Do you really think only people of your generation talk about Dale Carnegie's principles because you saw his book in your younger days?
Actually Dale Carnegie training that started in 1912 is very much alive among even millennial population.
I know many in their 20s take this 12 to 14 week training class, often sponsored by their company.
Please see this :
http://www.dalecarnegie.com/about-us/
" Dale Carnegie Training is represented in all 50 of the United States and over 90 countries. More than 2700 trainers present Dale Carnegie Training programs in more than 25 languages."
I was only referring to winning friends in the forum LoL. You may be loved and respected by Renuka Madam perhaps but is that enough? Mr auh being family does not count !
Anyway back to the human nature to want to surrender - your version does not add up at all for me.
Q1) why would a creator of this whole universe, want the lowly beings created to 'come and surrender to him' ? If you do on your own, why? what are you afraid of?
Q2) What is left back when your "I" is surrendered. Do you have a replica of "I" still with you in which case what is this surrender all about
If you dont want to or dont have an answer it is OK.