I am just an observer
An "X" is an elderly person who contributes regularly to this forum on many different topics. He expresses his views clearly and is able to bring a lot of purpose and direction to the discussions that he participates in.Of course there are those who do not agree with his views but they too argue with him and in the process gain a lot of insight into matters from different view points.
There is this "Y" who joined a discussion and in course of time came to the conclusion that the discussion was going no where. In exasperation he expresses his difficulty and uses the term "rant" to describe Mr. X's arguments. The dictionary gives the meaning of the word rant" as 'a bombastic extravagant speech, a bombastic extravagant language'.
Now "X" takes it as an affront or disrespect shown to him and expresses his annoyance clearly and refuses to continue the discussion with Y.The neutral observers understand that X feels hurt and expect that Y will record his views to assuage the feelings.
But now comes in a "P" and quickly does a psycho analysis to determine what type of personality Y has and admonishes Y.
What is the moral of the story?
1.X should apply his thinking skills and do two things:
a) Forget what Y said and forgive him even if he is not forthcoming with any explanation/apology because learned elders do not take the punches of young children as punches. They rather take it with pleasure as they know they are condescending or are just indulgent.
b) Be wary of people who try to put him on a pedestal because it will rob him, in course of time, of his freedom to be just himself and his unconstrained originality in thinking and writing.
Just an observation and No offence whatsoever is intended or meant. Cheers.
An "X" is an elderly person who contributes regularly to this forum on many different topics. He expresses his views clearly and is able to bring a lot of purpose and direction to the discussions that he participates in.Of course there are those who do not agree with his views but they too argue with him and in the process gain a lot of insight into matters from different view points.
There is this "Y" who joined a discussion and in course of time came to the conclusion that the discussion was going no where. In exasperation he expresses his difficulty and uses the term "rant" to describe Mr. X's arguments. The dictionary gives the meaning of the word rant" as 'a bombastic extravagant speech, a bombastic extravagant language'.
Now "X" takes it as an affront or disrespect shown to him and expresses his annoyance clearly and refuses to continue the discussion with Y.The neutral observers understand that X feels hurt and expect that Y will record his views to assuage the feelings.
But now comes in a "P" and quickly does a psycho analysis to determine what type of personality Y has and admonishes Y.
What is the moral of the story?
1.X should apply his thinking skills and do two things:
a) Forget what Y said and forgive him even if he is not forthcoming with any explanation/apology because learned elders do not take the punches of young children as punches. They rather take it with pleasure as they know they are condescending or are just indulgent.
b) Be wary of people who try to put him on a pedestal because it will rob him, in course of time, of his freedom to be just himself and his unconstrained originality in thinking and writing.
Just an observation and No offence whatsoever is intended or meant. Cheers.
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