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Dear sri sangom
thank you very much for your direct answer.in dharma sastra surukkam it is mentioned that onions,garlicks etc are like toddy(kallu) for brahmins which i mentioned.ofcourse in normal i used take onion except on dharpan days,pooja days,mahalaya patcham,the day before and after the shrardham.now my mother passed away on 15/05/2011 and my elder brother is performing the monthly masigam,sodhakumbam.the confusion started when my vadhyar advised me not to take onion for one year and another rigvedha ganapadigal told me it is no where in sastra it is prohibited.that is why the clarification is sought.
I am performing mahalayam and on my fathers day it is done anna roopam.now also i am told that till the varushapthigam of my mother i am not supposed to do mahalayam this year.is it correct.
Yes it is correct. But I would very humbly like to bring to your notice the views recorded by Shri Sarang, who appears to me to be one following the orthodox route, and Shri Nara who is an atheist; both feel that in matters such as these (what to eat or avoid) it is for each person to take a firm decision and so I tend to support this view. In your case you seem to be seeking opinions from different sources because (this is what appears to me) you do not basically do not have an opinion of your own nor do you trust one or the other purohit. There is a saying "samSayAtmA vinaSyati"; so come to some decision, start trusting some one and follow his/her advice in such matters. For example, I do not avoid onions, garlic, etc., if used in cooking, nor am I particularly fond of these; and I do not think whatever escapes my body on my death (if there is some such thing because I do not know) will go to some eternal hell due to such practices.