Well said Ma'am,
Discussions should be "samvada" as done in Gita. It enriches knowledge, but when it turns to argument, it creates friction, that results in heat and fire. Then silence is certainly golden.
Regards,ray2:
Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.
dear Sir,
Namaste! ray2:
A good question makes a person think and he either
DISCOVERS the answer to the question posed or
DISCOVERS the fact that he already knows the answer.
So a healthy exchange of ideas and knowledge takes place.
When only hot words are exchanged, only anger and hatred get exchanged.
In Bhagavat Gita, it is Arjuna (equated to a calf)
who makes Krishna (equated to a cow) bring forth
more and more knowledge (equated to the milk of the cow).
If the calf does not drink milk the cow will stop producing it eventually.