Shri Sangom Sir,
Thanks for your reply and advice and of other members. Yes you are absolutely right the Astrologer is from Kerala Trivanduram he is not a professional for public, he is one of member of Kerala Astrolger and he was also committee member of Sree Padmanabhaswamy Temple and he was also one of the astrologer who conducted deva prasanam. Through a family friend and this astrologer his is Guru he approached him with a special case. And we were in touch with this person for for some time and all his prediction were right only my case he could not able to get any answer and just last week when we called up him just casually he talked to my wife for a very long time asking about all his family background, pooja the ritual etc which their family were doing but that time also he did not say anything and in point he got the answer and told about this. He has also written a Article about it which is in Malyalam but not published or posted in internet. And all thing which he has written is absolutely correct i.e he has given all fact & example in that any person who is having this problem will 100 % confirm all the incidence which he has written and this was also confirmed by other relative and one of our wife close friend who are also from Kerala with whom my wife discuss everything and give us good moral support and we shared this article she also confirmed it as 100% correct as she is also facing lot of problem not financially but in other way as their family member also do pooja of Bramaraksh in temple as my wife side do.
Bramaraksha don't effect only one family but entire family whether i.e Boy and Girl married or not married but it will effect only the Boy or Girl and their children and their generation and it will not affect their other family member that is why i asked the Question if after marriage Girls Gothra affect boy also if both Gothram is different. If Girl family is having some Dosham. Though he has not written how it effect other side but he has explained clearly with facts how it effect.
Since i can not share the article without his permission as he don't like publicity and further it is in Malayalam when we asked why not you translate in English & Tamil he simply refused for me and my selected disciple are satisfied with this and that makes me happy.
And till date neither has has asked or not we have given a singly penny to him when we asked about this he just telled the day you return to normal life and with a Good Job that itself would be my Dakshina as that day would make me also happy as their is nothing compared to happiness.
Thanks a Lot
Dear Shri Kumar,
Astrology is chiefly based on astronomy which is a mostly mathematical science, but prediction part of astrology is dependent mostly on belief systems. I shall recount to you two incidents from my life.
1. During the 1970's the younger sister of the maid who was assisting in my house and also in my father-in-law's house (our houses were in adjacent plots) became mad. (The real reason, as it turned out later, was that a police constable who was also into manthravaadam etc., was requested by our maid to cure her sister's menstrual complaint and that fellow took the opportunity to rape the girl and also threatened her with death if she did not keep her mouth shut. The tension caused by this plus our maid's great belief in that manthravaadi aggravated the condition of that young woman.) But we - myself and my father-in-law did not know this truth and, taking pity on our maid paying large sums of money to a manthravaadi, etc., we went to a jyosyan who was considered an expert. He conducted a "prasnam" and told us that the woman in question had several "baadhas" ranging from brahmarakshas to raktachaamundi to many other things. Since I knew a little bit about this "prasnam" part, we told him that the people were very poor and they would not be able to find such big moneys as he said would be required to exorcise all the "baadhas" from the body. I also asked him very politely one or two doubts bringing clearly that the prasnam after all revealed a lot of "daivaanugraham" for that woman.
The astrologer immediately changed his stand and told us that if only we had told him that the person was poor he would not have suggested such elaborate and costly exorcisms; he added that the normal human psychology is that if a person does a very costly "parihaaram" it gives a mental courage to face the difficulties more calmly and seek practical ways out of the difficult situation. He then suggested to us to buy one kilo of an ayurvedic preparation known as "saaraswatha ghritham", entrust it to the priest of a (then highly respected) Devi temple and request him to recite the moolamanthra of the devi, aksharalaksham times and then after paying Dakshina to the priest, the concerned woman should keep that bottle in a ritually pure (Shuddham) place in her house and take one spoonful in empty stomach every morning, and a few more details. To cut a long account short that woman took that ghritam ritually, was completely cured and was married as second wife to a small but prospering businessman, had two children, lived very happily and died a few years ago.
2. The second is in r/o my second son whose marriage was getting very delayed. My wife and I consulted a reputed astrologer here in Trivandrum who said that the delay was due to some family dosha of my wife and suggested some remedial measures. Since I did not at all believe in such family dosham from girl's family afflicting her children, after her marriage, I stoutly prevented any of the remedies being done but may be my wife might have been praying daily, which I could not stop. Ultimately my son advertised in the paper from Mumbai, where he was then working, selected a north-Indian girl whom he liked (and she also liked him) and married her. They have two sons now and are happily living abroad.
What I want to suggest, therefore, is that though it is normally a weakness among us tabras to consult an astrologer when there is any continuing difficulty in our life which we are unable to overcome by our efforts, but astrology need not always guide us very correctly and it is for us to think of practical measures to overcome those difficulties. If we tend to go purely by the astrologer's advice, we may get into a "chakkar" which may make our condition much worse.
Your present problem is that you are not getting a job despite your best efforts. The astrologer traces the cause to Brahmarakshas (by the way, you have written,
"as she is also facing lot of problem not financially but in other way as their family member also do pooja of Bramaraksh in temple as my wife side do." Usually nobody does pooja of brahmarakshas/brahmarakshas alone in any temple.So, I am surprised by this. Can you give some more details?). I will advise you to forget about this point and consult some reliable friends about how you can increase your chances of getting a job - any job should be considered OK - and whether this can be helped by taking steps such as your learning something new, changing your place of residence from Delhi to some other place where your existing knowledge and experience may have more job opportunities, can your wife also try for and take up some employment, etc. Only such pragmatic steps will help us, sometimes, in our difficult periods.
Please try to think along such practical lines and make effort to forget completely the brahmarakshas, astrologer, etc.
Note: Can you kindly send that Malayalam article to me at my e-mail id: [email protected]
