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Can Money Buy True Happiness?

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By contributing writer Sidarth Jayadev. Originally published in KidSpirit's Money and Value issue.


What is true happiness? Can money buy happiness?


True happiness is a volatile subject that many people debate. It is often defined as a type of feeling that a person enjoys from their heart. But can money "buy" this type of feeling? Some people might agree. Many billionaires might argue that money brings them true happiness, in the form of profits, sales and innovations in technology. A scientist can make a new discovery that not only changes the public view of science, but gives them a profound sense of "happiness" and accomplishment. Are these instances of true happiness?

The Dalai Lama once said that, ultimately, "happiness and suffering depend on the mind and how the mind perceives through the five senses." This quote implies that personal happiness depends on how an individual senses happiness. For example, if someone finds happiness in money, then personal happiness for them would be represented by money. In the same respect, if the individual senses suffering due to the loss of a family member, then personal suffering for them would be associated with death of a person. I personally feel that human beings naturally tend to look for happiness through pleasure or material gain. This "pleasure" is temporary as it only satisfies humans for a limited time.


Gandhi was known to have stated that there is enough for everyone's need, but not for everyone's greed. Due to desire for material pleasure, we consume the world's natural resources relatively quickly. However, our desire for "temporary happiness" through material pleasures ultimately spells doom for our species in the future. The Earth only has enough natural resources to provide shelter for humanity. Unfortunately, beyond necessity, humans also desire more than their share of resources such as gold, silver and diamonds.


Thousands of years ago, before the Egyptians, in a geographic location (near modern-day Iraq) called Mesopotamia, people carried out transactions by bartering and trading. The inhabitants had no concept of currency as a medium of exchange. They simply exchanged products for one another. It appears as if the barter system never promoted excessive greed and desire for money within people. The inhabitants used the natural resources to satisfy themselves, and never attempted to take excessive advantage of their surroundings. However, the Mesopotamians did conduct trade between several other empires, but it was only for satisfaction, not for greed. In modern times, nations fight unnecessary wars for excessive control over oil, gold, and diamonds. The Gulf Wars were such an example, where it could be argued that people's lives were sacrificed for America's craving for oil.


Money can't buy true happiness, it only buys illusions of it. As humans, we have a tendency to shift toward money and material pleasure. By doing this we are only destroying our own civilization.


Only those who understand what true happiness means can reach "nirvana," as Buddha would put it. We can achieve true happiness; all we would have to do is find something inside of us that promotes a "happy" feeling. But if we want to achieve "nirvana," all material possessions have to be discarded. Possessions often cause feelings such as greed and lust to stir up within ourselves but these feelings are only temporary. Giving up all worldly possessions can allow us to achieve "nirvana," because then we would be free from focusing on feelings such as greed. We would be able to focus on ourselves, specifically, our spirit. For some people, reaching nirvana means achieving true happiness. Are nirvana and true happiness one concept, rather than two different feelings?


While there are questions I can't answer, I do know that true happiness is not a piece of clothing. It is not an expensive car. It doesn't have a price tag attached to it. True happiness is something that we find in ourselves, as humans.
 
Happiness is possible in two ways: By internal means which is possessing a naturally content mind and by externally means i.e., by money, fame etc. So money can indeed buy happiness!. In the case of the former you do not need to put in any extra effort and it still endures. But in the case of later you need to constantly force the happiness by maintaining the externally attained status. If it goes down, your happiness goes down with it. It is therefore not guaranteed to be permanent and can even devastate you once you lose the status.

But due to the incredible pressure to maintain certain status, some have struck a balance between their naturally content mind and the need to attain a status. They earn enough money to reach a respectable position in society but do not give up on what helps them to sustain peace. I think that is the right balance for the present age to attain true happiness.
 
To take this discussion a level above let me throw an example:

Psychologically, distress can occur in the following domains, for example in a cancer patient:
practical, familial, emotional, physical, or spiritual domains.

Practical distress : for example the loses a limb in a cancer operation and cant drive a car
Familial distress: for example the persons wife does not visit him as often
Emotional distress: the chap is a bit down and worried about his survival
Physical distress: the patient has a tube to be fed coz he cannot swallow
Spiritual distress: He has been saying Mama Jeeva Hethuna for years and he cannot say that for long now ,, atleast that is what he thinks

how does this sound in the midst of INTELLECTUAL DIVERSITY??




 
Happiness is possible in two ways: By internal means which is possessing a naturally content mind and by externally means i.e., by money, fame etc. So money can indeed buy happiness!. In the case of the former you do not need to put in any extra effort and it still endures. But in the case of later you need to constantly force the happiness by maintaining the externally attained status. If it goes down, your happiness goes down with it. It is therefore not guaranteed to be permanent and can even devastate you once you lose the status.



But due to the incredible pressure to maintain certain status, some have struck a balance between their naturally content mind and the need to attain a status. They earn enough money to reach a respectable position in society but do not give up on what helps them to sustain peace. I think that is the right balance for the present age to attain true happiness.


Well said, I wish I knew the balance point.
 
Those who say the Money Can't Buy Happiness most of the while have a rather stable life with a good amount of money and enough free time to think that something is missing in their life.
Mostly they will be complaining about some unfulfilled or unattainable desire which is often not needed for sustenance of life.
Most of the while people do not even know what they want in life and confuse that feeling as being unhappy.

The person without money and suffering for his next meal will be thinking "if I had money..my life will be happy"

So basically Happiness is subjective and always sort of related to an external factor and the definition of happiness might differ from one person to the other.

Happiness is almost invariably a momentary feeling oriented to time,place and person...therefore a transient sense of well being.

The degree of happiness too might differ with regards to the intensity of the external stimuli and also sometimes influenced by the giver of the external stimuli.


So when Happiness itself is actually momentary and pulsatile how can we fix a price for it as to "Can Money Buy True Happiness?"

Those who keep saying that they are eternally happy fall into 2 category:

1)The Insane

2)The Jeevan Mukta

Not many of us fall in the 1st or 2nd category..so the best is just lead life without thinking too hard.
 

Money ALONE can not buy true happiness.

But without enough money, there is no happiness!

What is 'enough' is not very easy to decide! :decision:
 
Those who say the Money Can't Buy Happiness most of the while have a rather stable life with a good amount of money and enough free time to think that something is missing in their life.
Mostly they will be complaining about some unfulfilled or unattainable desire which is often not needed for sustenance of life.
Most of the while people do not even know what they want in life and confuse that feeling as being unhappy.

The person without money and suffering for his next meal will be thinking "if I had money..my life will be happy"

So basically Happiness is subjective and always sort of related to an external factor and the definition of happiness might differ from one person to the other.

Happiness is almost invariably a momentary feeling oriented to time,place and person...therefore a transient sense of well being.

The degree of happiness too might differ with regards to the intensity of the external stimuli and also sometimes influenced by the giver of the external stimuli.


So when Happiness itself is actually momentary and pulsatile how can we fix a price for it as to "Can Money Buy True Happiness?"

Those who keep saying that they are eternally happy fall into 2 category:

1)The Insane

2)The Jeevan Mukta

Not many of us fall in the 1st or 2nd category..so the best is just lead life without thinking too hard.

Jeevan Muktas are called Insane by the society.

In Tamil Nadu the Siddha Vaidyans started propagating the cult of the Siddhas. At its height every Insane person in Tamil Nadu was considered a Siddha.

Jeevan Muktas/Siddhas are all Insane. But all insane persons are not Jeevan Muktas/Siddhas.


Searching for true happiness is a life long search. It never ends. Basically because it takes a life time to realize what true happiness is. Once you have realized it, that means you have reached it.
 
1) Money is needed to bring happiness to life and sustain it too.

2) Without money you can not buy your next meals. You will starve and die a miserable death.

3) two small pieces of cloth, two bananas or a handful of cooked rice and two glasses of drinking water is enough to keep one alive and happy for a day. But to get even this minimum requirement fulfilled you need money.

4) All acquisitions other than what are listed in 3 above are all luxuries and we can live without them happily. But our nature being what it is, we run after more and more money to acquire many other things in life and keep accumulating them all. So the hunger for money keeps us running and we get into all kinds of problems.

So money is needed to get happiness. But make just adequate money. Dont make excess of it.

Cheers.
 
Happiness (with ref to Money) can vary from culture to culture as well. just to quote an example, credit card culture - in which u take a loan and buy things or put your son/daughter in an expensive institution. ofcourse u need some money in the bank for the credit card company to give you/him a green signal!
 
We should first be clear about what is "money", what is "true happiness" and what is meant by "buying" in the OP. The use of the word 'buying' indicates, to me at least, that this has been written with the market economy in mind.

True happiness is one thing which mankind has been searching for, for a very very long time. Many philosophic ideas have also taken birth from such efforts to find out "true happiness". "money" of course can be taken as any medium of exchange and having some definite purchasing power, natural or artificial.

None of the worldly pleasures will ever give lasting happiness and so at some point of time the same thing which caused happiness will become the reason for unhappiness either because of its absence or because of its plentifulness. Still, different people may experience "true" happiness because of such association, as long as it exists. Since most such causes of happiness are worldly items these can be purchased with money too. Hence, the answer is "money can buy true happiness but not lasting happiness."
 
Money gives happiness. This happiness is temporary. Like money can entail unhappiness, sadness can bring happiness after removing it if possible. Death is always in the pit of one's stomach but death is everybody's anodyne perhaps leading to permanent happiness or bliss.
 
personally i think, money can be used to grease the wheels and prevent a certain type of unhappiness. the unhappiness that comes from want of money. after that money has no value.

true happiness? i dont know what it is. i think, the minute you realize you are happy, that instance, happiness deserts you. which is why i try never to think about it. atleast that is what i think i dont think about. :)
 
hi
money can buy comforts ....not real happiness.....we can buy a beautiful bed....but we can not buy sleep....
 

Jeevan Muktas/Siddhas are all Insane. But all insane persons are not Jeevan Muktas/Siddhas.

Dear Sir,

I would like to rephrase that.


An Insane person is still bound by the the whims and fancies of his/her deluded mind.

A Jeevan Mukta is person whose mind does NOT bind him/her anymore.
 
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hi
money can buy comforts ....not real happiness.....we can buy a beautiful bed....but we can not buy sleep....

Yes, with money we can buy comforts, not happiness. Happiness comes when mind is at peace. It is a supreme feeling of contentment. This subject has been discussed for ages from the time of Socrates, who said " He is rich who is content with the least; for contentment is the wealth of nature. ..."

Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.
 

Just a thought. To get on root canal treatment done in a good hospital, we know how much we have to shell out!

It is not a wonder because the capitation fee to get a seat in a private dental college is Rs. 1,00,00,000/- :dizzy:

So....... Health is Wealth!
 
haha, what will a debate be without such marvellous lighter comments from rr mam/sir
 
The tragedy is that those who go after money for happiness are happy with the happiness that money or power can buy. But I think true happiness is at least a notch higher in quality than that money can buy. Just as there is difference between pleasure and happiness , there is a difference between the happiness that money can but and that your mind alone can give. I think both are different experiences and so it is ok if one wants to experience both but when in conflict the latter should be able to overrule the former.
 
Greetings.

Personally I think money may get ( I don't know about 'buy' though) happiness. What is 'true happiness' is subjective. I did experience periods of happiness while spending money in few instances.

Of course, there were/are instances where happiness did not cost me any money either.

Cheers!
 
Money is defined by economists themselves as a means to live and not the whole. With money one can live but one cannot live in peace with Money only.
 
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