Dear Prasad I Like the postOn a date the boy and girl put the best face and act very appropriately. If you expect that for the entire life you are a dreamer and looser. No one can behave their entire life like that.
If you do not see the person behind the facade, you are going to be disappointed.
There was a joke about "exchanging Girl friend for wife - and be disappointed".
I was in the west, still I did not trust the ways of the west. I did not have the experience of the western ways. I married the girl chosen by my mother and fortunately for me the girl accepted my proposal. That was 40 odd years ago. LOL
When you do not know the terrain, it is better to retreat to the terrain you know best.