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renuka said:
No Sravna...its not exactly...you and I are not on the same page!LOL

You are enforcing rules on yourself by equating losing a non existent state with the loss of discipline in life.

For me I am willing to accept anything in life as experiences that shape my existence.

I could have been anything in my previous lives...same with you Sravna..for all I know anyone of us could have been a serial killer or even a sex worker.

Human existence is shaped by everything that we go tru in every life.

I do not feel I need to view anything as losing a fundamental concept necessary for discipline in life...life is like flow of water...if we stop it by man built dams in our mind...we change the whole environment and when the pressure builds up we burst into extremism..its not healthy in my opinion.

We should just learn to exists...usually self is the best teacher in life..we eventually know our strength and weaknesses and we decide for ourselves ....even if it means falling down in any scale..I would not like to judge myself or anyone for that matter.

If someone needs help we can help them or even if we need help we can try reaching out to those we can trust.

But at the end of the day we can not make another person a clone of our mind...we need to respect another's choice of life.

I treat many sex workers too in my line of job.I never judge their profession..all I say is to use protection.
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Dear Renuka,,

You say people can learn by themselves. I agree, ultimately that is how it works. But guidance and help do play a role in people's learning. That is my point.
 
sravna said:
Dear Renuka,,

You say people can learn by themselves. I agree, ultimately that is how it works. But guidance and help do play a role in people's learning. That is my point.
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Dear Sravna,

The words are GUIDANCE and HELP...but I somehow do not see that coming from your methods.

You are Passively Draconian.
 
renuka said:
dear Sravna,

A human is like a car...it needs maintenance.

Simple as that...when car breaks down..we repair it.beyond repair..car cant be used.

Same with human body..after sometime we die.

Every act need input from mind..even eating needs signals from mind and brain.

The problem is you are unable to look at the sex act as a function of the human body and your are conferring virtue to chastity and virginity.

Try to go beyond bodily attachment.

I am surprised you talk about spirituality yet attach so much importance to virginity.

Am I the body? No.

Am I the mind? No.

The body does it functions and so does the mind but in reality both do not define me.

Its that simple...dont complicate stuff.

Virginity is a cultural definition...it does not define anything..technically Virginity does not even exist..so how can we lose something that is not even an organ with no known function..its not even a vestigial organ.

Its not as if we are losing and hand or leg!
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Very clinical. Spoken like a doctor.LOL
 
I will give a simple example.

When a person experiences break up in a relationship...most people give advise like "Dont worry..your family..mum and dad still love you blah blah blah".

Now that is one of the worst advice to give a person facing a break up cos the person is not looking for parental love...the person is missing the love from their partner.

Parental love especially Mother's love frankly does not need much effort..nature has made it automated for survival of species among humans.

A mother would still love her child if he was even a serial killer becos she is wired that way...so no big deal if you ask me.

Now..but love between partners and spouse needs extra effort cos both are unrelated(most of the while)..nature did not wire them to feel for each other unconditionally...that is why being happily married needs a lot of commitment.

Therefore when a person has a break up..they need advice and support for them to face their fears...mistakes...and prepare them for a new relationship in the course of time.

That is what I did with one patient once and she is happily married again now after a divorce.

I never told her.."dont worry..God is there..your family is there..your mama is there..your machan is there".

That is not what was needed..she needed a new husband.

So advice to people has to be logically within what they desire and not what we desire for them.
 
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renuka said:
I will give a simple example.

When a person experiences break up in a relationship...most people give advise like "Dont worry..your family..mum and dad still love you blah blah blah".

Now that is one of the worst advice to give a person facing a break up cos the person is not looking for parental love...the person is missing the love from their partner.

Parental love especially Mother's love frankly does not need much effort..nature has made it automated for survival of species among humans.

A mother would still love her child if he was even a serial killer becos she is wired that way...so no big deal if you ask me.

Now..but love between partners and spouse needs extra effort cos both are unrelated(most of the while)..nature did not wire them to feel for each other unconditionally...that is why being happily married needs a lot of commitment.

Therefore when a person has a break up..they need advice and support for them to face their fears...mistakes...and prepare them for a new relationship in the course of time.

That is what I did with one patient once and she is happily married again now after a divorce.

I never told her.."dont worry..God is there..your family is there..your mama is there..your machan is there".

That is not what was needed..she needed a new husband.

So advise to people has to be logically within what they desire and not what we desire for them.
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Your pragmatic advise to resurrect women with broken affairs and help them to have more affairs or to trap someone else for a new relationship will get you a cult

following.

Even married women can be persuaded like this to have a fling if they are unsatisfied with their spouses.lol
 
krish44 said:
Even married women can be persuaded like this to have a fling if they are unsatisfied with their spouses.lol
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This need tech advise.

To keep all passwords safe..no common emails and separate phones for spouse and the other guy!LOL
 
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Originally Posted by sravna
Folks,

I am getting good responses for my initiatives. I will be tied up with that and will not be able to spend a lot of time on the forum. Anyone willing to be part of the initiatives contact me at

[email protected]
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Dear Sravna,

Best of luck..but a lingering thought is still in mind..remember the movie Anniyan?

He sets up a website and each user of that site was only him...he created all responses and members.

The police tracked the IP address and it was all ONLY him.

So Sravna...I hope all the responses you are getting are real and not unreal.
 
Dear Renuka,

My advice springs on the basis of my own experiences and thoughts. I was able to make self improvement and I see no reason why it cannot work on others. I have nothing to gain from this except the satisfaction that people's quality of life improved.
 
krish44 said:
Are you running away and not facing the truth?
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Dear Sir,

Your words seem totally out of place. What is the truth and what is the need to run away from truths. My prescription is always to understand truth properly and use it for self improvement
 
Dear Krish Sir,

Sravna Sir shares his experiences in our forum and there are many persons waiting to get his advice.

We should wish him well and not mock at his efforts / new ventures. :)
 
Raji Ram said:
Dear Krish Sir,

Sravna Sir shares his experiences in our forum and there are many persons waiting to get his advice.

We should wish him well and not mock at his efforts / new ventures. :)
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I have the greatest respect for sravnaji.

I join you in wishing him in all his new ventures.

He had left the interaction with renukaji unfinished half away.

I was referring to that
 
renuka said:
I will give a simple example.

When a person experiences break up in a relationship...most people give advise like "Dont worry..your family..mum and dad still love you blah blah blah".

Now that is one of the worst advice to give a person facing a break up cos the person is not looking for parental love...the person is missing the love from their partner.

Parental love especially Mother's love frankly does not need much effort..nature has made it automated for survival of species among humans.

A mother would still love her child if he was even a serial killer becos she is wired that way...so no big deal if you ask me.

Now..but love between partners and spouse needs extra effort cos both are unrelated(most of the while)..nature did not wire them to feel for each other unconditionally...that is why being happily married needs a lot of commitment.

Therefore when a person has a break up..they need advice and support for them to face their fears...mistakes...and prepare them for a new relationship in the course of time.

That is what I did with one patient once and she is happily married again now after a divorce.

I never told her.."dont worry..God is there..your family is there..your mama is there..your machan is there".

That is not what was needed..she needed a new husband.

So advice to people has to be logically within what they desire and not what we desire for them.
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For once I am in total agreement with this post of Renukaji. Renukaji, excellent articulation. Thanks.
 
One of my important future initiatives is to work on the use of physical force as a means to influence others. So whether be it by the military might of U.S. or by the goonda like acts of politicians here, I plan to making such forces ineffective.
 
sravna said:
One of my important future initiatives is to work on the use of physical force as a means to influence others. So whether be it by the military might of U.S. or by the goonda like acts of politicians here, I plan to making such forces ineffective.
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biswa said:
One request: please target Russia and China first. I wouldn't like to be wiped out by a spiritual bomb!
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Well, Sravna is not even able to influence this forum. So much so for wiping out countries.. !!! :D
 
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