Gender equality--tvk

[kk4646]

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Dear Renu,

Those who don't see Hindi movies (like me) may not understand 'AbhimAn'.

Since Carnatic music is denoted as C M, Hindustani music as H M and the

Western music as W M, we can very well denote the 'inferiority complex' as I C.

So......... I C syndrome. I C S in short!

I prefer to call it "PAES'..."Play Along & Exploit Syndrome"...Most of the Ladies are Expert in it..!!


TVK

 

[renuka]

Men never know anything happening around them
since they NEVER listen- especially to the women in the house.

Who needs to read the road map today when the lovely voiced G.P.S
can guide you through any traffic and take you from anywhere to anywhere???

Dear VR ji,

I have always wondered why all automated voice messages are female voices.

Why don't they use male voices too??

It is always a female voice saying "The number you have dialed in currently busy/out of reach..please try again after sometime"

Or "you have reached the mail box of 013-********* kindly leave your message after the beep."

I was thinking that why don't someone make automated machines like this:

Press 1 for Male Voice
Press 2 for Female Voice

Let the consumer/customer make the choice.

 

[renuka]

I prefer to call it "PAES'..."Play Along & Exploit Syndrome"...Most of the Ladies are Expert in it..!!


TVK

Dear TVK ji,


Guys too suffer from PAES..Play Always & Expectations Syndrome

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

I have always wondered why all automated voice messages are female voices.

Why don't they use male voices too??

It is always a female voice saying "The number you have dialed in currently busy/out of reach..please try again after sometime"

Or "you have reached the mail box of 013-********* kindly leave your message after the beep."

I was thinking that why don't someone make automated machines like this:

Press 1 for Male Voice
Press 2 for Female Voice

Let the consumer/customer make the choice.

My younger son's G.P.S speaks in

a husky and sexy male voice!!! :ear:
May be they offer a choice! :decision:

 

[renuka]

Men never know anything happening around them
since they NEVER listen- especially to the women in the house.

Who needs to read the road map today when the lovely voiced G.P.S
can guide you through any traffic and take you from anywhere to anywhere???

Dear VR ji,

Men like to read maps cos they hate asking for directions.

They rather get lost and end up even in a jungle then to ask for directions.

That happened to me once when a co male doc on duty along with me ended up in a jungle becos he did not want to ask directions.

We were covering a remote temple for 48 hours on call duty doctors for Panguni Utthiram and the male doc drove there and asked me to come in his car since both of us were on duty.

When our duty got over it was almost evening and he took a wrong route and we landed up in a tribal settlement jungle!

It was getting dark and there was no one in sight and I was thinking how to go back home.

I told him to stop the car and we go looking for someone to ask directions and he said No.

Then I saw one old man in the jungle area and I went up to him and asked him how to go back to the town we came from.

He showed us the road and we went back safely.

So this is pre GPS days!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Who is what in the following question

with regards to males and females.

Exploiter??? :decision: Exploited???

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

Men like to read maps cos they hate asking for directions.

They rather get lost and end up even in a jungle then to ask for directions.

That happened to me once when a co male doc on duty along with me ended up in a jungle becos he did not want to ask directions.

We were covering a remote temple for 48 hours on call duty doctors for Panguni Utthiram and the male doc drove there and asked me to come in his car since both of us were on duty.

When our duty got over it was almost evening and he took a wrong route and we landed up in a tribal settlement jungle!

It was getting dark and there was no one in sight and I was thinking how to go back home.

I told him to stop the car and we go looking for someone to ask directions and he said No.

Then I saw one old man in the jungle area and I went up to him and asked him how to go back to the town we came from.

He showed us the road and we went back safely.

So this is pre GPS days!

Dear Renu!

Such a picturesque scene recalled!

Was there a tribal wedding going on???

Do you know why they always include a women
in any team of astronauts???

She will find out the correct way in case they get lost
since the men are too egoistic to ask for directions!!! :lock1:

 

[renuka]

Who is what in the following question

with regards to males and females.

Exploiter??? :decision: Exploited???

Dear VR ji,

Depends on the situation.

We females at times can use our charm and exploit the situation to get a favor done.
Playing damsel in distress at times can work wonders.

Some guys too sometimes used chivalry to get favors done.

So its mutual exploitation!

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

Guys always think they are very smart even in the 'GPS days'!

Read my experience with Ram's nephew as a driver!


கடல் கடந்த இரண்டாம் அனுபவம்..... 37


விமரிசையாக ஹோமங்கள் முடிந்ததும், எல்லோரும்
வரிசையாகச் சென்று 'நம்ம ஊரு சாப்பாடு' ருசித்தோம்.

மாலை நிகழ்ச்சிக்கு இன்னும் சில மணி இருந்தது - வேறு
வேலை இல்லாததால் ஊர் சுற்ற மனம் சென்றது.

GPS மூலம் எந்த விலாசத்திற்கும் வழி 'சாட்லைட்' தருவதால்,
GPS ஒன்று எடுத்துக்கொண்டு, நாங்கள் ஐவர் புறப்பட்டோம்!

PIPE STEM PARK என்பதை அது காண்பிக்காததால்,
PIPE STEM, வெஸ்ட் வெர்ஜினியா என்று கேட்டோம்.

ரொம்ப வழி தெரிந்ததுபோல அது எங்களைக் கூட்டிச் சென்றது,
திரும்ப முடியாத, கல் நிறைந்த ஒற்றையடிப் பாதையில்!

கார் டயர் கடகடக்க, பெண்கள் மூவரும் வெடவெடக்க,
நேர் வழியில் செல்வதுபோல் ஆண்கள் இருவரும் இருக்க,

'அந்நியர்கள் நுழையக்கூடாது' என்ற அறிவிப்புகளும் தெரிய,
அந்நியரான எங்களை எவரும் சுடுவாரோ எனப் பயம் நிறைய,

காட்டெருமை ஏதும் முன் வந்து நின்றாலும் - என்னவெனக்
கேட்டுவர ஒரு ஜீவனும் இல்லாத கானகத்தில் மாட்டிக்கொண்டு,

மலைப்பாதையில் உச்சிவரை சென்றபின், 'இந்த
மலை உச்சியைத்தான் உங்கள் DESTINATION எனக்

கூறுமோ இந்த GPS ?' என்று சந்தேகப்பட, மறு வினாடியே
கூறியது அந்தப் பொல்லாத GPS அதே வார்த்தைகளை!

வீட்டு விலாசத்தை மீண்டும் போட்டு வழி கேட்க,
வீட்டுக்கு வழியைச் சொல்ல அது ஆரம்பித்தது!

தொடர்ந்து ஒற்றையடிப் பாதையில் உழன்று சென்று,
அடர்ந்த காட்டு வழிகள் கடந்தபின் கண்ணில் பட்டது

நல்ல ரோடுகளில் செல்லும் கார்கள்! ஒலிம்பிக் ரேசில்
நல்ல தங்கப் பதக்கம் கிடைத்ததுபோல் மகிழ்ச்சி மனசில்!

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu!

Such a picturesque scene recalled!

Was there a tribal wedding going on???

Do you know why they always include a women
in any team of astronauts???

She will find out the correct way in case they get lost
since the men are too egoistic to ask for directions!!! :lock1:

Dear VR ji,


I knew you would ask me this..like some Tamil Movie where suddenly both guy and girl will get their dressed changed by the tribals and start dancing.

It was a Tribal settlement where the houses are made by the government in the jungle area and some amount of deforestation for agricultural projects for the tribals.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Right question..... Right answer!!!

Wrong question... Wrong route!!!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,


I knew you would ask me this..like some Tamil Movie where suddenly both guy and girl will get their dressed changed by the tribals and start dancing.

It was a Tribal settlement where the houses are made by the government in the jungle area and some amount of deforestation for agricultural projects for the tribals.

In the Tamil movie, the hero and the heroine themselves would get married

in the tribal village, in the tribal dress and in the tribal style.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

Depends on the situation.

We females at times can use our charm and exploit the situation to get a favor done.
Playing damsel in distress at times can work wonders.

Some guys too sometimes used chivalry to get favors done.

So its mutual exploitation!

But the same person can't be both the exploited and the exploiter!

Some asadus in both the genders will get exploited life long

while some others very clever in both the genders will keep exploiting lifelong.

I am quite sure they have evolved their own successful formula too ! :high5:

 

[renuka]

Here is one more "getting lost" story!

In some December 2002(my old car does not have GPS..my husband and I were driving about kind of late at night looking for a new housing commercial area to set up a clinic.

We drove about many places and then my husband took some turn and we were going to some unknown place.

Then it was almost 12 midnight and we reached a quite open space and my husband said "This looks like a new township in planning..so may be you can wait a while and lets the area develop and then open your clinic here"

Then I looked at the sign board there and told my husband "this area does not need a doctor"

He asked me why and I pointed the sign board to him.

It read "Muslim Cemetery"

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

May be they do not construct any samaadhi in the Hindu style or
any other structures in the Christian style!!!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

But being at a cemetery at 12 midnight...!!!!:fear:

 

[tbs]

Dear Renu,

Guys always think they are very smart even in the 'GPS days'!

Read my experience with Ram's nephew as a driver!


கடல் கடந்த இரண்டாம் அனுபவம்..... 37


விமரிசையாக ஹோமங்கள் முடிந்ததும், எல்லோரும்
வரிசையாகச் சென்று 'நம்ம ஊரு சாப்பாடு' ருசித்தோம்.

மாலை நிகழ்ச்சிக்கு இன்னும் சில மணி இருந்தது - வேறு
வேலை இல்லாததால் ஊர் சுற்ற மனம் சென்றது.

GPS மூலம் எந்த விலாசத்திற்கும் வழி 'சாட்லைட்' தருவதால்,
GPS ஒன்று எடுத்துக்கொண்டு, நாங்கள் ஐவர் புறப்பட்டோம்!

PIPE STEM PARK என்பதை அது காண்பிக்காததால்,
PIPE STEM, வெஸ்ட் வெர்ஜினியா என்று கேட்டோம்.

ரொம்ப வழி தெரிந்ததுபோல அது எங்களைக் கூட்டிச் சென்றது,
திரும்ப முடியாத, கல் நிறைந்த ஒற்றையடிப் பாதையில்!

கார் டயர் கடகடக்க, பெண்கள் மூவரும் வெடவெடக்க,
நேர் வழியில் செல்வதுபோல் ஆண்கள் இருவரும் இருக்க,

'அந்நியர்கள் நுழையக்கூடாது' என்ற அறிவிப்புகளும் தெரிய,
அந்நியரான எங்களை எவரும் சுடுவாரோ எனப் பயம் நிறைய,

காட்டெருமை ஏதும் முன் வந்து நின்றாலும் - என்னவெனக்
கேட்டுவர ஒரு ஜீவனும் இல்லாத கானகத்தில் மாட்டிக்கொண்டு,

மலைப்பாதையில் உச்சிவரை சென்றபின், 'இந்த
மலை உச்சியைத்தான் உங்கள் DESTINATION எனக்

கூறுமோ இந்த GPS ?' என்று சந்தேகப்பட, மறு வினாடியே
கூறியது அந்தப் பொல்லாத GPS அதே வார்த்தைகளை!

வீட்டு விலாசத்தை மீண்டும் போட்டு வழி கேட்க,
வீட்டுக்கு வழியைச் சொல்ல அது ஆரம்பித்தது!

தொடர்ந்து ஒற்றையடிப் பாதையில் உழன்று சென்று,
அடர்ந்த காட்டு வழிகள் கடந்தபின் கண்ணில் பட்டது

நல்ல ரோடுகளில் செல்லும் கார்கள்! ஒலிம்பிக் ரேசில்
நல்ல தங்கப் பதக்கம் கிடைத்ததுபோல் மகிழ்ச்சி மனசில்!

hi RR madam.,
once i was driving from florida to east coast.....abt 2 days journey in car......i used G P S and google maps printed copy with me...

in USA ..i keep google maps my primary document in printed version and G P S always my secondary source of information....

i always miss the exit in high ways.....still i drive washington DC to boston regularly....still i use printed copy of direction....

then G P S....

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

In spite of all the info about the exit number

and how far it is - long before it appears to you??? :faint:

 

[renuka]

May be they do not construct any samaadhi in the Hindu style or
any other structures in the Christian style!!!

Dear VR ji,

Their tomb stones are very very small and some orthodox ones do not even mark their graves.

So from a distance that too at 12 midnight poorly lit..it does look very much like a construction site!

 

[kk4646]

But being at a cemetery at 12 midnight...!!!!:fear:[/QU



Not a big deal... Renuka Madam always liked by her GHOST friends.. She might have been welcomed with Dance & Music..!!


TVK

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Band Bhaaja by Booth friends??? :becky:

 

[renuka]

But being at a cemetery at 12 midnight...!!!!:fear:[/QU



Not a big deal... Renuka Madam always liked by her GHOST friends.. She might have been welcomed with Dance & Music..!!


TVK

True..a cemetery at night always looks calm!

No traffic jams, no crowd..in fact it should be a good place to meditate!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

True..a cemetery at night always looks calm!

No traffic jams, no crowd..in fact it should be a good place to meditate!LOL

... and in the good company of the liberated souls

at least from their bodies even if not from samsaaraa!

 

[kk4646]

"Do you know why they always include a women
in any team of astronauts???"...


Ha..Ha.. Simbolic representation to show wherever Men goes..his 'trouble' will follow..!!

TVK

 

[Anand Manohar]

Dear All

Quoted below are a few lines from " Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps "
- Barbara & Allan Pease

" Why did Moses spend 40 years wandering in the desert?
He refused to ask for directions."

" Miss Universe competitions are watched mainly by men, but Mr Universe contests turn nobody on".

" You're a lousy lover!' she said. 'How can you tell that in two minutes?' he asked.

" Ninety percent of the people in prison are men".

" Women can speak and listen simultaneously, while at the same time accusing
men of being able to do neither"

'It's obvious that women are smarter than men. Think about
it - diamonds are a girl's best friend; man's best friend is a dog. ' - Joan Rivers "

"If a woman is talking to you a lot, she likes you. If she's not talking to you, you're in trouble.

Hope many people have fun reading the book.

Guruvethunai
Yay Yem