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Married but single: TN has highest proportion of singles

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Married but single: TN has highest proportion of singles

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CHENNAI: Tamil Nadu has the largest proportion of people who are either divorced, widowed or separated. Nearly 7.9% of the married people in the state are living without a partner, according to a survey by the Census department. In comparison, 5.2% of the married population in the country is single.

The Sample Registration System (SRS) report for 2013 says 13.1% of Tamil Nadu's married women are living separately and a majority of them are in rural areas. In a stark indication of gender disparity, the report says only 2.5% of married men in the state are without a partner. Nationally, 2.5% of the married men and 8.3% of the married women are single.

Experts say one of the reasons for such a high percentage of married-but-single people in the state is the age gap between the couples. "Generally the age difference between the partners is huge. The husband is older to the wife by five to six years and will die before her, leaving her a widow," said population expert P Arokiasamy. In rural areas, the men are usually elder to their wives by at least four years. Earlier, the difference used to be 10 years or more, he said.

Another reason is the better life expectancy among females in the state. "Female life expectancy is better than male life expectancy in the state. Most women are widowed after 60 years and remain single," said Arokiasamy. This is highlighted by the fact that less than 1% of the single women are divorcees, he said. The other three southern states -- Karnataka, Kerala and Andhra Pradesh -- too show a similar trend. While 7.3% of Kerala's married population is single, in Karnataka the proportion is 7.1% and Andhra Pradesh 7%.

Experts say migration too is a reason for more single women in Tamil Nadu. "Many men from rural areas leave their homes in search of work in far-off cities and don't return home, deserting their families," said K Nagaraj, former professor at Madras Institute of Development Studies.

According to the report, if only population above 10 years is considered, 3% of the men and 15.4% of the women are single in Tamil Nadu has. The national average for this category is 2.9% for men and 10.1% for women.

SRS is the largest demographic survey in the world, covering about 1.5 million households and 7.52 million people. Apart from the large sample size and geographical spread, the system has a unique feature of dual recording, which involves collection of data through two processes — the continuous enumeration and retrospective half-yearly surveys. The system provides a cross-check on the correctness and completeness of the events of birth and death listed by the two independent processes, said the census department.

Married but single: TN has highest proportion of singles - The Times of India
 
LOL! Ha Ha Ha..I thought TN boasted the most of Kannagis!
Well Kannagi was married but single too!
 
the singleness of ladies is mostly due to higher life expectancy of ladies and migration of men alone

for jobs. divorce is only among a few educated middle class. others simply desert their spouses and

vanish.
single ladies living in urban and rural spaces without adequate support structures is a new

phenomenon. more ladies seem to prefer that to living with others.
 
the singleness of ladies is mostly due to higher life expectancy of ladies
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krish Sir

This Survey is based on Couples separated after marriage, not because of longevity of women.

Many are living apart in the same city , (even after they have their own sons and daughters) because of various reasons. This is very sad.
 
hi

many singles are working in arab countries...some are in singapore/malaysia from tamil nadu....many ladies prefer to live as single

after some yrs of marriage...now a days womenfolks are well educated with highly paid jobs...so they want FREEDOM FROM

HUSBANDS...THEY DONT WANT LIVE AS SLAVES IN THE IN LAW'S HOUSE....many more will come....SINGLES CAN MINGLE EASILY..LOL
 
hi

many singles are working in arab countries...some are in singapore/malaysia from tamil nadu....many ladies prefer to live as single

after some yrs of marriage...now a days womenfolks are well educated with highly paid jobs...so they want FREEDOM FROM

HUSBANDS...THEY DONT WANT LIVE AS SLAVES IN THE IN LAW'S HOUSE....many more will come....SINGLES CAN MINGLE EASILY..LOL

tbs Sir

did you read OP?

this is not because husbands are working in far away places like Arabian countries or Singapore!!

It is because of differences between them on various matters.

 
tbs Sir

did you read OP?

this is not because husbands are working in far away places like Arabian countries or Singapore!!

It is because of differences between them on various matters.

hi


read my other lines too.....

many ladies prefer to live as single

after some yrs of marriage...now a days womenfolks are well educated with highly paid jobs...so they want FREEDOM FROM

HUSBANDS...THEY DONT WANT LIVE AS SLAVES IN THE IN LAW'S HOUSE...
 
This would have been the same scene back in the good so called ancient times too.

It is just that these days people are bold enough to walk out..in ancient days people were forced to suffer and bear everything under the joint family roof.

So its not that the situation has changed its just that people are not willing to suffer anymore.

Just like people feel homosexuality is on the rise these days and it was not so prevalent before..the truth is homosexuality was always there...just that people lead a dual life back then and now people are more open about it.

So frankly speaking Indian marriages were never as tenacious as thought to be..it was always the same.
 
Couples face differences in the course of their married life, but separation is not the solution;The after effects of their separation on their children is too huge and even the immediate families are affected.
 
Couples face differences in the course of their married life, but separation is not the solution;The after effects of their separation on their children is too huge and even the immediate families are affected.
what do couples live for?

not to make immediate relations happy.

if couple cannot be happy in a relationship, relations have a far fetched idea that couple should

continue to suffer in bad marriages to make relations live a comfortable life. it is like onaai upstream.

telling goats downstream not to pollute the river as he is affected.

Many hide behind children to continue in abusive relationships all life

it is mostly fear to accept the consequences of break up and inability to live independantly.

most waste away their lives because of do gooders around them who frighten couples of

consequences of break up.lol
 
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