In chapter 7 Lord Krishna says " Pray and think of me alone. Praying to other demi God's will not give you the expected results. Pray to me and I will give you the benefits". This is wrongly interpreted by Iskon as Lord Krishna asking devotees to pray only to him and not to any other gods. I am somewhat uncomfortable by such interpretations. As Hindus we pray to so many Gods and we consider God as only one whether Vishnu, Ganesha, Shiva, Goddesses etc. I am looking for a clarification on this matter.
Let me try to give my perspective here.
Though I am not an expert this is how I view this statement.
Honestly Shree Krishna was not talking about His form as Krishna but He was talking about the concept of surrender to the Parabrahman and since He was the Avatar at that era He spoke in 1st person since He is Saguna Brahman Here.
So why does Krishna say to worship the Supreme and not devas(demi gods)?
Mainly because people pray to deities for material gain or release from suffering thinking that Karma can be deleted.
Honestly Karma like energy can NOT be destroyed by just mere prayer..cos we earned that Karma, good or bad it would have it effects on us and we inherit a Karmic QR code which astrology interprets as the effects of planets on us.
We enjoy the fruits of our good Karma and do not intend ever to deprive ourselves from the good but we all want to run from suffering the effects of our past bad karma.
Reason? cos the human mind and body isn't really designed to be constantly in suffering and the reverse is also true..that is we are not designed to be constantly in pleasure too.
So what is the use of all Karma and praying?
Well, the effects of Karma is to ignite in us the thought that "we are in this endless cycle of pain and pleasure and the polar opposites and how do I get out of this cycle"
This is where one takes steps to reform one's mind and body as to attain the state of balance where one can handle polar opposites alike as in the Gita :
sukha-duḥkhe same kṛitvā lābhālābhau jayājayau.
'treating alike happiness and distress, loss and gain, victory and defeat'
Now, what about deity worship?
Well, the deities are demi-god in the sense that they do not have independent autonomy but merely vehicles to transmit some form of Prana to us through prayer.
They function in a limited fashion.
The fructifying material gain by worshipping too is none but our own good karma which had started to fructify with time...some do pariharams for years and then see results..this is just our own past good karma kicking in.
But we are made to believe that worshipping deities give a quick fix and we humans do not go beyond the transactional form of prayer and we never reflect and make reforms and there isnt a scope for attainment of atma jnaana here.
Hence Krishna says:
sarva-dharman parityajya
mam ekam saranam vraja
aham tvam sarva-papebhyo
moksayisyami ma sucah
Abandon all varieties of Dharma and just surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reaction. Do not fear.
Ok, what does this mean?
We just surrender and all our sins are erased?
Well, not really!
When we surrender, we have taken the pledge to accept both good and bad as the our Karma and we depend on the God as a mental support(though He is always a witness) to handle both the good and bad alike.
We would still go through all the phases of pain and pleasure but we would be able to sail through both without being dragged down by the bad or without being euphoric of the good...in other words we do not let the scales of our mind to tilt with a Richter 10 when faced with ups and downs in life.
This is when we reach a state of realization that we need to reform and modify ourselves as to not be in this vicious cycle of Karma and make steps to work our way with the spirit of surrender.
Once this is realized all our Karmic seeds have been used up and burnt up and will not record new Karmas of anykind and hence we are delivered from sin as Krishna said
aham tvam sarva-papebhyo
moksayisyami ma sucah
Summary:
There is no quick fix.
Surrender isnt just calling Narayana and you can do as you please and still claim that God saves you.
Nope!
So does Narayana come when called?
Surely He does!
But what does He tell us?
Well, He hands us standard operating procedures to follow to be able to escape the Karmic cycles....and its all our hard effort to gain atma jnaana, hence:
śhraddhāvān labhate jñānaṁ tat-paraḥ sanyatendriyaḥ
jñānaṁ labdhvā parāṁ śhāntim achireṇādhigachchhati
Those whose faith is deep and who have practiced controlling their mind and senses attain divine knowledge. Through such transcendental knowledge, they quickly attain everlasting supreme peace.
The most important question of all.
So is the Supreme only one form of God?
Nope!
The form does not really count.
Its the thought that counts.
Even if one is praying to a stone or a tree but has the mindset to transform and turn inward for atma jnaana verily that form stone or tree stands for Supreme too.
So can one accept the deity form as Supreme too?
Yes! provided we do not think of gaining material favors and also surrender and transform ourselves.
But if we keep thinking we can gain favors..then we are never out of the cycle of Karma.
So what is the Supreme form?
Krishna alone?
No.
Its our mind that needs to transform holding ANY form as the Supreme as long we surrender..hence Krishna does say :
uddhared ātmanātmānaṁ nātmānam avasādayet
ātmaiva hyātmano bandhur ātmaiva ripur ātmanaḥ
BG 6.5: Elevate yourself through the power of your mind, and not degrade yourself, for the mind can be the friend and also the enemy of the self.
Its a bit of an eye opener that God actually guides us with our own self effort and no favors nor bribing prayers.
Last but not least ...many who feel they worship Supreme forms like Vishnu or Krishna are just deifying Vishnu and Krishna and made them their material desire givers too.
So if ISCKON claims that everyone in ISCKON is in a state of surrender..the answer is no.
They just made Krishna their deity to fulfill their wishes in the same manner another may offer prayers to a demi god.