I am astounded that a medical professional can even comment that "if you behave the rules won't apply". So one should "behave" or expect to be stoned to death, body parts chopped off or be beheaded in a public square with people clapping and cheering! Excellent, absolutely capital! You glorify this country, its law and order and expect people to stomach it just because your spouse is working in this "glorious kingdom".
From quoting Manusmriti, we take a gigantic leap and land straight on a tome of "Bhagwad Gita" where Lord Krishna states that "changing the human body is like changing clothes" with a bit of help, of course, from the Saudi Jallad.
I just stated that my wife, despite being a progressive woman, would find the very thought of wearing a Hijab and an Abaya repulsive. In this she is not alone. I speak excellent Hindi and Bengali like a native. I have criss-crossed the country several times and I can authoritatively state Hindu women across the country would find wearing the Hijab and the Abaya repulsive. I never stated that a woman who is comfortable in a Hijab and an Abaya cannot be progressive. You appear to have twisted my comment to suit your own interpretation.
I wasn't comparing you with my wife. A comparison cannot be made, in the first place, without being equally well aware of persons, facts and/or situations. I was merely making a comment. A majority of Hindu women would hate to wear the Hijab and the Abaya. In the case of the physiotherapist's wife, their group comprising exclusively of Hindu women were discussing of how best to dispose of those "damned things" once they returned to India.
The comment that you would probably revel in wearing it was made merely in jest. I wasn't getting personal. You got my goat when you glorified this medieval country with its regressive culture. If I happen to work in Nigeria, I cannot glorify that country just because I am provided armed escorts which is the norm there. One cannot make a virtue of necessity.
Another fact you should be aware of is that a majority of rich Saudis are contained only in their own country fearing extreme punishment. Once they are outside the country, it would be difficult to find a more degraded, perverted and sadistic individual given to every wicked act or deed under the Sun. After the act is committed, the petro-dollars comes in useful to get out of sticky situations.
I take this opportunity to wish all members of your family a very happy and prosperous New Year. No hard feelings, please.
Happy New Year to you and your family too.
We all have to behave no matter we are.
Like in India right now with all the protest..tell me..isnt the public behaving? Nope!
They actually dare fight and beat up police men too and not willing to listen to their PM.
So its very natural for humans to misbehave and some strict laws should be there for crime prevention.
The recent case of the rape of Dr Priyanka..and the 4 rapist cum murderers got shot dead...I was glad justice was served though I do not rejoice the death of anyone be it saint or sinner.
I am sure a lot of people were happy with that decision of the police.
Some would have cheered for all I know.
So you see we only want others to "behave" but expect ourselves not to abide.
In a hot dry weather..the hijab in the Middle east protect's one from the sun and the hijab is only to be worn outside and not indoors at home or even work place.
Some might call anything a "damn garment" if they do not identify with it.
Just like how some view the sacred thread as not in line with their thinking and harm people wearing it.
See what I mean? If we have hatred for something and attached the "damn" adjective to it, it can translate as violence if not checked.
A hijab/abhaya is just made of cloth.
If one doesnt like it just dont wear it..its that simple.
Manu smirti is man written.
Geeta is from Lord Krishna(word of God)....its a lot of difference.
I am not glorifying KSA....it isnt as bad as the media paints it...thats the picture I get from my very reliable source.