shameful job. I feel that her Husband who is now HALF dikshidar, should take her out of this role & even get a Job, where she need not to attend the area of work, so that she can forget this as if a DREAM ?
A.Srinivasan
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