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1 in 5 elders abused at home: Study

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1 in 5 elders abused at home: Study[/h]The video of a 60year-old woman beating up her 85-year-old mother, which went viral on social media, corroborates the findings of a survey carried out by Helpage India that one in five elders experiences some kind of abuse at home. The study also found that 98% of the abuse victims do not file a complaint despite the existence of a specific law to protect them.

On World Elder Abuse Awareness Day , NGOs have urged more people to come out and report the problem. Often the biggest offenders are sons, daughters and daughter-in-laws, and in 53.2% cases, there are property and inheritance disputes involved according to the study. Helpage India receives close to 150 calls about such abuses every month in Delhi.

According to Geetika Sengupta, who handles Helpage India's helpline, most calls concern property and money ."Neighbours or well-wishers usually call us and inform about the abuse," she said."Some elders don't call themselves for the fear of a backlash, while others don't want to make the issue a public affair. We have seen cases of daughters abusing their mothers going up in the last couple of years."

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Most elders suffer in silence and only cases like this video brings reality comes out in the open, said Mathew Cherian, CEO, Helpage India. He added that elders' abuse was more common than most people thought.



Reports of abuse do not generally come from within the family. "Family members don't want to report instances, even for guidance or counselling," said Cherian.



Seniors being abandoned by their families is fairly common too. Out of the 150 calls Helpage receives each month, around six are about the elderly found homeless on the streets. "People come across lost and confused senior citizens and call to tell us," said Sengupta. "We temporarily lodge them in an old-age home while we try and trace their family."



While there is the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act 2007 to protect the elderly against abuse, Himanshu Rath, founder of the Agewell Foundation, said not many are aware of the law or the rights bestowed by it. "Since the Act was formulated, very few cases have been reported under its purview," admitted Rath.


Agewell has observed that it is often the grandchildren who inform the authorities about such abuse.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...alth-news/1-in-5-elders-abused-at-home-Study/
 
In case of the poor, the abuse is open.

In middle class , it is hidden or covered up.

Many seniors put up with mostly verbal and some physical abuse
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They do not report as the abuser is a close relative
 
In middle class , it is hidden or covered up.

Many seniors put up with mostly verbal and some physical abuse
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They do not report as the abuser is a close relative

Verbal abuse, I agree..But physical abuse of elderly in middle class I doubt..May be very rare..From a TB perspective I can say the latter is Nil (It is my experience)
 
I agree with the above views & the real position of elders in Tamil brahmins. One thing for sure :- For old age men/ women in our lot, perhaps by their experience may not make it an issue, because it is easy to complain but we never want the problem to aggravate & become the cause for more hatred, instead , we prefer to get on ,taking the path of least resistance & lean to other soft-spoken relatives, who could advise / offer correct solution , to wait for things to cool down.
elderly should maintain their utmost patience, not only that, but also make it a point to be of help in the day-today activities at home & outside , in the long run, things would turn good for her, since women always compare similar situation known to them & if you are rated better in comparison you win .

A.srinivasan ( Rishikesan)
 
Verbal abuse, I agree..But physical abuse of elderly in middle class I doubt..May be very rare..From a TB perspective I can say the latter is Nil (It is my experience)

In Middle Class the abuse is not physical but psychological , verbal . Many old people suffer in silence .
 
Physical abuse of seniors in brahmins might be uncommon.

Other middle class communities they do happen.

Only last week delhi police had to intervene in case of a daughter physically assaulting mother. It made the front page of newspaper.Mother refused to file case.

Neighbours reported to police
 
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