How To Find An Online Match

[krish44]

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Many TB girls and boys are finding it difficult to find a suitable matrimonial match'

Most of them are cyber savvy.

Why should Tamil ambis and Thangachis [ I understand every brahmin home has one]not they put their computer talents to work to locate a match.?

There are a slew of websites and apps that offer tailor made romance.

so one can click , swipe , lol fall in love and get married

so some can love, some lust and some both along with dating and marriage

what should they do?

Sign up for Tinder and OkCupid. also available

Grindr and Planet Romeo.

Everyone will find her/his dream romeo/ Juliet and be happy.

An indian newspaper registered its journalists in age group 25-30 yrs to find out whether these sites could work out .

they say on authority it might .

on registry ,one has to answer 400 odd questions like number of dates you will do before next step-sex or marriage , smoking preferances,political opinions,

interest in movies, eat out etc etc

one could go thru profiles of prospective user profiles before pressing one for a date.

after a few silent nos and some unwilling messages, one could hit on a party who will say yes.

after Going out with some towards whom one could at best have sisterly/brotherly feelings ,some can hit on the Gods gift for lovelorn souls

so for true romance and love , log in and try.lol

courtesy HT brunch of 5th oct 2014

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Krish Sir,

Talking about cyber lovvu?? Yesterday my cousin was telling me an interesting real story! ( how can real be a story?!!)

A guy and a girl were romancing for three years, messaging by cell phone. Ultimately they decided to meet in a hotel
to talk in person. Alas! They were brother and sister living in the same house with their parents!! :faint:

They were sending the late night messages from their rooms under the same roof! :lol:

 

[krish44]

yesterday , our PJ sir had posted a you tube link to ' Wi fi' a tamil short film based on same theme

friends try to get access to a boys email/wifi account posing as a girl living in his opposite house and capitalise on that.

they discover to their horror that the girl had already done that before them and got access to the boys account. and cheated him

jokes apart , this type of online relationships sometimes can lead some to decent working couple matches.

it is much better than arranged matches with horoscopes and status based matches .

 

[renuka]

I have been telling a distance relative who is an divorcee to go online to find a new husband but she does not want too and is still unmarried.

I know many people have got married after online dating.

But online dating too has contributed to divorces!LOL

I know about 2 former "lovers" who met again online and divorced their current spouses and got married!LOL

So somehow online dating does lead to marriage..1st or 2nd!LOL

 

[renuka]

Many people even hook up on Facebook.

I wonder how many hooked up in Forum?LOL

 

[krish44]

There are some sites for Gays alone like Grindr, Planet Romeo.

Men had disappointment when they found out that Six pack men turned out to be five footers actually as they had not verified the height before meeting..

One point all made was they discovered themselves due to matching exercise and found out what they really wanted.

Truly Madly is a home grown app which is getting really popular among youngsters.

In india most consider , drinking, smoking, eat veg or nonveg as carefully as money one makes or bank balance or the locality you live or car you drive.

Truly Madly considers all this and matches one perfectly

Starting with chatting with increasing frequency ,one could gracefully move to dating one a month , to coffee every day and beyond that. A lovely scenario

How many TBs will opt?

 

[krish44]

Many people even hook up on Facebook.

I wonder how many hooked up in Forum?LOL

I thought I was providing an escape from the Forum.lol

 

[sarang]

A utube video of this documentary of indian boy and girl was in circulation three years ago.

Dear Krish Sir,

Talking about cyber lovvu?? Yesterday my cousin was telling me an interesting real story! ( how can real be a story?!!)

A guy and a girl were romancing for three years, messaging by cell phone. Ultimately they decided to meet in a hotel
to talk in person. Alas! They were brother and sister living in the same house with their parents!! :faint:

They were sending the late night messages from their rooms under the same roof! :lol:

 

[sarang]

this type of online relationships sometimes can lead some to decent working couple matches.

oftentimes to disasters and punching!

 

[CHANDRU1849]

Dear Krish Sir,

Talking about cyber lovvu?? Yesterday my cousin was telling me an interesting real story! ( how can real be a story?!!)

A guy and a girl were romancing for three years, messaging by cell phone. Ultimately they decided to meet in a hotel
to talk in person. Alas! They were brother and sister living in the same house with their parents!! :faint:

They were sending the late night messages from their rooms under the same roof! :lol:

How did they not know the mobile numbers of each other? May be a story.

 

[Raji Ram]

Many people even hook up on Facebook.

I wonder how many hooked up in Forum?LOL

Not at all possible, Renu!
We can only do :fencing: in this forum.

 

[Raji Ram]

Chandru Sir,

They sent messages by FB account and never talked to each other!
This story is possibly real and not a reel! :decision:

 

[renuka]

Dear RR ji,

I know many couples who got married after knowing each other on facebook.

Chats led to romance and the rest is history.

May be Forum should have a section for matrimonial chats...may be that will help some bachelors and bachelorettes hook up.

 

[renuka]

I thought I was providing an escape from the Forum.lol

You are one lucky guy....you have a "fan club" following every step you take.

Its as if all your "admirers" are singing this song> I will Follow him!LOL

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"I Will Follow Him"

I will follow him, follow him wherever he may go
There isn't an ocean too deep
A mountain so high it can keep me away

I must follow him
Ever since he touched my hand I knew
That near him I always must be
And nothing can keep him from me
He is my destiny

 

[krish44]

Thanks renukaji
that was considerate of you
Krish44

 

[krish44]

returning to subject of the thread

Let me share the experience of a tambrahm girl 32yrs single registered on Okcupid.com. she is delhi based with parents in a south indian metropolis.She is in a senior

position in a publishing house with a degree in english from prestigeous St. stephens college delhi, lived couple of years in newyork.Her parents also had a love marriage.

When she wanted to get married like other girls in twenties , her parents laughed and said it will happen at appropriate time. they also confessed, they did not know how to

go about it as they had a love marriage

She decided to date on her own 50 men if she could find that many to find her ideal man. She has been to locate only 15 suitable for dating in 3 months.she has posted her

photo and profile on facebook.and Okcupid.com. she feels the upper age limit for marriage is 28yrs and she has missed the bus.her specs for ideal match .. 4 yrs older, over

6' tall,passion for latin america and. being a 'tambrahm' is a plus point. any takers in this forum?. she says her basic requirement is her partner should not destroy her life

.

when she was talking to a mint reporter in a cafe , there was a dark tall man with atheletic legs industrially typing on a laptop who could be a tambrahm without caste

marks and no thread showing under the shirt she admitted that she would not mind going with him on a date if possible.lol

this is based on an article in the mint of 11th oct 2014

 

[krish44]

another interesting story - a girl inching towards 30 gradute from delhi univ working in high profile company 60000pm with car bought with own money, holidays in europe,

with active social life with300 friends onfacebook and 1000 on twitter. she is a high caste hindu from north

she is resigned to a life partner thru arranged marriage.

Her father created her matrimonial profile on shaadi.com, shortlists the guys. her job is to go to coffee shops to meet them

her father created her profile , photo shopped her photo to appear fairer than she was..

when she protested at bad choices of parents her mother shut her up saying that' I too did not want to marry your father because of his looks. . you would not have been

sitting here if I had not agreed to it'

Her father mails her moble no to prospective groom who adds to whatsapp for online chat before real meeting in a cafe

She has met four men.
first was a HR guy who had lied about his height and also said he was cool about firing people. horrified rejected him

second a foreign returned man who said he was looking for a daughter for serving his parents. she used the F word for him and walked off

third one a well heeled guy with SUV and house was good to talk but looked like a gay

fourth was an army man barrel chested with a clipped accentposted in some contonment at a border town. she would have to sacrifice her job to be with him. she would

have nothing to do other than paint and read.she found him good company and preferred to go on rides with him but would not dream of marrying him

She says her parents would be horrified if they learn she is having fun with a guy with no intent to marry under any circumstances.

so arranged marriages are as difficult to pull off as love marriages.lol
courtesy the mint 11oct2014

 

[renuka]

she feels the upper age limit for marriage is 28yrs and she has missed the bus.her specs for ideal match .. 4 yrs older, over

6' tall,passion for latin america and. being a 'tambrahm' is a plus point. any takers in this forum?.

I have no idea if any bachelor here is over 6 feet with Latino Good looks.

As far as I know the best looking TB in this forum is already married!LOL

 

[CHANDRU1849]

I have no idea if any bachelor here is over 6 feet with Latino Good looks.

As far as I know the best looking TB in this forum is already married!LOL

Below 6 feet LOL