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Let us be tension-free!

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Automatic lock for front door is a big headache! By change the door slams, when the only person in the house goes out

to pick up the newspaper or mail, he / she is finished!! So, lonely persons better keep a key in neck chain / poonool! ;)
 
Raji Ram said:
Automatic lock for front door is a big headache! By change the door slams, when the only person in the house goes out

to pick up the newspaper or mail, he / she is finished!! So, lonely persons better keep a key in neck chain / poonool! ;)
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First thing in the morning, open the back yard door. Open the side doors to your back yard.... then it doesn't matter... நாராயணன் வீட்டுக்கு நாலு பக்கமும் வழி....won't work in high rise buildings though...
 
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Raghy said:
First thing in the morning, open the back yard door. Open the side doors to your back yard.... then it doesn't matter... நாராயணன் வீட்டுக்கு நாலு பக்கமும் வழி....won't work in high rise buildings though...
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:welcome: Raghy Sir! Long time; no see!! :D

If I leave the back and side doors open and go to pick the newspaper, a burglar may enter my sweet home! :fear:

This is Sing. Chennai!! The easiest way is to be tension free is to avoid an automatic lock. I did so, though our

carpenter advised to fix an automatic lock!

This happened in our colony a few years back. A mAmA went to buy milk from a shop which was opposite to

their house at 5 a.m. and mAmi was sleeping. A burglar entered their house and escaped with some valuables

from the hall and poojA room, before mAmA returned! :bolt:
 
So sad.. Haven't heard of a burglar in a long time... like 27 years... even that burglar was a kid, had no idea what to steal...

Anyway, when keeping the back yard door open, it does not have to be kept ajar.. it should be closed, not locked..
next option is, to keep a spare key at secrete place, outside the house...
 
Dear Raghy Sir,

Some mAmis have the front door key attached to their thAli; so sacred is the key! :thumb:
 
Raji Ram said:
Automatic lock for front door is a big headache! By change the door slams, when the only person in the house goes out

to pick up the newspaper or mail, he / she is finished!! So, lonely persons better keep a key in neck chain / poonool! ;)
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You may invest in a numbered lock.

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Raghy said:
So sad.. Haven't heard of a burglar in a long time... like 27 years... even that burglar was a kid, had no idea what to steal...

Anyway, when keeping the back yard door open, it does not have to be kept ajar.. it should be closed, not locked..
next option is, to keep a spare key at secrete place, outside the house...
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Hi..
Long time no see.

Welcome back to forum..JD and all.
 
Raghy said:
First thing in the morning, open the back yard door. Open the side doors to your back yard.... then it doesn't matter... நாராயணன் வீட்டுக்கு நாலு பக்கமும் வழி....won't work in high rise buildings though...
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hi sir,

welcome back.....ONCE A TB FORUM MEMBER....ALWAYS REMEMBER IN TB FORUM....any way...hows aus life?...
 
How to find out that a person is stressed?

Here are a few symptoms, which if experienced often, means 'STRESS'!! :ballchain:

1. Troubled sleep; 2. Problem in concentrating; 3. Spells of headache; 4. No interest in intimate

relationship with spouse; 5. Feel nauseous when healthy; 6. Stomach upsets; 7. Feel tired /worn out;

8. Cold / other infections; 9. Disinterested in what happens around; 10. Can't make decisions easily;

11. Quick heart beats / chest pain; 12. Feel low self-esteem; 13. Replay things in mind again and again;

14. Distracted; 15. Constantly worrying; 16. Get irritated with near and dear ones.

Solutions? In the next post! :typing:

 
1. Troubled sleep - Deep breath a few times and think of good events; pray the ishta Deivam and go to sleep. :sleep:

2. Problem in concentrating - Have a strong belief that you can solve any problem.

3. Spells of headache - Say 'cool' often to yourself and stay cool too!

4. No interest in intimate relationship with spouse - Think that your spouse is THE best in the world. :becky:

5. Feel nauseous when healthy; 6. Stomach upsets; 7. Feel tired /worn out; 8. Cold / other infections -

For all the four - Discard all the bad thoughts in mind and try to be positive always!

9. Disinterested in what happens around - Think that you HAVE some responsibilities in this life!

10. Can't make decisions easily - Better to have one close friend, who will help in the time of need. :hug:

11. Quick heart beats / chest pain; 12. Feel low self-esteem - Develop faith in yourself! :thumb:
13. Replay things in mind again and again - Bad events should be forgotten ASAP. :couch2:

14. Distracted; 15. Constantly worrying - One thing at a time and that done well is the best of rules!!

If multitasking is difficult, follow the above rule! ;)

16. Get irritated with near and dear ones - Try to understand that NO ONE is perfect. This will surely help! :D
 
Post by me in வண்ண வண்ண மனிதர்கள்!, which is relevant to this thread:

நல்லவை நினைப்பவர்...

எல்லோர் வாழ்விலும் நல்லவை, அல்லவை இரண்டுமே வரும். நல்லதை மட்டும் நினைத்து வாழ்ந்தால், வாழ்வு

இனிக்கும்; அல்லவை எண்ணி நொந்துகொண்டே இருந்தால், வாழ்வே சலித்துவிடும். நாட்கள் பறப்பது போலத்

தெரிந்தால், வாழ்வில் சுவை இருக்கும். நாட்கள் இழுவைகளாக இருந்தால் அவலம் பெருகும்!


ஆறடி உயரத்தில் நல்ல கொழுத்த சரீரத்துடன், வந்த அந்தப் பெண்மணிதான் என்னவரின் Physical Therapist...

கண்களில் மை; உதட்டில் சிவப்புச் சாயம்; இவை இல்லாத பெண்கள் US இல் குறைவு. இந்நாட்டு நாகரீகம் மாறாத

உடையும், மேக்கப்பும் என வந்து, அழைப்பு மணி அடித்தார். அவருடன் பார்த்தால், நான் 'லில்லிபுட்'தான்!

என்னவரின் முழுப் பெயரைச் சொல்லக் கஷ்டப்பட்டு, 'ராம் - என்று அழைக்கிறேனே?' என்றார். எங்களுக்கும்

சந்தோஷமே; அவரையும் அறியாமல் 'ராம ஜபம்' செய்வாரே! ஒரு மணி நேரத்தில் ஐம்பது முறைகள் பெயர்

சொல்லி அழைத்தார். தன் உருவம் பற்றிக் கவலையேபடவில்லை; தான் விவாகரத்தான பெண்மணி என்பதையும்

சகஜமாகச் சொல்லி, தன் முன்நாள் கணவரின் நல்ல வழக்கங்கள் பற்றி மட்டுமே பேசினார்! சின்னச் சின்ன

விஷயங்களுக்கும் சந்தோஷப்பட்டார்! நான் வீட்டில் அணியும் 'குஷன்' செருப்பை, கார்பெட்டில் வைக்கவே

மாட்டேன். அது மரத் தரைக்கு மட்டுமே. அதைக் கண்டு, 'எனக்கும் இந்த வழக்கம் இல்லாமல் போனதே' என்று

கூறினார். உடற்பயிற்சி வகுப்பில், குட்டிக் குட்டிக் கதைகள் சொல்லி, நம்மிடமும் கேட்டு, சுவாரசியமாகச் செய்தார்.

எங்கள் whale watch புகைப்படங்கள், விடியோக்களைப் பார்த்து ரசித்தார். எல்லோரிடமும் காணும் நல்லவை

மட்டுமே பேசினார். மிக உயர்ந்த பெண்மணி.


இவரிடம் கற்க வேண்டிய விஷயம்: நல்லவை நினைப்போம்; அல்லவை மறப்போம்!

:decision: . . . :peace:
 
Early bird catches the worm! :thumb:

Better we too get up early. especially when we have more odd jobs to do and leave the house for some get-together,

or to catch a bus/ train / flight, in the morning! :)

Some mAmAs visit the restroom a few times, to 'download' (sorry to use this word for fun!!) in 'instalments'!! :nod:

Ladies need to make up their face and pack up items for eating on the way! Age makes us 'slowchanAs'. So, it is

always good to set the alarm at least 45 mts earlier than the time we plan to get up and avoid last minute tension!

Also, remember to call the cab driver a few minutes earlier to the departure; their delay will build up our tension. :rant:
 
Tmt RR

Just peeped in today to say "Hi" to all.

Met Dr Ross a couple of times. I've been terribly pre-occupied - forgotten my TBF password.

Hopefully, I'll get some time now and can witness some Tom & Jerry sparring - 2017 edition

B Rgds
kept me from
 
A list of 'Things to do' is always very helpful - be it preparations for a family get-together or shopping.

If we have the habit of noting down which items are to be bought, in a note pad, it will be very useful

when we go for shopping.

BTW, when my son was a kid, I bought two magic slates - the one on which we can write with any blunt

tip and rub it off by moving a lever - one for him and one for me, to write odd jobs to be done on the day. :cool:

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Courtesy: Google images.
 
Tmt RR

Nice idea, but you have to remember where you kept the slate !

You are famous for your 'phenomenal memory' - now, go and search for the slate
before the students come for the music lessons.

Happy searching :wave:

Capt VT
 
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