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We want persons with positive mindset who do not use horoscopes to reject prospective matches using either the birth star or the position of grahas.

I mean both experts who are consulted for porutham and those who go to them for consultancy.

So many prospective matches are damaged by experts .

Then those who act like high priests suggesting pariharams for doshas which they with their infinite knowledge find out that are supposed to exist in horoscopes.
 
krish44 said:
We want persons with positive mindset who do not use horoscopes to reject prospective matches using either the birth star or the position of grahas.

I mean both experts who are consulted for porutham and those who go to them for consultancy.

So many prospective matches are damaged by experts .

Then those who act like high priests suggesting pariharams for doshas which they with their infinite knowledge find out that are supposed to exist in horoscopes.
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It is not proper to say astrologers are people with negative mind set, Krishji. In fact I would suggest that match making is not at all negative, but it is a very good tool drafted in such a way to bring all sorts of positivity in the possible marital life of the prospective couples. If two horoscopes are not found suitable for marriage by astrology, it does not mean that, the two persons remain unmarried for their life time. If some dosham is found in any horoscope, it is matched with suitable horoscopes with matiching dosham ( two negatives makes positive sort of principle) For eg. in the case of Moola nakshtra which opend the oppertunity of beginning this discussion, it was not all difficult to find a match with the same Nakshtra (although the reason expressed in the post does'nt have any astrological base) which could have nullifed the effect. It is not fair to blame astrology on our failure to find a suitable match. Yes to the pariharam part, I also agree with you. Because I believe we only reap the fruits of our Karma and since karma cannot be changed or influenced and so is the results. During earlier times marriages were conducted between couples who mostly not known to each other. So how to ensure their common interests and mutual understanding? With that idea, the system was evolved based upon charecteristics of various Nakshtras and other Jathaka parameters which could meet each other's intrests so as to ensure harmony in a marital life. The system worked so well, till such time vested interestes of people start influencing the same; again in the case of Moolam nakshtra, I can give two examples of Moolam Nakshtra girls happily married and live with hale & healthy parents-in-laws.
 
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Ganeshji

I understand horoscopes and matching systems used by us to the extent of casting and matching.

I can tell you honestly , You are wasting your time getting into such cycles and damaging lives of TB boys and girls.. Stars and rashis have nothing to do with fate of

people getting into matrimony.

Doshams are ruses to make people spend on pariharas so that some can benefit out of it. If one is superstitious and gullible, I suppose they deserve to be taken for a

ride by the unscrupulous.

Best throw horoscopes away and get married utilising better criterion.
 
Best throw horoscopes away and get married utilising better criterion.
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Krish ji,

It is not as easy to do it as we think. There are many people who strongly believes in horpscopes and since we know the art of matching horoscopes very well, I thinkn it is our duty to appraise them with the facts and leave the decision to them. At least this act on our part will save them from being taken for rides by the unscrupulous. Even if we succeed in that I think that will be a good act on our part. I am not here to promote or disown astrology or match making. My clear intention is to spread awareness as far as I can and leave the decision making to the people concerned. I normaly get two to three calls on daily basis for matchmaking through phone and emails. Even non hindus approach me with this request. I would like to share one interesting incidence with you here. One christian family seeking alliance for their daughter from Kerala approached me with some horoscopes of boys a couple of years back. It was then I was aware that Christians also pay more importance to matching of horoscopes. Of course I know they also are interesred in atrology, as one of my teacher who taught us astrology in Bharatiya Vidhya Bhawan was a Christian (Prof. Issac). After examinig them I found two of them matching and conveyed it to them. I wanted to suggest them some offering to be conducted and as per the horoscope, it was to be offered to Lord Ganapathi (for Ketu) and Goddess Durga (for Rahu). I was in a dialemma and finally asked them to do the prayer according to their belief. But they surprised me with a suggestion that although they will do whatever possible as per their faith and also asked me to get it done as per findings in the chart for our dietis and in our method for them as well. I took them to the Lawerence Road Ganeshji temple and got their prayers arranged for them. They prayed from outside the temple.
 
When I match horoscopes, I do it with detachment.I also give a rider that I am a non believer. I learnt this for finding suitable matches for my own relatives since in

arranged matches all are crazy about horoscope matching.They get upset if you tell them that you are a non believer.

For those who approach me

I always Clearly say if the boy and girl have mana porutham [Love before marriage] get them married . for these horoscope matching is unnecessary .

If dasa or star mismatch is there [numbers out of ten porutham] I tell them to go elsewhere for pariharam if they believe in them.

For chevvai dosham etc go to some temple nearby. There is one right opposite my home with navagraha.lol-very harmless suggestion.

End is always go ahead with riders .

My services are free and I keep nobody waiting for result.

I do it only for my relatives and some unwise who come to me for matching.lol

I gave my result to one in this forum in half an hour based on time of birth and place of birth [long and lat] of boy and girl. lol

I dispose off these in minutes with my blessings.
 
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Raji Ram said:
J J ji should remember that writing facts is considered boasting in our dear forum! :horn:
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krish44 said:
JJ ji is matter of fact. She was replying to my query.


She was kind to overlook birth stars and beliefs associated with it to accept a girl as DIL.

To accept sons choice without seeing the girl and go along with the decision to delay marriage by two years calls for a lot of understanding and maturity.

Full marks to he






krish44 said:
We want persons with positive mindset who do not use horoscopes to reject prospective matches using either the birth star or the position of grahas.

I mean both experts who are consulted for porutham and those who go to them for consultancy.

So many prospective matches are damaged by experts .
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Well I thought about my M in L when I had to decide I followed her foot steps!

Now read on

She had to decide few Maamagams ago when jathaga porutham finalized wedding My eldest B in L was posted to Ferozepur N.Rly and was lonely She had to decide . The girl from Bombay. .was found to suitable . Their josier
opinion porutham OK can proceed He went to Bombay met her and liked her But josier in Madras advised not to proceed because of Kalathra Dosham She over looked and they.were married He is 90+ and she is 85 . Even now she is coaching students for board exams & JEE!

Yes I am boastful M in L & boastful of my M in L as well
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JJ ji

Interesting .

I will tell you about a lady I transacted with for a prospective alliance for her son.

The girl I was looking for had ayilyum star.

That lady told me that her star is also ayilyum. Her mother in law accepted her and MIL is hale hearty after more than 30 plus years of the DILs marriage.She would

like to do the same for her son. Also if some harm comes to her because of the marriage she would not mind it as her son likes the girl.

Later on the alliance did not work out. But I liked her thinking.
 
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