Padmanabhan Janakiraman
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DONT BLAME YOUR WIFE!!
Who becomes Our Spouse?
It is very important that we, at the very outset, understand the reason, why out of million others, none other but a particular person becomes our spouse.
The cause is Karmic. During our life, as we deal with others, we create Karma. This means that either we owe something to others or we have some outstanding dues to be collected from others. This give & take is called Karmic Rinanubandha. This can be the joy as an output of positive karma or it can be sorrows and pain as an output of bad karma.
This cycle of generating karma goes on continually throughout a life period.
Many of such karma have a very long gestation period. Such karma accumulates and they are called ‘Sanchita Karma’. Thus, at any given point of time, we have collection of such Sanchita karma involving people with whom we have interacted profusely.
It can be in terms of volume or it can be in terms of gravity of the transactions. The pull of the unsettled karma generates a bond between the persons concerned. These are the people who get attracted towards each other and establish relationships even in another life period. They become parent-child, husband-wife, brother-sister, in-laws, neighbors, co-workers, business partners depending upon the volume of karma to be settled. Thus, all our relationships are karmic bonds and the only way to overcome this, is to deal with them in a gentle manner.
Now you know, why do we marry with a particular person? It is only because of the pressure of unsettled karma. This way, every relationship is an opportunity to workout the Karmic dues.
A Spouse is an Evolution Agent
As our ego travels from lives to lives, through reincarnations, it gets closer to perfection. The journey is aimed at establishing harmony of body-mind-spirit and with the environment.
This is the process of psychic evolution through various experiences. Life, in this way, is a workshop for evolution of the spirit. During the process, we need to learn from others so that we can appreciate value and impact of human feelings.
Amongst all relations, we interact the most with our spouses. So, think it over, your spouse is the person who imparts major lessons to you. Oie La, She or He is a teacher..! Learning through others is not easy. At times the person has to act bitterly while tough lessons are to be imparted.
So, even by attracting your displeasure and ill feelings, your spouse teaches you lessons. Through these lessons we develop our psyche towards perfection. One should be obliged to ones spouse.!
Do you agree?
Vedic Astrology
This Post is for sharing knowledge only, no intention to violate any copyrights.
Who becomes Our Spouse?
It is very important that we, at the very outset, understand the reason, why out of million others, none other but a particular person becomes our spouse.
The cause is Karmic. During our life, as we deal with others, we create Karma. This means that either we owe something to others or we have some outstanding dues to be collected from others. This give & take is called Karmic Rinanubandha. This can be the joy as an output of positive karma or it can be sorrows and pain as an output of bad karma.
This cycle of generating karma goes on continually throughout a life period.
Many of such karma have a very long gestation period. Such karma accumulates and they are called ‘Sanchita Karma’. Thus, at any given point of time, we have collection of such Sanchita karma involving people with whom we have interacted profusely.
It can be in terms of volume or it can be in terms of gravity of the transactions. The pull of the unsettled karma generates a bond between the persons concerned. These are the people who get attracted towards each other and establish relationships even in another life period. They become parent-child, husband-wife, brother-sister, in-laws, neighbors, co-workers, business partners depending upon the volume of karma to be settled. Thus, all our relationships are karmic bonds and the only way to overcome this, is to deal with them in a gentle manner.
Now you know, why do we marry with a particular person? It is only because of the pressure of unsettled karma. This way, every relationship is an opportunity to workout the Karmic dues.
A Spouse is an Evolution Agent
As our ego travels from lives to lives, through reincarnations, it gets closer to perfection. The journey is aimed at establishing harmony of body-mind-spirit and with the environment.
This is the process of psychic evolution through various experiences. Life, in this way, is a workshop for evolution of the spirit. During the process, we need to learn from others so that we can appreciate value and impact of human feelings.
Amongst all relations, we interact the most with our spouses. So, think it over, your spouse is the person who imparts major lessons to you. Oie La, She or He is a teacher..! Learning through others is not easy. At times the person has to act bitterly while tough lessons are to be imparted.
So, even by attracting your displeasure and ill feelings, your spouse teaches you lessons. Through these lessons we develop our psyche towards perfection. One should be obliged to ones spouse.!
Do you agree?
Vedic Astrology
This Post is for sharing knowledge only, no intention to violate any copyrights.
